About me: it takes a lot for me to be physically attracted to a girl, it takes a hundred times more for me to be attracted to a personality, so many things are turn-offs. In college now.

Story: Met girl at bar, got lukewarm reaction. Met her again a few times and started getting crazy IOUs but also really cold reactions randomly in between (she was saying things like I don't want anyone to get feelings for me). I'm assuming it was her own defense mechanism for not getting her heart broken.

She has been a lot colder recently, and hanging out a lot with another guy. Unfortunately, after last week, like the title says, I had the feeling of one-i-tis starting...to the point where I was considering not going out because she wouldn't be there...stupid.

So the two questions: 1. Someone hit me with a one-i-tis killer 2. Someone hit me with some knowledge on how to get the girl (especially now that there is competition)