Alright so before I start,a little background about me : I am an Indian dude,living in India. And after spending 21 years in this country I can tell you that this country is mildly conservative.(I said mildly because it isn't as bad as china or even some orthodox middle east countries).It still is quite hard to meet women,if you don't already have a predefined group of friends or a social circle(which i lack thereof). Also it should be noted that sex isn't as openly discussed in India as opposed to the western countries.Now,I certainly don't consider myself the smoothest of the guys on this sub but I have had a few hits after I started following the seduction lifestyle. I recently met a cute girl through my best friend,which happens to be a woman as well.*Now I can't stress how important it is to have one female friend who you do not bang*. They introduce you to a lot of girls and the new women you meet will automatically find you nice and friendly if you are already friends with one of her friends. I meet girls in this manner since meeting a completely random guy from the streets is viewed upon as creepy where I live.They often misconstrue you as a threat.

 

Now coming back to the story,I met this cute girl over a month back(my friend introduced us and she was also in the same class as me) and we started teasing each other back and forth from the moment we met. I got her number the same day we met and started texting each other and eventually went out with her for a movie date. Now a lot of guys use cinema halls as the perfect place to escalate but it just isn't my style. I like to be more head on about it and usually when we are hanging out at my apartment or a more chilled out setting. So long story short it was a fun date and i def broke the touch barrier and closing the date with a nice hug. She thanked me for the movie and offered to pay for her share(which i really appreciated).

 

Fast forward a week,and her birthday was coming up and I thought this would be a perfect opportunity for me to show her a good time. I asked her if she had any plans for her birthday and she said none. So i invited her and a couple of our mutual friends to my place so that she can have a little party. She said "OK". Allright so the day comes and everyone is drinking at my place and having a good time,and i was pea-cocking hard. I usually strictly go by two steps forward one step back rule. So she invited me to dance with her and I start escalating her. Now on a normal day i wouldn't have escalated her in front of other people,but she was looking smokin. I forgot about my one step back rule,but i certainly didn't come on too hard. After everyone left she was still sitting on the couch close to me. We are taking selfies,and my hands are on her thigh,rubbing her gently..I can see that she likes it. I was going to go in for a kiss and my best friend goes like we have to go get something to eat. Now on the way over me and the cutie started teasing each other as usual. I joke about her not having a job,she tells me i look like a 18 year old virgin dude since I shaved etc etc(which was completely normal). We eat and I drop off my friend at her place first.

 

After dropping my friend off I got nervous for reasons unknown to me,and asked if i should drop her as well and call it a night. She said NO and wanted to go for a long drive in the woods. I was a bit shocked since as we drive the girl tells me she had never been with a guy before,a definite virgin,and she goes as far as telling me she hasn't even kissed a guy,EVER. I got even more nervous,thinking i would def hurt her if get physical with her.So she asks me to pull over at a spot for "selfies". I was like ok,and between taking selfies i started escalating her again. Hand on her thigh.rubbing it.. looking at her,then pulling back etc. And then I went in for the kiss. As i went in, she says...."I am sorry,I can't do this... JUST DRIVE please". And now I should tell you we were atleast 50kms from the city I respected her decision and drove back. With silence looming us for atleast 20 mins. Awkward dead on silence. I did try to lighten the tension by cracking silly jokes but nothing. I had never been in the position where someone who presumably wanted to get sexy with me instead chose not to. It took a huge hit on my confidence,but I convinced myself that she wouldn't have kissed anyone that night. She kept saying she is weird and that she is sorry.

 

I honestly have no clue what i did wrong,And now I am travelling to South Africa next month where i plan to meet some women but this incident has taken a blow to my confidence. If it would have been flat out rejection,I would have understood,but I hate the fact,she cock-teased me and then left me wondering if i did something wrong.I also feel guilty that maybe she is a conservative girl and I shouldn't have gamed her from the beginning. The next day she texts me,it didn't happen because you shaved your beard. I WAS LIKE THE FUCK.

PS: Sorry for the wall of text. Just thought I would share this incident with the rest of y'all.