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[–]palmerd21 10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's ok to feel whatever you feel as long as you can control your ACTIONS. Feel your type of way, stay present and let that feeling pass, then continue with what you were doing. As long as you don't do anything stupid like send an I miss you text or why aren't you responding etc. You will be fine.
[–]cattywampuscatfish 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not op but I needed this, thank you mate.
[–]theflupke 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You should learn meditation, its really good for this type of feelings. It makes you look at what you're feeling, question it, and be more aware of your own headspace.
I used to feel needy but now I always keep myself in the moment, never planning ahead or expecting something from people. I just enjoy the present time for what it is and never have expectations anymore and it works really well.
If I'm with a girl and it's amazing, I always keep in mind that it was in this present moment, nothing more. I'm just glad to have spent an amazing time and if it doesn't go anywhere, that's life, and I never take it personally anymore. It works quite well at not making me needy.
Also, there is no shortage of pretty and awesome girls. "The one" doesn't exist, it is you that make it up. It this particular encounter doesnt work out, I assure you you'll find someone else and it will be just as great to be with her. I think once you'll see this for yourself, you'll be a lot more detached about things, and believe me, I struggled a lot with this before, I think it's just something we have to go through in order to grow as men.
My advice is, look at things without expectation and enjoy life for the present, because the past and the future is not reality!
[–]Wh0r3b1tc4 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Solid.
[–]palmerd21 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck yes. Great reply op take notes
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