Hello, Made a throwaway for this because my usual reddit name is known to some of my social circle. If this is the wrong place, please let me know where to post.

What is the best way to get my buddy to see the light that he is getting beta bux'ed really hard?

Quick background: My buddy got married fresh out of university. While still in university, he transferred from a good school (Canadian "Ivy League" - chill you elitists, not why I'm posting lol) to one less suited to his studies just to be in the same city as her.

The usual. She's totally got him pussy whipped. He got a matching tattoo that... DIDN'T MATCH hers cause she never got one.

Fast forward... he's left the country with her, abandoning a promising law career to follow her while she completes a bunk degree with no job prospects overseas.

While over there she starts a feminist / "social justice" blog (holy fucking shit kill me it burns my eyes to read). In the blog she posts godawful man-hating shit interspersed with pictures of nfl draft picks, Jaime fucking Lannister, and Stringer Bell (already Stringer was a total pimp).

I don't need to keep going cause you all know where this is going. She mentioned to two people in our social circle that she was getting married 'just because' and to one other that she wanted to try to get smashed by burly dudes before she got married. I can't confirm she did, but she probably could and my guess is will sooner or later (sooner).

So... what CAN YOU say to a guy that is not seeing this? The problem here is this. One of our other mutual friends has already tried to bring up some of this stuff to no effect. I would just start anonymously dropping TRP material to the married guy, but I'm afraid it would actually blow back on the aforementioned mutual friend. Any ideas? Last ditch effort? The married dude was once a promising mawfucka and now it literally kills me to see this shit unfold.

editing: for grammar, clarity, missed words (sorry late and i'm caffeinated)