Sudden change in behaviour from my successful date

matrix2002 · 2016-01-05T15:39:15+00:00

You need to meet more girls.

If you find yourself waiting on one girl when it is this early in the relationship, you need to meet more girls.

She is probably dating a few guys and decided the other guys were worth her time more at the moment. You may come back in in a month or several months, who knows.

But don't ever sit around and wait for a girl like this. You texted her twice and no response. That's your answer.

pickuptips1 · 2016-01-05T15:17:37+00:00

just try and be chill about the situation. Things change and life is unpredictable.

Is it a good sign that she is acting like this? Not really.

Is it too early to really know for sure? Yes.

My advice: Just do not text or call her until she reaches back out to you. Keep moving on. If you don't hear from her in like two weeks, then maybe send some playful text.

blind_zombie · 2016-01-05T16:37:08+00:00

Don't be so formal. I can tell by your thread post that you may have been a little formal and a little to cordial with her. I get it, you're a nice guy and you don't want just sex. But you need to show her you mean business. If you're too nice then you go in the back up pile, where they will text you when they are desperate because they know you'll still be waiting cuz you're so nice.

If you show her you mean business, then she will right away see that you are not wasting time sitting around for her, if she doesn't want to take it further and be more serious then you are the type of guy to move onto the next one without giving her a second thought. Shows you're in control and wont let her mess with your mind.

Don't use terms like schedule and date, just be straight up with her. And word your text in a way that it makes it seem like its your last attempt, its casual (which usually means lets get freaky ie netflix and chill), and YOU're free. Not that you are making time for her, but you have a window of time that you are going to be bored in and are trying to fill it with her.

Lastly, don't get stuck up on her responding or not, once you've been dating long enough you'll realize that shit doesn't matter. And I definitely wouldn't give it a second thought considering this all happened during the holidays. She's probably busy, everyone is.

Good luck and maybe get on Tinder, to get more practice to loosen up and just have fun.

Title	Sudden change in behaviour from my successful date
Author	questionclub63
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	January 5, 2016 12:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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