Is it possible to get a girl to be your wingman and to sleep with her at the same time?

getRedPill · 2015-12-27T23:32:30+00:00

Indirectly, yes, every girl is your wingman unknowngly. Directly and knownly, seldomly.

memizex · 2015-12-27T23:14:53+00:00

I've only experience this with girls that are diverse, meaning they are Bi. Make a friend with a Bi chick, have her bait and switch or wait till she/they invite you. Play coy with the entire situation like you really don't give a fuck. Because the moment you do, it's either 1 will push you out or both will push you out.

Also, you would need to earn the trust of your "fuck buddy" big time. Like pure friendship that seems pretty evenly balanced.

yokhai · 2015-12-27T23:39:32+00:00

Yup. I had that in college. A friend of mine would wing for me and if we were both alone at the end of the night, go home together. We knew we wouldn't work out as a romantic couple so we stayed FWB and just had a ton of fun together.

So it's possible, but it's rare.

GangBangStyle100 · 2015-12-28T10:19:11+00:00

Yes and No.

She can be around you and increase your chances of pulling, but at the same time if you are sleeping with her; she is a lot more likely to be the cock block.

You can't beat a good female wing, but it just sucks when it's a cockblocking wing. The type that starts acting like your GF when you are opening a good set.

2015-12-28T17:10:11+00:00

It took me a while to realize that a fuck buddy is really just a girl who is in love with you but knows she isn't hot enough to keep you interested in the long term (at least in my life).

So should you try to use these poor women to help you pick up other women? I would say most of the time no.

The one woman in my life who always wanted to hook me up with other woman was quite a bit more than a fuck buddy -- we actually had a very deep connection both in and out of the bedroom. It was insanely easy for her to throw women my way because she was a perfect 10 and had nothing but good things to say about me. In the end, this "arrangement" had more to do with her innate inability to commit than anything I did. I never trusted her enough to be in a long term relationship with her in the first place, so it worked out well enough.

But yeah, a man cannot make a woman this way. It something that is ingrained in their psychology from a very young age through abandonment, abuse, etc. If you market yourself as a player or a rake, you will end up attracting more of these women. If you market yourself as a lover/boyfriend material, you are unlikely to run into these types of women as often.

TylerMerry · 2015-12-27T23:17:27+00:00

Yes, but with draw backs. Main issue with this relationship is you are automatically friend zoning yourself(or in female terms f**kboy), this means- if the girl sleeps with you, she will emotionally detached herself from you. This can be good or bad depending on your long term intentions. - from my experience- don't ever reveal your intentions or agenda to any female. Keep them in a zone of uncertainty and confusion, this keeps them interested

Title	Is it possible to get a girl to be your wingman and to sleep with her at the same time?
Author	innitgrand
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Date	December 27, 2015 10:45 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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