Sorry for the throw away account. So I just got back from a trip home, I do not live in the same state as any of my family so I try to go see my mom 1-2 times a years. I also have friends in the area that I grew up with that I see when I travel back home. I also tell myself that you only get one set of parents and nothing you do will change that. To top it off my mother has always been a bit "jewish motherish" and a bit odd but caring in her own way. Also to paint a picture her and my sister do not talk for some stupid reasons, this has been going on for 5+ years. It's always odd going home and seeing how things changed. My mom is in her 60's and is getting married for the 5th time in her life. From what I can see this is the perfect example of "beta bucks" the guy has dr. money and supports her, basically she works for the health insurance and 401k but lives in a huge house and drives a audi. I would say seeing her take my Dad to the cleaners when I was a kid made we red pill and never want to get married before I knew it myself. I am over 30 so I do not give a fuck who she marries or how she lives but it's eye opening on how much money and resources some of these women demand. It makes me not want to buy into the system because even if I had that amount of money why spend it like this. Deep down I think she knows that whole situation fucked me up, she still tries to paint her self as the victim to this day. She has offered to pay some of my monthly bills but I have always declined because I make enough money these days I would never want anything held over me. She divorced her last husband [way after my Dad] because he lost his job [and income] but was making mega money before so I doubt there could ever be any loyalty. It's funny seeing all of this with the knowledge of the redpill. I guess it takes more money to buy a womens loyalty the older you get? I fully understand the nature of women and it is what it is but it's eye opening to look at this kind of setup up close but from the outside.

Sorry if this is the wrong subreddit, I truly thing this belonged in /r/asktrp. Also sorry for the mother bitching I know it's beta and all but it is what it is and we all have family that we need to deal with in a RP way.