I've been with 4 girls in the past only, hooked up with one of them, made out with one of them, one of them sucked and I dropped quickly. Very little sexual experience, but I've kissed a few good times. There's my dating background. Only FOUR girls including the one this FR is about.

Here's how it went down from the beginning: I saw her while I was working and I beckoned her over to grab a sample of what I was peddling (it's my job haha) so she came over and I started to talk to her. She was receptive and cool, I thought our interaction was good. She seemed to be about to walk away every now and then but I'd manage to pull her back in. Interaction was very smooth, she hit me with a "girls dig aggressive guys." so I just said "Okay, well give me your number." so she very quickly gave me it.

I text her, set up a date as quickly as I could, and she agreed for today at 8 PM. I was honestly expecting a flake, I didn't even text her once in the 3 day gap since we met so I wasn't even expecting her to care anymore. So she was totally down, she agreed and as soon as we met I gave her a hug, something I never would've done before because I thought it was too out of place since we're basically just meeting, but it worked out just fine and felt totally natural, awesome. It's Christmas Eve so nothing is open so we went for a walk and found a bar that was luckily open even after close and the owner was kind enough to let us stay. We talked for a solid 1-2 hours without pause, I'm good at conversation and so is she so we really hit it off here. I was going to sit across from her but then I told her I don't like that and sat diagonal. Kino was good, she told me about her painted nails, so I grabbed her hand and looked at them. Asked her about tattoos and she told me where she had them and I'd touch her body where she said they were. Some on her thigh, her hip, etc. She also showed me a naked picture of her side tattoo. She mentioned jokingly how she doesn't wear underwear so I said "ooh" and slid my hand down her leg towards her vagina but didn't think it was right to go for it. Also, she was wearing silk leggings so I randomly brought up how I liked them and she said "yeah they're so soft!" so I started to touch them and agreed, and I was basically just rubbing her leg and I saw she was totally cool with it and opened up a lot more. So there was good kino, eventually it got to the point where her legs were in between mine and we were kind of lightly rubbing them against each other. We had to leave eventually so we went to walk to her car, I didn't see an opportunity to hold her hand, I wanted to but I just couldn't bring myself to do it but next time will be easy. So got into her car, talked a little bit, got to my house and I set up the next date right there because it's always complicated through texting. She booked me in her schedule, and I looked at her for while then just said "come here." Damn, she kind of lunged. Instant reaction, jumped in her seat, ready for the kiss. We did a quick 15 second makeout, I pulled away first because the kiss was so good I could've kept on going for fucking hours but didn't want to seem needy, she was really quiet after the kiss, kind of shy. I was a little bit but then I made it super casual and said "Alright, see you Tuesday then?" she was all "yep, see you then, for sure haha blah blah". I gave her the chips she bought and she was ecstatic and excited for them so I left, told her to have a great night and walked off. Got a text from her 5 minutes later saying "You're a great kisser!" and that made me so happy because I've kissed only 2 girls but I did kiss them a lot and they taught me a lot about it because I was never too good, but after getting that I was super happy about it. Definitely went very well, I don't see how it could've gone better. Obviously an f-close but we both live with family (we're only 20 and 21.) but lots of potential for next time when our places are empty.

Also, quick question. How do I make the second date as good as the first? Good part about this is that on our first date everything was closed so we were forced to walk in the cold and find a shitty bar to sit down in and talk and we still had a great time. I invited her out to eat on Tuesday to my favourite breakfast place so we will have a good environment but how would you make the second date more interesting and fun? I'm good at conversation, kino escalation seems to be working pretty decently in my favour, at least for this date. What else can I do to make things better?

Also, here's some inspiration for those having issues approaching: Fucking do it. I walk past HUNDREDS of girls on a daily basis, and SO DO YOU and each girl you walk past, you have the potential to fuck, marry, date, whatever. You're just not getting any of those opportunities because you're not approaching. My job has helped enlighten me to this because my job literally forces me to approach people on a daily basis, and EVERYBODY here tells you to approach because it works. Just fucking approach that girl. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."