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| 1 | Holy fuck, some of the guys you see in the RSD community..You're right, the woman is also at fault. What I would like to make clear is that I'm "targeting" those guys in the RSD community, maybe not all of them but the ones who say the dumb shit like "Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score" or the ones that just try to get up in peoples relationships for some sex. I guess I'm just using common sense in saying that it's wrong to help a girl/guy cheat on his or her girl/boyfriend. It's difficult for me, or anybody to explain why it's … | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 11:56 PM |
| – | Holy fuck, some of the guys you see in the RSD community..It goes under being a decent person. Just because you don't know somebody, does not mean that you should not care about hurting them. I don't think everyone that fucks a girl with a boyfriend is a terrible person because sometimes it just happens in the spur of the moment. It's the guys that actively try to hook up with a girl with a boyfriend. I just believe that there are plenty of girls out there, so why would you cause somebody grief for some sexual pleasure when there's already so much to g… | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | she misses someone elseLet me tell you a story. About 3 years ago I fell for my best friend, and she had a boyfriend, and her boyfriend was also somebody I knew and liked as a person. I always hung out with them as the third wheel, and they would kiss, makeout, but they loved me and wanted me to stick around. They always invited me out, on their dates, to movies, whatever. Her boyfriend and I became best friends but I still had intense feelings for her. Sometimes, halfway through being the third wheel I'd get sad and … | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 05:15 AM |
| 3 | she misses someone elseKinda messed up and difficult to read, however if you like your best friend then the best solution is to heavily distance yourself. She knows you like her, she isn't interested. If you stick around you're just going to feel like shit about her, so stop talking to her so much. Go meet other girls, hit the club, day game, tinder, whatever and just have fun with that and forget about her for a while. Perhaps one day when you're over her and realize she isn't who you want, you can talk to her again … | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Here's a list of reasons why you should delete TinderTinder isn't solely for getting laid but that is a nice addition. Tinder doesn't help with facing rejection, but it gives you experience when going on dates, which helped me with confidence knowing that I was an interesting, likeable guy to the girls I dated. Through tinder I made a lot of female friends at my university, and they gave me so many fun experiences, and I also found a few of my passions because the girls referred me to clubs around campus. Overall it added so much to my life, and I… | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How much contact after setting a date?Message her whenever something interesting happens. Or just text her whenever you actually want to talk about something, like a normal person. Just don't appear needy. You're a busy guy, you do cool hobbies and shit, text her back in between breaks and stuff. After I started dating my girlfriend, she told me my texting algorithms would make her jump at her phone whenever I texted her, because it was pleasant and surprising to finally get a text. I'm not saying you should time your texts, but if … | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:15 AM |
| 0 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?I'd say it went wrong at the casual conversation part. That's boring. I give zero fucks when texting, and I couldn't care less if a girl texts me back because I would rather be doing my own thing and not in my phone so I'll quickly ask her when she's free, maybe I'll send her a funny text every once in a while of something silly that happened and I'll put the phone down. Having said this, some people love texting and that's totally fine, but boring casual conversation is simply boring. Ask her o… | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:10 AM |
| 3 | If she's hooked, challenge herLove the making up wild stories. I have so much fun doing that, and I feel like that's so important. Having fun with yourself will get you results, and if not laid, it'll get you a friend which should be a goal as well. Female friends are awesome. edit: you know what i mean by "having fun with yourself" | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:05 AM |
| 2 | [Case Study] How to Get Laid on Tinder (Pics & Proof)Oh my god. | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 05:27 PM |
| 4 | I just had an epiphany about tinderI agree. Tinder turned my life around, oddly. I used to think it was dumb and didn't bother with it, I was almost embarrassed. When I finally got it I was lining up 3-4 dates per week and making some great friends, go to parties, hookups, etc. Eventually I actually met my current girlfriend on Tinder. | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Why are you into seduction?Seduction essentially taught me how to be a man and less of a bitch, give less fucks and be able to unconditionally be myself. I started about 1 year ago as a 19 year old virgin. Met one girl with the knowledge from here and that turned into a shitty 2 month relationship but it helped me to understand women more and correct mistakes. Because of all the knowledge I gathered here I managed to date about 12 women in no time, and got laid 4 times out of those 12, good ratio there, and finally I mana… | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Afraid to use Tinder because someone might recognize meYou might recognize someone that's using tinder, big deal. Learn to not give a fuck about little shit like this. | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 04:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Fuck yes. 2 date F-Close from a shitty date.Yeah, I had another date that night. It was my second date with another girl, it worked out alright, we made out, I got a blowjob but I'm not sure why I did it, I wasn't even that attracted to her, she's very, VERY cocky. As for how many girls I get, a fair amount. On a good week I might be able to line up 4 dates (tinder / daygame), but I'm absolutely SICK of dating these days so I've taken a break and am pretty much just seeing the same few girls week by week. Pretty consistent sex and intimac… | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fuck yes. 2 date F-Close from a shitty date.For the sexual inexperience, I 100% believe it. I experienced the inexperience, first hand. | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fuck yes. 2 date F-Close from a shitty date.Not sure if I mentioned it in my story, but she has had sex for a total of about 5 seconds. (excluding me) Also, what she said was her and her girlfriends grab lunch and eat it while parked somewhere under a clear sky, or she made that bullshit up to get me to a parking lot. I also feel like this girl is a huge introvert, I haven't seen any sign of males in her life which concerns me. She should get more guy friends. | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do when you're absolutely fucking sick of dating?Yeah | /r/seduction | 17/03/16 04:25 AM |
| 7 | Can you ask a girl if you're wasting your time?This post reeks of insecurity. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Mission #4 of 10 for overcoming approach anxietyThat's why I put it in quotes. Eventually you want to be able to directly approach instead of indirectly. | /r/seduction | 13/03/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Mission #4 of 10 for overcoming approach anxietyTry this. Approach with a charismatic "Hey, how's it going?", followed by introducing yourself. From here, gauge how receptive she is, if she's very receptive, continue on into a conversation about something fun. Not very receptive? Say that you just wanted to know the time. Thank her, have a great day, leave. Do this until you feel like you're over the fear, then go into actually approaching and being genuine instead of "cheating" like this. | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 06:30 AM |
| 0 | Why Tinder Sucks!I like tinder. Made 4 good friends off it, fucked 3. Out of 11 total dates, kissed 9 of them, but the issue is that it's a lot of hit or miss. The only reason I kissed these girls is to improve my ability to just fucking do it, not because I wanted to, so I usually don't end up texting them again, but the 4 that I do still text are great. Having 3 FWB is great. The odds are good. | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 04:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Dates like these are what make me want to keep doing this.HAHA, oops. Not even going to edit that. | /r/seduction | 04/03/16 03:26 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Dates like these are what make me want to keep doing this.Would've loved to, but sadly I live reallllly far away from her campus and also she lives with her parents. It's fine though, she's a cool person so the sex can wait. | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I asked out 100 women in real life and got 14 numbers and 4 dates. I asked out 100 women online and got 0 responses. Online dating is a fail.Not entirely. I've been using Tinder for about a month and I manage about 6-10 matches per day. I can turn most of them into numbers, and from there into dates. Putting in girls that flake, and girls that don't respond, I can easily get 2-3 dates off tinder per week. I've had good weeks where I'd have 4-5 dates in a week just from Tinder. Granted, I do live in a city with one of the top 20 universities in North America and a big college campus. So online dating is definitely working out amazingl… | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 05:31 AM |
| 1 | U.K. It's impossible for an ugly guy to be treated as a person by girls....Far from ugly my friend. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm really bored of this.You might not be wrong. I don't really feel excitement or pleasure from things in general anymore. I'll see. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Cute younger co worker gave me her number without me asking.Leaving her in suspense for a bit is good, just don't take it to the point where she takes it as complete disinterest. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 08:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm really bored of this.That's good, because I'm not asking for your pity anyhow. If you want better success with women and with life in general, work for it. I simply don't like how I'm finding sex that's pointless. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 08:26 AM |
| 2 | I'm really bored of this.Good point. I'll work on being more selective. | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm really bored of this.I feel like I want an LTR, mainly because the girl I dated back in December was a really good match for me. I fell hard for her and that's how I lost her, but the way we acted towards each other, the disgusting puppy love is something I miss haha. I thought I had oneitis for her but after we ended it and I started to fuck a lot and see so many girls and still think about her a lot, it's probably more than oneitis so yeah, I'm probably better geared towards relationships but I'll still try going … | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm really bored of this.The last part that you mentioned about getting detached from the outcome, I understand that perfectly. I feel it too, I was thinking about it, that the fact that I just don't give a fuck right now will make things a lot easier for me. | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm really bored of this.Maybe I'm not a player at heart, or maybe it's just a phase. I guess I'm just tired of the process of getting with a girl. The dates bore me so much, I don't actually care about meeting anybody right now so maybe you're right, I should cut back. The only issue is, my hobbies so far maybe take up 2-3 hours per day. The gym, and my guitar, video games are another hobby but they're not going to help me develop in any way. Or maybe there's a bigger picture to all this, because as I'm thinking right … | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle yourself if you're catching feelings for a girl?I feel like I'm there. I haven't caught feelings in a while since I got rekt a lot this and last year. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle yourself if you're catching feelings for a girl?Yes, right. This makes sense, craving Ginger Ale right now though. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 07:13 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Success on the bus, failure in class.All it takes is overcoming the AA, 100%. I'll still never forget my first cold approach which ended in sex. I actually walked out of the venue, then I was mad at myself for not doing it so I went back and asked for her number, she invited me to her place as I asked for her number, had sex. If you don't do it, nothing's gonna happen, so do it. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 01:13 AM |
| 2 | How do I smoothly transition from a casual conversation to making out?Oh boy. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How do I smoothly transition from a casual conversation to making out?I love when girls are talkers like that when I'm trying to kiss them at my place or her place. It's the easiest thing, you have the right stage. Last time this happened the girl was telling me all about her pet rat while I was about 2 feet away, I just inched closer as she talked. gazing into her eyes, nodded a bit as she was speaking to acknowledge, and then let her finish while I was really close, and then we started to make out. You just need to do it, your eyes will say a lot. No words = ins… | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Weird Tinder date turned into a nice eveningI'm with you on that one. I would say it with more of a jokey vibe, but yeah usually if they're being brick walls I'll let them know as nicely as I can. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 03:54 AM |
| 4 | (My first!) [FR] Barista First Date: Long walk, getting her to show her tattoos, first kiss transition to f-closeThis just goes to show how much you can receive by having a few seconds of bravery. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Saw an interaction you should never want to be in.Why not? He's approaching and you're sitting there watching him. Don't be the guy that stares at people and judges them from a distance to make yourself feel better. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | The Tinder texting dilemma.Agreed. There's lots and lots of girls on Tinder, don't waste your time on one, cut right to the chase. If one doesn't work out or is giving you a hard time, swipe right again a few more times. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 04:48 PM |
| 6 | My Tinder OpenerNo. You probably don't date much if you think like that. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 09:39 PM |
| 6 | My Tinder OpenerMy first message was "um Elise" and she responded with "yes" then this: http://m.imgur.com/bMzI7Kc Honesty works best on tinder, rather than stuff like "Netflix and chill?" If a girl wants to Netflix and chill, she will tell you. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Playing a slow game with this one.. (tinder date)I disagree, I go through maybe 4 girls per week, usually either a k or f close and a second date. This girl is just really odd. Awkward, nervous, shy, tells me she doesn't like guys who are too forward but I just went for it. In terms of dating girls who are very reserved and completely inexperienced, yeah I kind of suck at that. I like girls with more confidence. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] -Mall game with #-closeHAHA good line about forgetting her number. I missed an opportunity once where I could have used something similar. I was trying on clothes at Winners, cute blonde girl working, tried on clothes and gave her the ones I didn't want, she took the ones I wanted too and I said "I want those." and we both laughed. Walked away, forgot my headphones there so I went to grab them, looked at her, said "I want these too." and she laughed again, I should've gone and said "I also want your number." but I did… | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out picking up girls alone after being out of the game a while, multiple rejections of one girl and a # close of the other.Julien is an RSD instructor. | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 10:22 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Went out picking up girls alone after being out of the game a while, multiple rejections of one girl and a # close of the other.Try not to say "smirk" so much in your interactions, it might come off as weird. | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 10:20 PM |
| 2 | As a guy, what do you want in a Girl?Confidence, open minded, outgoing, not easily offended. | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 10:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First non-tinder date in agesYou don't need to follow exact rules, if you don't like high fiving you don't need to, but just make sure you're touching her because that's what builds attraction. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First non-tinder date in agesIt's fine man, mistakes happen. She isn't the last girl you're going to date. If you do get the second date, know what your mistakes were and apply what needs to be applied. Kino is easy, find a reason to hold her hand (if she has nail polish, if she's wearing a ring, if she has a bandaid on, fake nails, there's so many reasons), high fives, shoulder touches, all of these are innocent. My favourite is complimenting their pants. I'm a very athletic guy, and 90% of girls I go on dates with are wea… | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | When you get the k-close, it's a perfect date, yet she goes very quiet?I have Drivers Ed on Saturday, I don't want to skip it for a girl especially since I'm paying big money for it. Should I call her tonight, or would a text be better and ask if we're still on, or should I save the phone call for tomorrow morning? | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Field Report No.: 1 - SaturdayRight on, very well done. I have a very tough time with social circles, so good on you for being able to use it to your advantage. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 04:20 AM |
| 1 | [Challenge] Go out and ask a cute girl for the direction to the next post box - try to keep the conversation as long as possible!Does this challenge still work if you ask her to the nearest coffee shop/mall/restaurant, etc.? | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [Success Story] Practice Makes Perfect!5 numbers in 2 weeks? Right on, you're now a master seducer. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Picked up a girl for the first time. (F-Closed)Yep, that's what they're for. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Went on 3 dates with a girl, was going really well but now gone quiet, lots of mutual friends to reticent to leave it where it isMight as well just call her. You've given it 5 days, worst case scenario she isn't interested and you move on, but what if she is very interested? Just go for it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Have a tinder date tomorrow, and SHE's picking me up... Need adviceYou could say something came up and you'll meet her there, or tell her to knock on your door when she gets to your place then greet her with a friendly smile, a hug, and then walk with her to the car. Don't mention anything about how it feels weird that she's driving. Just have normal conversation in the car. The hug will develop a level of comfort, you've gotta go for it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Kiss/Hand holding during first date if I have already made out with her at a party?What the fuck. 2 days ago, and you're already talking about a girlfriend? Just hold her hand and kiss her if you want to, even if she gets down and sucks your dick at the shitty cinema date, you're still not ready to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Slow down, you're emenating neediness. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:14 PM |
| 13 | I managed to get a girlfirend, now what?If she is your girlfriend and you're still too shy to kiss her or hold her hand, maybe you should have waited longer. Be a man, take the lead, stop asking for permission. If you want to kiss her, kiss her, for whatever reason. Want to hold her hand? Hold it. You guys are apparently boyfriend and girlfriend now, and to top it off you're in the honey moon phase. You should be all over each other, so stop wasting it. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 09:50 PM |
| -1 | How do you respond to a girl feeling bad about cheatingNope. Don't waste your time with a girl already in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 01:24 PM |
| 5 | 99.99% of us will fail. A big picture reminder for if you truly, TRULY want to succeedI will never stop watching anime. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 07:00 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to a girl feeling bad about cheatingTell her that you don't want to waste your time. Leave the toxic relationship and stick with you, or you're out. Really, don't fight a relationship that's in place, give her the choice of you or him and don't waste your time sticking around and hoping for something that may not happen. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Accidental experiment: do girls prefer bigger guys or model looking guys.All of the shit you said in your post is in your head. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Got a number, now what...Being normal can get you a lot farther than you think. Text game is fragile, which is why everyone here will boast that you should keep texting only for logistics. They're right. She might text you throughout the week, text back normally, actually be yourself, if you're not the witty type of guy over text, don't try to be. I assume you texted her your name, or she texted you hers. Send her a text, say hi, ask her when she's available to grab lunch, dinner, coffee, drinks, whatever. If your conve… | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Overthinking half-bad last date?That "don't want to fuck it up" mentality needs to go. You should pick the dates based on what you want to do. Don't ask "Do you want to go to this place?" "Where would you like to go this weekend?" No. "Let's go here." "I've been wanting to try out this place for a while, come with me." etc. That's better. Also, you've been on two dates. Saying you "think you really like her" is a bit of a stretch. You don't even know her. It's all in your head. If you're lucky enough to get the next date, be m… | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Accidental experiment: do girls prefer bigger guys or model looking guys.Lol what are you even saying | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring.This is pretty true. Same with if you're having fun, she's having fun. What you feel, she feels, etc. but sometimes the girls are just fucking boring and that's inevitable. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 05:14 AM |
| 1 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibeAlthough I disagree with you bringing a girl to the movies unless you've already had sex with her, I do think you should go anyway. Becoming friends with a girls friends increases your odds a lot, make her friend(s) LOVE you. You can flirt with her friend, or you can play the sweetest guy ever card and be a total sweetheart to her and kill her with kindness. She will talk about you later in a positive way and it may even make the girl think about you, and think that you have high value and are a… | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Old college tricks: be the wall fly (counter-intuitive)I like approaching more. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 07:43 PM |
| 4 | I've been a lurker here for a while now. Last night, I said "fuck it" and went up to a cute girl. I got her number, now what?I usually text her while she is standing in front of me, then I set up the date during the interaction. I always set up the date in person when I can. If it has to be through text, just text her something funny about the interaction (this is also why inside jokes are important during an interaction in person) and then have some buffering small talk and ask then ask. I choose to be very friendly and a bit witty over text, whatever makes her feel safe to go out with you and then you can escalate f… | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 07:32 PM |
| 3 | What's going on with me? Being in love vs choosing a disciplined fun wild lifestyle in a way is that unrealistic porn induced fantasy? Please...I read the entire thing and didn't understand. Read the tldr and still didn't understand. Work with me here. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about approaching girls?You are so overthinking this. Stop thinking prior to an interaction about how it's going to go. Just go up and tell her you want to get to know her in your own words and don't worry about the outcome. If she rejects you it's never personal because she doesn't know you. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about approaching girls?Opener doesn't matter, just go up and say something. If she's sitting down, introduce yourself, if she reciprocates, sit next to her and then let those natural conversational skills kick in. She might totally shun you which is fine. Best part about all of this is that you can leave whenever you want. Just open. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 09:50 AM |
| 3 | how direct can I be to girls?As direct as you want. Experiment, just approach girls and say what you want to say. A lot of guys go with the simple "You're cute, I wanted to get to know you. What's your name?" Stop thinking about lines or anything, just look at a girl and think "Hey she looks nice, I think she might be interesting, I'm going to go say hi and get to know her." then go. Also, keep in mind that every girl you don't approach is a missed opportunity. My first f-close ever was simply because I asked a girl for her… | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 08:58 AM |
| 6 | Kissing on a date?Yes. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it awkward dating a shorter girl when you're tall?Not at all. My manager is 6'7 and his girlfriend is like 5'2. A lot of guys dream to be 6'4. Trust me, it's fine and nobody thinks anything of it. | /r/seduction | 01/01/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How does game change when you're looking for a relationship, rather than hookups?So, essentially do everything I've been doing, dates, k-close, f-close but instead of stopping after you get the f-close, just keep going? | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 07:19 PM |
| 2 | New Years Eve/Day NightgameI'm planning on going out alone on NYE since my friends want to stay home and play CS:GO. I hope I don't peace out in the first 20 minutes like I did yesterday. | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | A playlist full of cringey, failed cold-approaches by "Gary the Blasian." Can we together break down what he's doing wrong?This stuff is making me feel really good about myself. Very happy for him though, because he's getting out there and working on improving himself. Respect to him for that. I'd love to see somebody start from being bad to being great. | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Never assume someone's out of your leagueand the girls name. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How did you take the first step from reading about pickup, to actively approaching girls when out?When doing this, try to add self amusement to it. I personally like to be over the top dramatic. Something like "WOAH, those are some DAMN nice shoes!" Really helps getting into state. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm on the fence about going out alone tonight. What are some tips to going out alone that can encourage me?Yep, that's the plan. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 10:05 PM |
| 1 | So I'm good at pushing, but how far can you go with pulling before you seem like a pushover?It's odd because I posted an FR about our first date. Went amazingly, got the k-close, she was excited for a second date, she put it in her calendar in front of my face and was very hyped about it all. Second date, she was giving off bad vibes. Bitchy, didn't seem happy at all. I was very uninterested in that personality right there, so I did a lot of pull. She opened up a bit at times but then went back to bitchy. I didn't want to deal with it so naturally we decided to end it. She said we coul… | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Never assume someone's out of your leagueWhere specifically in the Caribbean did you go to? | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How did you take the first step from reading about pickup, to actively approaching girls when out?Know that rejection cannot be personal because the person doesn't even know you. Start small if you have to. My first real approach was indirect to a girl who worked in a clothing store. She ended up being 16 and it got awkward really fast, and in the moment you hate the awkwardness but you'll laugh about it after you leave and realize that it actually means nothing. Go indirect for starters, that was my move. Gauge her personality, does she seem introverted? Is she more outgoing and fun? Listen… | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Girls love being approachedI accidentally approached a 16 year old but I swear she looked over 20. She wasn't happy at all. :( It was really uncomfortable so it helped me become more desensitized though. :) | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Mississauga, Toronto, or the GTA Meetup in OntarioNot really, but if you want you can add me on facebook and we can keep in touch and when I'm there in the future I can hit you up? | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Mississauga, Toronto, or the GTA Meetup in OntarioI'm 20. Not very experienced but I'm alright. I live in London, ON but if we can plan it properly I'm down next time I'm down in TO. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 06:30 AM |
| 3 | What are some romantic French lines that I can say to French girls?I can speak it but I can't spell it. :( | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 04:02 PM |
| 4 | What are some romantic French lines that I can say to French girls?Vous les vous couchez avec moi. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you recommend Tinder for a guy who is a virgin?Nope. Just smiling. | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you recommend Tinder for a guy who is a virgin?Couldn't really do anything about it that's just my facial structure. | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Would you recommend Tinder for a guy who is a virgin?Would I use this photo for Tinder? http://imgur.com/Sjn9oWQ Some people might say it's overkill, but the question is, is it? | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Instagram dateJust ask? Not sure what's even being asked here because you mention DMing her over and over again, so go ahead and DM her. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | De-pedestalizing my oneitis hurtsTrust me it's nothing. I've had oneitis far too many times this year, and each time I move on completely because I find a new girl. Just having options will help you realize that the last girl wasn't special at all. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for making out?You want to be very slow. Open your mouth a bit, touch lips, slowly, close mouth slowly, and hold for a bit before repeating. Throw in some tongue here and there, and I always bite their lip occasionally. Slowly is key. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 07:44 AM |
| 5 | [FR] K-close. Hell fucking yes.That's just a complete lack of confidence. Sounds like you need to work on yourself first before approaching. Hit the gym, enhance your style, travel, get some hobbies, make new friends, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 06:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you approach two women?"Women cannot resist a demonstration of your social insight." Too true, and it's not even women. People love hearing things about themselves, and talking about themselves. Great point. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 04:23 AM |
| 6 | [FR] K-close. Hell fucking yes.I hope I can do it. I love my job, so when I went to the date with her after my work I was in a really upbeat, happy, talkative mood. I'm hoping to replicate that mood for our date. Will definitely hug and kiss on cheek, very charming. We'll probably stick with dinner and since she's the driver, how could I ask if her house is empty so we could go there? Her parents aren't home often and I am very attracted to this girl, and I can tell she's attracted as well but is it as easy as "Is anybody hom… | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What's your go to response to "How do I know you're not a murderer?" when talking to people you haven't met in person yet.First part is lame, but I do like the "Don't be ridiculous I wouldn't bring my axe on the first date." | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, a question about /r/NoFap and /r/PornFreeAre you seriously saying that guys who masturbate have a harder time getting girls than guys who don't? | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with a girl over text/facebook who you havent spoken to in like 2-3 months?Just say "what's up fammo been a while" | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?Holy shit that Manson line just changed my life as I read it right now. | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 05:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it?I used to think that I wouldn't do it, and then I ate my first pussy and it was tasteless and I am like, addicted. How I feel about it? I got lucky with a clean girl but otherwise as long as this girl and I have been having a good night and she seems cool I'm all for it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 05:45 AM |
| 8 | Field Report - The power of eye contact and smile.Eye contact is amazing. I was flirting with a girl while I was at work and at one point while I was explaining some of the deals we have after we had developed a little friendship right there I looked her in the eyes and she wouldn't look away so I was talking and my words were naturally getting slower and she started to giggle, I felt such a high. I knew I had to ask for the number so I did and then found out she was an 18 year old mother so I nexted that shit real fast. | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Girls who can't continue conversations?I straight up tell girls if they suck at conversation. I don't say it in a rude way, but I put a funny twist on it. Enough for them to laugh and validate themself, and also enough to know that I'm not kidding. | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 06:57 AM |
| 12 | finally went for it. (27 Male)Wait what.. What age difference? Help. | /r/seduction | 14/11/15 02:40 AM |
| 4 | I smell a virus coming along and tis called one-i-tis. I want to smash it before it infects me (still want to be successful with the girl). Details within.No you are fucking not. | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 06:35 AM |
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