7/10, been sleeping with her a couple of months.
She recently told me that she likes being tied up. She prefaced this by asking if there was anything I wanted to do. I guess that's good but my tastes are fairly vanilla so I couldn't think of anything that we don't already do. I guessed that she was only asking because she wanted something in return so I got it out of her; she likes being tied up.
Now, I've never done this before, and honestly nothing about it appeals to me. I've always just considered bondage weird, even the less extreme aspects like simply being tied up.
I'm having a hard time deciding what the proper response is. I'm leaning towards doing it because I probably won't find it as strange and unappealing when I'm actually doing it. Part of me also thinks I should just nut up, stop being a pussy and fuck her rough.
Plus I'm fairly young and I imagine that this is something that I will encounter frequently in the future so I should just get over it now.
On the other hand... I'm uncomfortable with it. It's not alpha but there it is. I also don't like the idea that I'd be doing something I don't like just for her.
Having written this down I feel like I may be making a big deal out of nothing. What do you guys think? And do you have any advice for when I actually do it?
Thanks.
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