Need some advice on this girl. Im relatively new the TRP, been reading for about 6 months and trying to implement it into my life.
Started last year when I was training for my 2nd dan black belt. Im an instructor at my martial arts club. Have my own kids class, and mentor a lot of people. Im 27, turn 28 next week. I was in the training zone and training hard when this new 8/10 Russian 23 year old QT joins my club. She catches my eye, but gotta train and didnt talk to her for months.
One day we were sparring and I got put against her, I faked and caught her with a jab right on the bridge of the nose. Blood and tears. Got a text the next day from a random number,
Her - "My nose still hurts :(" Me - "Shouldnt of headbutted my fist". Text back and forth for a while.
Went back into my shell leading up to my grading, and after the xmas holiday break we had a training camp. She came along and we really hit it off. We sorted out a date and went out twice. Just a quick pash at the end of the second date, but she was weird afterwards.
Had private sessions with her because she was grading ( yellow to green ), flirting etc. And then told her that I wanted her, then she drops that she has a BF and that we should stop. So Im all wtf, and she says that she has been with her bf for a few years and that he helped her out at her worst so she has to stay loyal to him. I leave.
Leave for a week and go away travelling for a week to Sydney, drink and have a good time. Come back, and she gets an A-pass for her green belt grading and tells me she owes it all to me.
Last thursday, she hands me a red box with a thank you note and a bow wrapped around it. I open it when I get home, full of protein bars and cookies. She knows I eat and train a lot. She texts me asking what I think. I respond with, Me - "Its an amazing gift, I just want to know what you meant by it." her - "what do you mean? its a thank you gift and I like giving people gifts". me - "K, thanks, its very thoughtful". her - "now I feel like an idiot for giving it to you".
Do i have a next move here? What is it? Do I just ignore this and move onto the next girl? Ill most probally see her at tomorrow nights training.
Some advice would be appreciated.
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