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I have a question, cold reads are kind of cheesy. What are some more James Bond suave cold reads?

plzbefreeusername

October 15, 2015

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Title	I have a question, cold reads are kind of cheesy. What are some more James Bond suave cold reads?
Author	plzbefreeusername
Upvotes	6
Comments	3
Date	October 15, 2015 6:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3ottuv/i_have_a_question_cold_reads_are_kind_of_cheesy/
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[–]WayOfTheGentleman 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]plzbefreeusername[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]WayOfTheGentleman 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The need to come up with amazing conversation is still putting yourself in a position where she is the wonderful princess sat up on her pedestal, and you're the poor beggar man who needs to impress her.

How hard do you think she is trying to come up with amazing questions to ask you about your life?

Those 'boring' questions are fine topic openers. It's where you direct the conversation from there that sets you apart. It's your ability to go deep and pull out the stuff that other men can't find.

Also, it's not just the words you say that distinguish you from other men, it's how you carry yourself, your energy, the way you move, the way you speak, the way you look at her. It's the subtleties that tell her 'this is a MAN unlike the others'.

That's far more powerful than conversational jujitsu.

That said, it doesn't hurt to have conversational skill either. This recent post of mine may help. Although it's about bar game, the one about statements rather than questions is something you can apply (you'll need to watch the video as well):

http://www.wayofthegentleman.net/3-quick-fixes-for-your-bar-game/

You're right about the cold read you said...that does sound super cheesy. I prefer to say something about her personality. If she's loud and in your face, she's a bad girl who will lead you astray. If she's more quiet, shy and reserved she's like an iceberg - 10% above the surface and 90% below. Most people only see the 10% and have no clue about what's below. That statement really intrigues them.