Some background, I'm fairly successful. I have 2 FWB at the moment and a lot of friends in general. I have a great job as a salesman, and I use Tinder to get dates on the side because I'm a good looking guy. I get 10 or so matches per day, so I manage to get about 3-4 dates per week, usually I book about 7 dates per week but half of the girls will reschedule or flake. I'm also a guitar player, avid gym goer, and I know how to have fun.

Anyhow, I've realized today that I'm bored of this lifestyle of dating. I date a lot of girls and yet I don't feel it going anywhere. I fuck them usually, but I think I'm getting tired of the meaningless sex. I'm only 20, I'm so young yet I'm seeing a good amount of success, but I'm just not feeling it and I don't know what it is that I want. I feel like I'm getting to the point where I want something real, but as a 20 year old I feel like that's too much to ask. Do you guys ever get bored of this dating / fucking life? I've got another date lined up tonight at 7 but I am dreading it. This girl is really cool, she has been texting me, she's pretty, she's into it but I just feel like it's another thing I have to do. The only reason I'm doing this to myself is because if I can develop myself socially in any way, I will, so that includes going on this date.

I don't know guys, I'm just super bored of this entire pickup thing and I don't know what to do to spice it up. Tired of getting numbers, getting dates, and just fucking and I don't want to sit around and wait for it to come to me. What do you guys do to spice things up?

Also, should I start doing NoFap? I'm really not getting horny as often as I'd like to anymore either, but I fear that if I stop fapping I'll bust super fast. I don't know.