Hey people! Sorry for the long post.

Im checking in after I first started reading this subreddit, 5 months ago!

 

Who am I? - I'm a 25 soon to be 26 yo from somewhere, who has recently finished his degree and has started to work. I will probably change from the work I have now sooner rather than later so Im still on the move. I have dated like 2 times for short periods (less than a week in both occasions).

 

Who happened? - Well, in the last 5 months I dated a girl for about one month and had a 1 sucessfull date with another gorgeous girl. This alone is not that sucessfull I know, but nonetheless, it was the best period of my life so far in the dating world (not all of us can have it big).

 

What i did? - Well to be honest in both situations I didnt do THAT much. I mean, I was still the one calling the shots but mostly I was just someone who had this situations arising and trying to get the most of them.

 

1-One of the girls I met while with some friends. I tried to be friends in that particular week with most guys and girls arround her, and tried to make her notice me. It worked but was hard as hell, and she just didnt want to let it out with me, only after some persistence and some luck together with some good posture on my side was I able to get her good. We talked and during the talk I went very sexual and intimate with her asking questions like "What you like to do as a hobbie", "What makes you happy in life", "You have a face looking like that actress/personality....", "What is your favourite color ..." and so on. After a while she had bambi eyes, so I know she was hooked, then was time to pass to plan B, wich was getting up and walk a little, to stop her, and kiss her from nowhere. Could made it better, but time wasnt on my side. Still learned some thing that ninght like dont waste THAT much time talking, 10 minutes alone talking is enough.

 

2- The second girl wich lasted a monht, was a lucky move. I happened to send her a message from nowhere in facebook and she started calling it back. - Made the mistake of not kissing her on first date, tought it was all ended, but then I eventually booked a 2nd and sealed the deal with just 20 minutes in. Still one of my best times so far XDD, just kidding brahs.

During this time ive been reading "Models" from Mark Manson and I recommend it right away. Its the only book you need, you will understand it when you read it.

I ended thing with girl number 2 at like 1,5 months. I didnt like her that much but think i treated her good. I learned alot from her and made sure I got the experience in dealing with women i needed from her. She was also alot into me, wich was very nice to feel, and makes me kind of feeling good and keep on this business.

 

Im now focused on getting a new experience, and also leveling up my life, cause im kind of lonely nowadays with all of my days being home-work, work-home, and living with my parents (got to get out).

 

What I learned? - I actually learned alot about women, me and the way people interact in the last 5 months. This journey has been like 1 of a kind, and i can only thank to God for the luck ive got in the last months, but still want to get better and find someone who I love, and I know I will have to try and fail until I get that.

Dont be afraid of saying intimate thing once you are talking with a girl. Most of them like it anyway.

Dont be afraid of talking to a gril no matter what. Ive been trying to fix this issue on me and the signals from outside tell me exactly this.

Try to get a good location(area of residence) and a good circle of friends. This is the jackpot, believe me.

Lastly but not least, Im in the process of trying to get rid of negative people in my life. Not that i dont like them, but its just that im a positive person and dont want to get dragged away to the negative pitt.

 

TL;DR: Inexperience guy gets a good 5 month worth of dates after getting more social, not having fear to risk and still on the path to getting more experience. We all gonna make it brahs!