I get so many numbers, but getting the dates is the hard part..

SmoothPrimal · 2015-12-22T10:47:24+00:00

If you haven't been rejected you must be pretty smooth. I usually get some blow outs when I do warm ups. When I get in the zone it lasts for a few days of getting numbers non-stop then I get burned out and take a break from texting several girls and dating.

Getting the date requires that you keep them intrigued after you get the number. If you make it too easy for them obviously they won't be intrigued anymore. You have to hold something back and tease them.

steffbenji · 2015-12-22T08:45:22+00:00

Dude it's great you are getting phone numbers and text replies, I think you should take your text game to the next level, here's a video made a while ago by RSD Julien check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWSf0CAwUlc

and this one is made by Max : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGHD_lrZlkE

Hope this helps

J_Dilla_ · 2015-12-22T11:32:34+00:00

Quit the "text game". If the interaction went well, she seemed receptive and seemed up for a hangout, go home that night and RING her, note RING not text to arrange a meeting ASAP. No text game needed, it's a waste of time and effort due to the fact you cannot escalate properly through text as well as the fact it's much more fun to conversate, flirt and escalate in person where you can see them and touch them. As well as that, far too much is out of your control through text. They have all the time in the world to reply, whereas in real life they must give instant replies, so you can dictate where the convo goes...though text a woman can read your text and put down the phone and come back to it hours later in a completely different mood. That just doesn't happen IRL. Phone calling is better because you're talking to her "live", it's a real convo.

Ditch the text game, it can take years to master, you don't have time for that. I am quite proficient in text game myself but I never use it. The only texts I send to girls are "you still up for ______" or maybe a random text like "Just thought of you...hope you're wearing something nice". I keep all my virtual conversation with women to phone calls or snapchat where you at least can see the girl through selfies...much more intimate.

bazzlebrush · 2015-12-22T14:03:44+00:00

It sounds like you're having the same problem I had recently with a girl I liked, and who liked me. I wanted to ask her out, but I tortured myself with questions about how I should escalate things before I ask her. I got completely stuck in my head and I didn't end up sending anything back to her for a few days. From her perspective she was left hanging for several days for me to reply, when I should have just grabbed the bull by the horns and asked her during the attraction phase.

If she's replying to your messages quickly, then you're winning. She's already into you, you've done the hard part. Just pick up your phone and ask her, wether it's over the phone or text is irrelevant just do it. Stop thinking just act.

JakeApproaches · 2015-12-23T19:20:40+00:00

Arrange a date during the interaction. Then exchange numbers.

Title	I get so many numbers, but getting the dates is the hard part..
Author	mmmzesty
Upvotes	9
Comments	5
Date	December 22, 2015 8:35 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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