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| 12 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation? | Marriage/Children | matrix2002 | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 01:53 AM |
| 5 | 21 year old pregnant girl decides to abort. Anyone see this? | matrix2002 | /r/MensRights | 03/02/15 10:24 PM |
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| -6 | Are straight white men actors/models represented fairly in advertising? Like billboards, sides of a bus, etcYou are an idiot. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/23 08:37 PM |
| -2 | Are straight white men actors/models represented fairly in advertising? Like billboards, sides of a bus, etc[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/MensRights | 22/09/23 08:37 PM |
| -11 | Are straight white men actors/models represented fairly in advertising? Like billboards, sides of a bus, etcYes, there is definitely a reversal of probably close to 100 years of discrimination. Before, white people were given almost all advertising gigs. Now, it's pretty much the opposite. The goal of advertising is to showcase how diverse your company/product/brand is. To be honest, I don't really care. Let those asian, black and hispanic actors all get opportunities they have never gotten before. Marketing and advertising is all about image, so I don't see the harm. Now, white women, on the other ha… | /r/MensRights | 22/09/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | What do we think of H. Pearl DavisJust another moron addicted to attention. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Let’s talk about how society targets young men with performance and work insecurity, similar to how women are targeted with beauty standardsWhen I was younger, and even to a certain extent today, I felt CONSTANT pressure to be productive all the time unless I had just achieved a great success/victory. There is relentless pressure to have more money, be more fit, be more successful, be more charismatic, ect.. Unless you are the most successful, most fit and more charming person in the world, then there is always "room to improve". Now, I still feel it, but I know it's ridiculous, so I can mitigate those feelings to a certain extent. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/09/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Female is the new N word.Come on, this is ridiculous. The word "female" isn't even close to the N-word. There are a small percentage of women that get upset when you use the word "female", mostly online. In the real world, I have never heard about someone getting fired or demoted or ostracized by society for saying that word. Get off the internet for a second. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | My (M30) Girlfriend (F37) questioned wether I am a 'real man' or notShe doesn't know what the fuck a man is or does. If she doesn't think you are a man, then tell her to go find a real man. Or go back to China where she can get one. For real though, this girl sounds crazy. If you are fighting this hard after 2 months, then it's not meant to be. Seriously, you shouldn't have a fight in the first 6 months of being together. Huge red flag if you can't get along in the first few months of a relationship. Move on. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/23 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Best Countries To Live As a Man?It depends on what you want. America is fine if you have a good job and live in a diverse area. Avoid bad women and probably don't get married until you know she is a good person. This is probably true for all western countries. To be honest, I have lived and traveled around the world and the best place to live is the place where you can make a good living without working yourself to death. For me, that's America. I wouldn't know how to make a good living in South America, so I don't think I wou… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/23 09:33 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else uncomfortable working around young women now?No. There are some horror stories out there about guys getting railroaded, but I haven't really experienced anything personally. Unless you figured out a way to work in an all-male company, I don't see how you could avoid working with women. Be nice, be polite, don't make any sexual jokes and don't comment about their bodies or hair or probably any physical features. And that should cover it. The vast majority of people, men and women, just want to do their jobs in peace. If you are a chill pers… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/23 02:38 PM |
| -2 | Am I the only one that gets triggered by "toxic masculinity"?For you, telling yourself that you are toxic is not healthy. Sounds like you could use some decent therapy, preferably by a man. Women therapists struggle with things like this because they haven't experienced anything close to it. In general, I think society hasn't quite caught up to the idea that we don't have to have any violence by men. Men don't have to be warriors anymore. Violence is essentially outsourced to the cops and military. Unfortunately, our culture hasn't caught up to this yet. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 24 | Women oversharing their partners' private lives with their friends - is it a problem? What can we do about it?I agree with OP, it definitely feels like an invasion of privacy. I would not tolerate it in my relationship. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/22 03:22 PM |
| 40 | Feminist alternative reality on Depp vs Heard trialAnyone defending Heard lost all my respect. It's actually a great way to know someone is full of shit. Depp was literally abused, gaslight and publically humiliated for it, yet somehow he is supposed to be the aggressor? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 06:14 PM |
| 9 | Discussion: Not all menAnother counter argument is that men are victims of violence more often than women, so men are actually at MORE risk than women in general. I think what's different from a women's perspective is that almost all men are stronger and more powerful than almost all women. So, from their thinking, it's scary because almost all men are a physical threat. Where as from a man's perspective, we kind of think we have an idea of who is a threat to us. Both of these are not very well thought out, because if… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 11 | I feel like misandry is starting to become a coping mechanism for troubled women.....Lol, men have been told the same shit. She doesn't think men have been told being gay is bad? I mean, men are made fun of from an insanely early age if they even remotely do anything feminine. Dancing- gay Singing - gay Dressing well - gay Throwing the ball wrong- gay Voice is too high - gay Hugging - gay Holding hands in public - gay The list is insane. Men are literally forced to masculine or we are ostracized. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | No confidence/female attentionGo to therapy. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 10 | MGTOW was an absolute shit subredditOh yeah, that place was awful. This is probably the most level headed place to talk about Men’s issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/21 04:31 AM |
| 21 | "Emotional labour" is the term women use when they emotionally abuse men.I think this is why I’m not drawn to super classically attractive women. I feel like their life experience has been so skewed in a way because of their beauty that it would be a bunch of avoiding land mines to keep them happy. Essentially, they will never be happy. But honestly, it’s dumb to avoid these women because there are plenty of ugly delusional women to go around. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/21 09:30 PM |
| 96 | "Emotional labour" is the term women use when they emotionally abuse men.Yes, the man is often in a no win situation. A close woman friend of mine just divorced her husband. The man was an ideal husband. Doting father. Good job. Didn’t work too much. Didn’t have an anger problem. Is in good shape. The man is as close to perfect as you can get. Yet, somehow he wasn’t enough for her. At some level she knows she is being ridiculous and doesn’t know what she wants. I tried talking to her about it, we have been close since we were kids, but I get the sense that she is ins… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many women unaware of the emotional weight of actual labor. You know the type that built the world around them.The irony is that women complain most about Men not communicating well or not being empathetic when women do those exact two things. And when you point this out, they look at you like you just shat a dinosaur. Edit: this woman has taken the lead on all social life and domestic life decisions and doesn’t want to take responsibility for them. She wants her husband to make the same decisions she would but doesn’t want to go through the effort of telling him those decisions. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Yet another example of the effects constant man bashing and assumptions of "privilege" has.Yeah, I am seriously thinking about just making some type of personal rule. I get all worked up almost every day. I am not sure how exactly to structure it. Only at the end of the day? Or at the beginning? Or only on certain days of the week? I don't know, I am thinking about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 11 | Yet another example of the effects constant man bashing and assumptions of "privilege" has.I think people are living way too much online. I recently cut down a lot on my online activities. I don't check reddit nearly as much or twitter or facebook. And it's helped me a lot. Getting vaccinated was, obviously, a big reason for this. Online social media is bad for you. You either follow people who have great lives or you see stuff that is outrageous. Neither is particularly good for your mental health. You are either comparing yourself to others or you are pissed off. I am seriously thin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 5 | On Men, Gender Conformity, and Woke Spaces.For real, anarchists were probably the most elitist people I have ever come across. And there were completely blind to the irony of being in a group founded on completely egalitarian ideas and turning it into a hierarchal group based on genetic identity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/21 04:01 PM |
| 5 | On Men, Gender Conformity, and Woke Spaces.Good point, there really isn't much there as far as the traditional marxist idea of wealth redistribution or even self-identification along economic classes. They are mainly about gender/sex/race politics, which has only a small crossover with socialist ideas. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 13 | On Men, Gender Conformity, and Woke Spaces.The problem I have found within more extreme left wing circles is that it's a discrimination/suffering competition. The more odd, strange or outcast you are, the higher the value to your opinion. So, by being a straight, white male, your level of discrimination is essentially non-existent, which means your opinion doesn't matter. For me, the worst hypocrites are the anarchists. For people that supposedly hyper non-elite and all about everyone being equal, they abide by a complex set of hierarcha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 35 | Double standards around our social messaging for dating, romance, and gender norms in general (why are men always expected to change and be better for women, but never the other way around?)I remember a story about a married man who gave up his band to make his wife happy (because the band was distracting), then gave up hanging out with his bandmates (because why would you need to hang out with them if you aren't in the band anymore?), then gave up playing his guitar (because why would you need to play an instrument anymore?), then proceeded to give up all of his hobbies (to make her happy), and finally only when he found himself hiding extra toilet paper (because she hated how muc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 11 | How did Women and Men both working become an idealI think there are a lot of reasons why women have gone into the workplace recently at much higher rate than in the past. 1) Historical: In Pre-industrial society, women worked just as much as men because the vast majority of people were farmers. So it's not like women have historically not worked. It was only a very small time frame in which the idea was that women didn't work, really from the end of WWII to the late 60's. Before WWII, only a certain class of women didn't work in the traditional… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 5 | I’m turning 26 today as a virgin. So what?All though I am not a virgin, I can 100% sympathize with the pressure men get to constantly be having sex. Even if you are this stud who has had sex with 100 women, if you haven't had sex in the last few months (or longer), all of the sudden you are a loser. I finally was able to stop worrying so much about this during the pandemic. For the first time, there was literally zero justification for society to put that pressure on a single man to constantly be having sex. I wish more virgins and even… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Men, as a collective, gaslight, objectify, and abuse womenGetting banned from TwoX is the least shocking thing. I generally avoid places that don't want me around and that place definitely doesn't want men around regardless of the validity of their arguments. I think what's really worrying is that women are using men as a scapegoat for their own unhappiness. Your happiness is your own responsibility. Even if you are in a relationship, the quality of that relationships shouldn't determine if you are happy about your life. And certainly men as a collecti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 3 | "Men get assaulted and murdered more than women because they beat each other up."Yeah, just change therapists. Don't waste your time with someone who can't empathize with you. She is wrong, but that is not really the point. She shouldn't judge how you feel about something, she should empathize with it because that's what therapists do. Keep changing therapists until you find one that you feel comfortable with. There is this weird stigma attached to finding a new therapist, which, in my opinion, is why therapy doesn't work. You need to be able to trust your therapist will und… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | /r/leftwingmaleadvocates is closing for the time being in protest of the Reddit AdminIt's amazing how dense Reddit is being in all of this. You can't hire people who have publicly supported pedophilia and hired known child abusers. What the hell is wrong with reddit executives? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't humanIt sucks that you feel this way. I don't see it like this. Despite what the world seems to say, men have done so many amazing things throughout history. Inventions, explorations, engineering, art, music, literature. So much of what we call "civilization" is the result of brilliant men throughout history. No one can deny that (well they can, but they are idiots). And I see the place OP is coming from, the idea that men aren't humans unless they contribute something useful to society. I see it as … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Men in leftist subs are asking how they can be better allies when they've never seen men being abusive in real lifeI have definitely been harassed on multiple occasions by men and women. Happened a lot in my teens and 20's, but not nearly as much now (I think we all can guess why). And I have seen men harass women as well. I have spoken up a few times and I have stayed silent a few times. I found that some women hate the idea of a man trying to "save them". No joke, a couple of times I tried to intervene, the woman jumped down by throat too, "I don't fucking need your help!". For now, if I ever see if happen… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Saw this on Facebook and thought I’d share it here.I never got this concept of making sure the wife was always happy. Like, it's supposed to be about BOTH people being happy. I think the stats say that women initiate most divorces, so it might be that men are just easy to please in a long term relationship than women. Who knows. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/19 08:50 PM |
| 27 | "Feminism is beneficial to men too," they say as they drink from their 'male tears' cup.I never understood this thing about male tears. I don't think I have ever seen a feminist make a guy cry. The irony is that women cry all the time about seemingly random shit. If you are trying to make women "stronger", then it would be better to make crying not that big of a deal (which is true). By making fun of people crying, they just make women look weaker. It's all so dumb. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/19 01:25 AM |
| 13 | Men have emotions. Men are humansMany have pointed out the hypocrisy of this, but also it illustrates the often underdeveloped ability of men to know how to understand their complex emotions. The older I get, the more I realize that the most emotionally stable people I know are that way because they know that life isn't all happiness. They allow themselves to be angry, sad, happy, frustrated or whatever so that they understand the emotion on where it came from. Only once when you understand the emotion can you evaluate it. Men … | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If this was a woman she'd be praised, but since it's a man, he is made fun of for his appearanceI have my issues with Wikipedia, but that doesn't diminish the service it provides....for free. She sounds like a hateful, bigoted, spiteful woman who bullies people online for popularity. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | These kind of girls that don’t understand equality...Never go on an online first date to a restaurant. Coffee is probably the best bet. Even these activity based first dates are not good. Too much going on. You are meeting these people for the first time, talk over coffee for a few minutes before you commit to something a few hours long. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/19 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Pot calling all the kettles blackHow dumb can you be? Let's piss off 80% of our customers with one stupid, inaccurate commercial. This photo shows that they really don't give a shit about anything, other than trying desperately find a marketing plan that will stop them from losing market share. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/19 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Trump now wants at least $778,000 in legal fees and sanctions from Stormy Daniels over failed defamation lawsuitHow is this relevant at all? Trump hasn't won anything over Stormy. Fuck Trump, that asshole is going down. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/12/18 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Got 'em!If these girls are dumb enough to not report their income, then that's insane. The IRS will get you. I don't have an issue with this whole industry. It's probably not the best thing to do, but at least it's consensual. I would rather have a guy be a creepy perv to a girl who he is paying for it and she knows what she has to deal than to have that same old guy try to go pick-up 20 year olds. They are at least being honest each other. It's sex work. what's the big deal? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/11/18 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Being chad doesn't help.Yeah, at one point when I was younger, I was a local sports star. I am not shitting you, one week before my break-out game, I was sort of dating normally for a guy. Some dates and some interest from cute girls. I wanted more attention, but who doesn't right? Then, I had a big game and, no joke, the homecoming queen asked me out that week. I had multiple date offers from multiple girls who all were "above" my pay grade just a week before. I had a lot of fun, but I was done with it after about 6 m… | /r/MGTOW | 19/11/18 08:58 PM |
| 17 | Woke Womanlol, I am smart enough to know I don't know better than 100% of all scientists about climate change. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/18 01:14 AM |
| 82 | Woke WomanUgh, really guys? Candace Owens? She is an idiot who doesn't know "if climate change is real". If you are in doubt about how dumb she is, then go listen to her on Joe Rogan. She is fucking moron who thinks she is smart because she can fucking google. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/18 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Telling a feminist the truth.Boys and men generally don't like platitudes as much as girls. For whatever reason, I feel like we don't value these blanket "You are amazing" compliments like girls do. They feel manipulative and fake. Clearly being positive and encouraging is important to boys, but I think it should be framed from a perspective of effort and curiosity to learn new things. They should be told they are loved and supported, but telling a boy he is "amazing" when he isn't will just give him an unrealistic view of … | /r/MensRights | 22/08/18 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Blame male privilege for women being shitty to one anotherFunny analogy, but I think they are so thin because for some reason which I don't know exactly, women love women who are insanely thin. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/18 04:57 PM |
| 10 | Blame male privilege for women being shitty to one anotherThis is very similar to the "problem" of too thin fashion models. Women will often talk about impossibly unhealthy standards that are projected throughout the fashion world. The irony is that fashion is absolutely dominated by women and their tastes. Women love women who are often grossly thin. Don't get me wrong, I think thin women are much preferable to fat women, but the figure that men desire most is of a porn-star/stripper look. A healthy looking girl with nice proportions is by far conside… | /r/MensRights | 12/08/18 12:15 AM |
| 6 | PPDI definitely feel like he sexually assaulted a lot of these women, but he also had consensual sex with a lot of them as well. When it became clear that he was going down and it was an easy way to get attention and sympathy, I am sure a lot of these "victims" just lied about it. It's too bad since every time someone lies about sexual assault, it makes it harder for the legitimate victims, man and woman. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?is there any legal/non-religious precedent for marriage annulment? Yes, differing opinions on having/not having kids is one. Some areas will annul a marriage if one party wants children and the other doesn't. Or if one is gay. I think the legality of it is based off of misrepresenting yourself to the other person. Like telling the other person you are straight, but you are really gay. Or if you are already married and get married without getting a divorce first. Those are the only few I know of. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?Divorce is very different from annulment. Divorce is very complicated and would require splitting assets and possibly even alimony. Annulment would treat it like the marriage never existed. That's why annulment seems more appropriate. There was a fundamental difference on the nature of the marriage, so it was built on the false premise that the woman would have a baby, so that the whole marriage was fraudulent. That's the idea anyways, which I agree with. If a woman refuses to have a child that … | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 02:59 PM |
| 0 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?That's good question. I think late term abortions are more problematic for sure. Still, I think giving a fetus full rights as a person is just not a good idea. Birth seems like a good, logical and biological point when the fetus becomes a human. Maybe have late term abortions be only approved when it affects the mother's or baby's health. Something like that. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?"Legal humans"? there is no such concept, Yes, there is. Fetuses become legally humans after they are born. It's the law, which is based partly on biology and mostly on common sense. Embryos are human. They aren't not human, but, again, you missing the point (probably just ignoring it, which is a common tactic of pro-lifers), which is that the journey from egg & sperm, to embryo to fetus isn't precisely defined. So, we have stuck with the definition that we have used since humans became humans, … | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 04:49 AM |
| 6 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?Embryos and fetuses are not legally people. They become legal humans AFTER BIRTH. That's what we, as a society, have decided upon. A fetus is not a person since it relies solely on the mother to develop. Most definitions of life include the concept of being able to sustain itself without help. This is an important distinction that most pro-life people just flatly ignore. Fetuses are not people because they have not been born. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?Lol, you can link to a textbook all you want. I am not debating that an embryo is life. It is. I am saying that embryos are not humans with the same rights. You didn't even understand my comment. You just read what you wanted, that I somehow confused embryos and people. An embryo becomes a person, but that takes until it becomes fetus, then after birth, it's considered a full person with all the same rights. Most people agree with me, that embryos and fetuses are not full people, which is why ou… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?Yes, you are acting like your opinion of what constitute's human is accepted as fact, which it is not. An embryo is not considered a person. This is the law and an OPINION that is shared by most people in the developed world. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?Your view of abortion is extreme when you compare it with the rest of the developed world. America is probably the only country in the G30 that even debates the topic. An embryo does not have rights the same rights as a human, this has been established as law as well supported by popular opinion. Your view is not shared by most people, sorry to break it to you. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?I would disagree with that. Fetuses are not people and don't have the same legal rights as people. This is what almost all law around the world has found and most people would agree with that. I do think that men need more parental rights, that's why I submitted the post. Really, I was hoping to hear some ideas for compromising, but it sounds like you are pretty extreme in your views, so I don't think you would consider any other than forcing the woman to have the baby. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation?It sounds like the wife did the right thing and got out of a really bad relationship, but my point is what if it's good relationship? Should the wife be allowed to abort if the husband wants to keep it? My take is that there should be some type of compromise. Like, he should be allowed to annul the marriage if she aborts a child he wants. This is assuming that there is no health problems to the baby or wife. To me, annulment seems fair. The catholic church used to allow (maybe it still does) ann… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/18 01:58 AM |
| 8 | Toxic Femininity: how Anthony Bourdain's suicide was manipulatively reframed by girlfriend Asia Argento to somehow be all about her "victimhood" and #metoo, when her cheating was probably what triggered itIt's a lot of speculation, but I think it's important to make people be responsible for their decisions, including the relationships they are in. She sounds like a piece of shit, I hope she never works again. Also, Tony should have gotten out of a such a shitty relationship. It's amazing to me how a guy with so much success and access to beautiful women would stay with a girl who is a piece of shit. Still, I have never been in an abusive relationship, so I will try to be less judgmental about it… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/18 06:58 PM |
| 22 | Female game dev who accused community partner of sexism after constructive criticism firedShe really was being a bitch. The guy was being very nice and just talking to her about the game AFTER she publicly brought it up. My guess is that they asked her to apologize and make amends and she refused. Typical crazy stalinist feminist. Refuses to be a decent person. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/07/18 02:38 AM |
| 8 | Men are suing women’s empowerment organizations for gender discrimination.My issue isn't women having their own groups for promoting business or networking, it's that men can't have their own. That's the problem. And I would love for a real case to go to court about the "income gap", which is what these groups are using to justify these pro-business/networking women only groups. Then, those bullshit stats would get the proper scrutiny they deserve. And they would lose, which is why they won't take it to court. The reporter claims money is the reason why they settle. F… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/18 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Made out with 2 girls that are best friends, what to do?1) They already told each other about it. So any plan you would try to keep that information from them would backfire. 2) Let it play out. I wouldn't text either of them about it. Just be cool. Making out does not equal girlfriend. I would treat it for what it was, just a fun kissing session. 3) Let them contact you about it first. They might have picked which one is the "winner". 4) Don't worry about it too much, keep pursuing girl 1 if they don't bring it up. 5) Making out with more than one g… | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | This is the graphical definition of gender equality at my workplace. Judge for yourself.They changed all the staff bathrooms where I worked to co-ed because some women complained that there was a line on the women's room sometimes. After the change, women complained that the restrooms smelled from people (aka men) taking dumps in them. It was awesome to drop a duce and know they would have to deal with it. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Demi Lovato's Funniest Prank was Sexually Assaulting a ManRight, I agree. There is clearly a double standard. She shouldn't have tweeted this for sure, but that doesn't mean she was wrong for actually doing it. If the friend thought it was funny, then I don't see a problem with it. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 12:36 AM |
| -12 | Demi Lovato's Funniest Prank was Sexually Assaulting a ManYou don't get to judge of nuances of someone's friendship (or other type of relationship). If this is the nature of their friendship, then it's not a problem. If either person in the relationships has a problem with the prank, then it's a problem. Her friend doesn't look like he cares, but he could be supporting her just because he feels forced to. Again, we don't know the nature of the friendship. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 07:01 PM |
| -25 | Demi Lovato's Funniest Prank was Sexually Assaulting a ManI think this is a little out of context. If I had a friend do this to me, I would think it's funny. It's important to filter pranks through the relationship. The people in the relationship should ultimately decide what is okay to do and not okay. I would never think of having a guy grab one of friends who are girls, but I have a few friends that are guys that would think this is funny if I had a stripper do it to them. I don't think she should have posted this given her history of experiencing s… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 05:43 PM |
| 99 | woman DA pussy pass deniedGod this is glorious. I am only worried about the people she bullied around her whole life because she thought she was pretty and "deserved" shit in her life. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 05:44 AM |
| 7 | Rob Schneider tells the naked truth about the "gender wage gap"This what I can't stand about actresses. They are young and one of the only ways they can get jobs is based on their appearance, which is better when you are young. So, they gladly accept a role based a large part on them being young and pretty. They don't give a shit about taking a role from an older, more accomplished (but still pretty) 31 year old actress. Then, they turn 31 and now all of the sudden they want people to respect them for their acting abilities and not their appearance. Complet… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/18 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Just saw a post about a woman who is trying to compliment more men in her life with overwhelming positive feedback, 3 gold and over 5k upvotes get removed for, what I can only assume the reason was, challenging the sub’s anti man goals.Yeah, mods can be really dumb. I am sort of mixed on the compliment thing. People compliment girls all the time and it's so fake a lot of the time. I don't want people to compliment me because they feel like they need to. They should do it because it's honest. Making a point to say something nice to someone is like faking an orgasm. The intent is good, but it's kind of manipulative. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?Of course. I think initially it's great to let a girl start the interaction. I probably wouldn't like being a submissive for the whole relationship, but initially I have been fine with it. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 03:43 PM |
| 3 | 26y old girl wants more dicks. Bf denies her pussy pass and dumps her. She goes insaneI think a lot of people fuck up good relationships when they are in their 20's. That's how you know what not to do. She probably won't find another guy like this, though. She will regret it for the rest of her life. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/04/18 10:07 PM |
| 3 | "Women need care not prison" no mention of men.Ugh, so frustrating. Society needs to lock up a lot less PEOPLE. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | She got rejected and BTFOI don't know why she was so upset about it. If 15% of a several thousand people would buy some used clothes of hers, then she could make a good amount of money. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/04/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | She’s afraid to leave her boyfriend without more certainty about what might happen and I don’t want to escalate if her bf is still in the pictureYou haven't even kissed her yet, so you aren't even anything with her. I would just escalate into a physical relationship, then worry about the bf later. After a while and after a significant physical relationship, then you can bring it up, but I don't see the point of talking about your relationship when there is nothing to even talk about. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you…Lol, taking advice from a 16 year old girl is lunacy. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Where did the myth about beautiful women don't get much attention, so when they do they are grateful, come from?Beautiful women absolutely get a lot of attention. They just don't acknowledge it. They dismiss most of it because it is low quality attention to them. Getting a free coffee. Someone smiles at them. Free drinks at the bar. A guy asks for directions. A guy asks how she is doing. Two guys look at her ass. Ect... Mostly, it's this low level of constant attention that she just sort of gets used to. She just doesn't notice a lot of it because it's always there. And, a lot of the attention is weak. Th… | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Male Redditor plans suicide after losing custody of his child and having to pay child support set at $200 short of his monthly wage. Was told that most support available to the poor are "more for women".Damn, that's some dark shit. I feel for that guy if it's true. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/18 11:05 PM |
| 7 | First Ever GirlfriendSounds like she is a bad girlfriend and pretty immature. A girl not getting along with other girls is a major red flag. Also, you are inexperienced, which means she can control you easier. I wouldn't break up with her, but just realize that this relationship isn't very solid and be ready to leave if she keeps trying to manipulate you. Also, at some point, you might want have sex with her and this is something that manipulative girls will tease you with. They will hint that they will have sex, bu… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 02:26 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to know if a woman will be a loyal girlfriend?For me, it's more about how she operates when no one is looking. Does she cut corners when she is alone and it might not be noticed? Or does she hold herself to high standards regardless of who will see something? It's also usually someone who doesn't TALK a lot about values, but who just sort of naturally does things the right way. Sort of like how if the girl cares about the wedding vs the marriage. Sure, a nice wedding is nice, but the marriage is WAY more important. I know girls who are very… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Confused about an immature girl.Everyone is afraid of rejection. You have to want to go on a date with her more than you are afraid. Just go to face to face, that's what I have been saying. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Confused about an immature girl.Yes, send her a message and set up something face to face. If she is hesitant, then just move on. You don't want to keep texting and keep texting and keep texting and then move to Snapchat, then Snap for two weeks, then finally get her number, then facetime her once, then finally set up a group date. It's exhausting and frustrating. Set up the date ASAP, then go from there. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Confused about an immature girl.Yes, get her phone number and call her or text her to set up something. If she doesn't answer, then just move on. She is either too shy to meet or isn't interested, either situation means you can move on. Waiting on shy/ immature girls can be brutal. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Confused about an immature girl.Go after her. Text to set up a face to face meeting, but don't text to "get to know her". You get to know someone face to face in real life, not on the phone. Otherwise, you could spend weeks texting this girl and nothing ends up happening. Facetime is okay, but is only good when meeting in person isn't an option. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Why would a chick call me out of the blue after months? (She still has a boyfriend too.)Am I just reading too much into this? Yes, but if she doesn't want to meet in person, then I wouldn't bother spending too much time on it. Girls (and guys too) will often just want some validation and if she doesn't want to meet in person, then that's what I would guess she wants. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 05:02 PM |
| 6 | what should i do, text her or continue ignoring her ?!Sounds like she texts you when she is lonely and wants some attention. She says stuff like "When you come to London, we can hang out" to give you some hope. I would just ignore her and do NOT go to London just to visit her. It may be a very disappointing trip. If you go to London, do it for something other than her. If it's really bothering you to stay friends but not have a romantic relationship, then just stop talking to her. You don't owe her anything and it doesn't sound like she wants to be… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Gamer Busted Cheating Claims Sexism (Article in comments) x-post r/quityourbullshitHaha, she made her twitter private | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/03/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How can you be sure she's into you and not just being friendly.It's almost impossible to be 100%. That's why you need to make the first move almost all the time. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Because of #MeToo the number of male managers uncomfortable mentoring women has more than tripled. Almost half are uncomfortable participating in a common work activity with a woman.Culture has nothing to do with racism. We have cultural differences, but that doesn't mean we should put up with racism. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/18 03:54 AM |
| 16 | Because of #MeToo the number of male managers uncomfortable mentoring women has more than tripled. Almost half are uncomfortable participating in a common work activity with a woman.Not enough to justify the differences in how we treat people. White, Black and Asian men are much much closer biologically than white men and white women. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/02/18 11:52 PM |
| 51 | Because of #MeToo the number of male managers uncomfortable mentoring women has more than tripled. Almost half are uncomfortable participating in a common work activity with a woman.Yep, there are going to be very real repercussions for a lot of the women using the MeToo movement for dumb ass shit. This issue won't go away. Racism is a mistake that will get fixed, but gender differences are biological. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/02/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Feminists admit feminism is just for women, are opposed to egalitarianism.Yep, feminist are often identical to fascists. Just change the titles around a little and it looks like a modern day version of a fascist handbook to how to bully people online. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/18 04:53 PM |
| 2 | #MenAreAwesomeI never said men were better. Men are just better at building things and inventing things. Call it what you want, but it's the truth. Men are driven to build, invent, tinker, explore, ect.. For whatever reason, that's the case. Has been since we climbed out of the trees. To deny it, is ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/18 04:03 AM |
| 11 | #MenAreAwesomeI think it's hilarious how women hating men trash men on shit men built. Twitter, Instagram, computers, cars, our whole fucking modern society is because of men. Sure, one woman or two helped along the way, but it's like men don't get credit for being super smart and hard working. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 05:05 PM |
| 14 | Suspended male student files suit against Yale for gender discrimination. The lawsuit contends that two female students conspired to falsely accuse him of groping them. Lawyers argue that b/c of 'gender bias,' the school 'failed to conduct a thorough and impartial investigation.'It's almost like Universities shouldn't be involved in criminal cases because they have a conflicting interest with the outcome. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | 'It's too late to start whingeing now': Feminist Germaine Greer slams #MeToo campaign by saying actresses 'spreading their legs' for Harvey Weinstein was 'tantamount to consent'I can easily find exceptions to this on both sides. The fact is, there is no hard definition to what constitutes consent, anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | 'It's too late to start whingeing now': Feminist Germaine Greer slams #MeToo campaign by saying actresses 'spreading their legs' for Harvey Weinstein was 'tantamount to consent'What would you define as "physically consenting"? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 04:31 PM |
| 4 | 'It's too late to start whingeing now': Feminist Germaine Greer slams #MeToo campaign by saying actresses 'spreading their legs' for Harvey Weinstein was 'tantamount to consent'She has a point. I have heard more than one woman on a podcast say that while they clearly think he was monster, if they had had the opportunity to suck his dick for a million dollar role, they would probably do it. It gets really blurry about what is consent and what constitutes rape or sexual harassment. For me, what's weird is how women are constantly trying to convince each other that they are strong. I think guys mainly grow up with this mentality that if you are not strong, it's your fault… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | worst date ever1) Texting is a horrible way to build attraction. Keep it to a minimum to set up the date. You worked way too hard to get that first meeting. 2) If someone doesn't want to be around you, then just leave. I would have ended that a lot sooner. 3) She is 17, so expect immaturity for sure. The more immature girls are, the more "flashy" you have to be. They tend to want guys that look like models or are artists or whatever stereotype they are into that week. This is fine if you just want to have fun … | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 04:36 AM |
| 9 | Babe’s Aziz Ansari piece was a gift to anyone who wants to derail #MeToo (WaPo)I hate to say it like this, but Ansari is bearing the cross that will help this movement and men, in the long run. The more bullshit claims that come out against men as a part of the "me too" movement, will make people realize that just because some women says something, doesn't make it true. Some women just want attention. Some women want to get back at a guy. Some women are just lying sluts. This is why we have a legal system in place. It's there for a reason. Now, our legal system has a lot A… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/01/18 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Google sued over male discriminationI just will never get why people would want to work for such a large organization. They create such toxic cultures. If people would say no to these stupid corporate "values" and wouldn't be addicted to a steady paycheck, then maybe these horrible and immoral corporations wouldn't be able to get away all the bullshit they do. Hold your bosses and managers to higher standards. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/18 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Illiza Shlesinger sued for banning men at comedy showYeah, while I don't think it's a big deal to have something designed specifically for women, banning men is against the law. Sex is a protected class and you can't discriminate against it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/12/17 09:11 PM |
| 7 | Insane Feminist Declares That It’s OK To Destroy Men With False Rape Accusations, Is Promptly BTFO.She is soo dumb for doing this. 1) It's very immoral and illegal, so much that people go to prison for years, as they should. 2) If she is raped now, a good lawyer could easily point to this super public tweet. It would much harder to convince a jury she wasn't lying about it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/11/17 02:29 AM |
| 2 | 'Male privilege is...'Women mainly are the cause of their own fashion and body issues. The fashion business is driven by women, it's for women and women are in charge. Yet women blame "fashion" for their poor body image. Men like women that look like porn stars. Women HATE women that look like porn stars and strippers. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/17 05:17 PM |
| 3 | I just want to have fun, instead it's a chess match with all these stupid rulesRules are not really rules, they are more like "this is what you should do if you want to be sure this girl is attracted to you" Honestly, some of my best nights are when I am not really thinking about any of the rules and I am just having fun and being the center of attention. I think what the rules have done for me are give a good explanation of why a girl can be turned off by my actions. Before, I was just sort of flying blind and it was all very confusing. Now, I at least sort of have an ide… | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 11:52 AM |
| 7 | Cards Against Humanity has a $500,000 full ride scholarship for Women in Science. Have you ever seen one for men?Science is fucking hard. If you want to make it, and seriously contribute to the field in a hard science (math, physics, ect..), it's a long, difficult and very demanding process. Not to mention the competition for tenure and grant money. People think "there are less women in math/physics because of sexism". I say, it's mainly because men WANT to be physicists more than women. They are willing to do whatever it takes to achieve their goals. Women, on the whole, don't want to sacrifice their soci… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teethI have much more success in person and finding available women in my social circles. Dating Apps can be fun, but it's more for entertainment than actually using it to find quality dates. Maybe this is the problem, people just don't take them seriously anymore. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Women at Google were so upset over memo citing biological differences that they skipped work, ironically confirming the stereotype by getting super-emotional and calling in sick over a man saying something they didn't like. 🤦🤦 🤷¯\_(ツ)_/¯🤷Would you stay home from work because a co-worker sent a memo? It wasn't management, it wasn't about a labor dispute. It had nothing to do with collective bargaining and everything to do with silencing someone's opinion and enforcing group think. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/17 05:52 PM |
| 15 | Women at Google were so upset over memo citing biological differences that they skipped work, ironically confirming the stereotype by getting super-emotional and calling in sick over a man saying something they didn't like. 🤦🤦 🤷¯\_(ツ)_/¯🤷Google's reaction to this memo is just insane. The guy didn't even really say anything sexist. It was more about the issue of dialogue monitoring than anything else. The guy can't express his scientifically based opinion without being jumped and FIRED. It's just crazy. Corporations are so freaked out about being PC, they have no idea how stupid they look to people with common sense. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Australian women's football team beaten 7-0 by Newcastle under-15 boys teamThe revenue is comparable, the salaries are not. Which is exactly what my point was. And your graph doesn't include the fact that in 2017, the projected net income of the men's team was negative, while the women are supposed to make a few million dollars. And watch parties are not data. They are anecdotal evidence of your social circle or what youtube videos you watch. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Australian women's football team beaten 7-0 by Newcastle under-15 boys teamlol, look up anecdotal and if you have any real data that the men's team makes more money and is more popular than the women's, then that's an argument. Watching parties are not data. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Australian women's football team beaten 7-0 by Newcastle under-15 boys teamYou are speaking with anecdotes without any data. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Australian women's football team beaten 7-0 by Newcastle under-15 boys teamIf you compare the Women's World Cup vs. the Men's, yes, of course, the men's version is vastly more popular and makes way more money. I am speaking specifically to the American teams. The US men's team makes comparable money to the US women's team, yet the women don't get the same compensation. That's why I don't have an issue with the women asking for more money. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Australian women's football team beaten 7-0 by Newcastle under-15 boys teamMy point is that female gymnasts are more popular and make more money than male gymnasts. Just look at their social media followers. There are only a handful of "professional" gymnasts, but out of that group the women earn vastly more amounts of money than the men. Gymnastics (in the US) isn't government funded, at the elite level, it's funded from TV money. The USGA sells their TV rights and uses that money to fund the elite programs of the US national teams. When an elite gymnast isn't on the … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 03:29 AM |
| 10 | Australian women's football team beaten 7-0 by Newcastle under-15 boys teamMeh, it's not about how good you are, it's about how much interest there is in in your sport. Women gymnasts are not even close to the level that the men are, but there is a ton more interest in women's gymnastics, so there is a lot more money in it for them. I am inferring that OP is referring to the Women's US national soccer team complaining about not getting equal pay to the men's team, right? In that situation, I would say the pay should be about the same, given how much money the National … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/08/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | My God. These people are clueless.If some guys prefer older women, so be it, but there are plenty of 45 year old women who suck at sex. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Lost virginity, whole new person all the sudden?Yes, having sex with a girl will often result in higher confidence and even testosterone levels. Which results in more sex, which leads to more confidence, which leads to more sex, ect... That's why it often feels like "feast" or "famine" when it comes to having casual sex and dating. And combined with it being your first time, means it probably had a big effect on your confidence. Well done. Enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Isaac Newton was voluntary lifelong celibateThis is extremely interesting. I knew he always he was celibate, but it's interesting to know that it was his choose and that he viewed it as a source strength. | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Imagine getting used to privilege so muchI bet he only follows women on instagram though, so win win. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/17 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do women hate men dating younger women?Older women don't just hate older men for dating younger women, they also hate the younger women too. It's sort of like the young actress issue. Old actresses always complain about how only young actresses get the best jobs. However, when they were young, they sure as hell took any advantage younger actresses get. Same thing here, older women hate older men for dating younger women, older women hate younger women for dating older men, older women hate younger men for NOT dating them, and most im… | /r/MGTOW | 08/04/17 10:48 PM |
| 2 | What's your Tinder match to date ratio?Not good. I have sort of given up on Tinder. My age range doesn't quite match it and I have much better success via my social circles and in real life. Edit: If had to guess why, it's because I don't look like a model and women on dating apps often aren't really looking for dates, they are looking for validation/attention. So, you message them and act interested, and that's all they really wanted. You gave them the small spike in validation and attention they wanted, so they are done with it. Fe… | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | SJWs are offended at Wonder Woman not having hair armpits1) Women get to decide what to do with their own bodies. SJW's just don't seem to understand that. 2) It's a fucking movie about a superhero. It's not supposed to be real. She flies for fucks sake. 3) You are not the target audience. The target audience doesn't want to see hairy armpits. 4) Stop policing women's right to wear and groom themselves. Maybe stand up for women's rights in places where they are banned from deciding their own wardrobe (Iran/Afghanistan/Pakistan). | /r/MGTOW | 19/03/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | More Amy Schumer! Blames "subreddits" for her bad reviews of her Netflix Special.Sounds about right for her. I don't think she is a bad person, in fact, a lot of comics have defended her over the past year as she has gotten a lot of shit for some of the stuff she has done. Still, blaming people for bad ratings on a reddit is just stupid. She has made a shit load of money over the past couple of years, so I don't know why she would put out such a shitty special. It almost feels like she is desperate to hold on to her fame before it flames out, but rushing out crappy products … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/03/17 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Why work when you can try riding the pussypass everyday?I have to completely disagree with this. Women and girls are definitely encouraged to go into STEM fields. In the classroom, I have seen the top math students, who were often girls, choose to go into something completely unrelated their ability in math. And worse male students often choose to pursue a STEM major. I don't think it is nearly as "society puts pressure on them to not do math" as it is, "high achieving girls often have no interest in majoring in a math oriented subject." | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/03/17 11:05 PM |
| 636 | Girl gets KO'd after throwing her drink at a guy.The difference between guys and girls is that if a guy threw a drink in someone's face, he knows he is risking a beat down. This girl was absolutely fucking clueless. I am not glad she got destroyed, but you can't go around throwing shit in people's faces and acting threatening. Hopefully, she is okay and learned her lesson. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/03/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Top most upvoted post in r/feminism subreddit openly incites to physical violence using metal weapons against anyone making a "sexist" comment. This is the true face of feminismI agree that feminists can be super hypocritical about jokes, but directly linking to their sub is shady. I get that many feminist subs do it, but I still don't think you should do it here. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Women hate it when you love them.Yes, it can bizarre to have a girl encourage her bf/husband to open up, and many do it constantly, only to lose interest right after he finally opens up. I think it has happened to a lot of men. I still do think there can be mutual love between two people, but it's rare and most people are fooled into thinking their relationship is "rare". Just look at divorce rates, they are crazy high AND most divorces are requested by women. The irony is that most divorces and most marriages are started by wo… | /r/MGTOW | 01/03/17 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Good to see she has her priorities straightshouldn't have opened their legs What the fuck are you talking about? Get out of here with that shit. I want women to open their legs. Condoms break. Vasectomies sometimes don't work. Shit happens. Abortion is a solution for people who don't have the resources for raising a kid. | /r/MGTOW | 08/02/17 01:35 AM |
| 14 | Good to see she has her priorities straightYou guys really are against abortion? That is kind of surprising. I don't have a problem with women getting abortions, the problem is that men don't have parental rights. The fact is, you need two people to have a kid. If the woman doesn't want to put her body through that, I don't know how you can force her to. Men should have the right to do away with parental obligations for sure, but do people here really think you should force a woman to have a kid they don't want? | /r/MGTOW | 07/02/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | clueless on texting, general advice?Like others have said, texting for fluff/attraction this early is usually a bad idea. Your issue is that she sounds like she may be the only girl you are pursuing at the moment. When you only have one girl that is in "in the queue" so to speak, you spend too much time thinking about her and putting too much effort into her. You need to meet more girls. It all depends on what you want, but even if your goal is a stable long term relationship, this stage is remarkably the same as for a guy who wan… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 07:04 PM |
| 3 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?If a girl is that flaky when making plans, then she is almost for sure going to not show up. Coming from that place, I would just say "Okay, that's fine, let's cancel it then, I will catch up with you later." That's for a girl who is being flaky when you schedule it. The bigger problem is girls who commit to the date, but then cancel or don't show up. That's a much bigger issue, in my opinion. So, when scheduling a first date/hangout with a girl, I would say or text something like this, "Hey, yo… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Getting married to have sex is like: buying a theatre to watch a movie or buying a restaurant to have lunch / dinner.Doesn't the joke go: "He said yes so he could have sex whenever he wanted, she said yes so she never had to have sex again." Or something like that. | /r/MGTOW | 27/12/16 03:16 AM |
| 8 | 18-year-old her and 20-year-old me. Don't want a gfIt is difficult to do what you are suggesting. Have sex, give her the impression that you want to be casual, don't have her feel like a slut, AND don't lie to her about it. Given your inexperience, I don't know if you will be able to pull it off. Really, it's about giving off an energy that "life is fun and I really like you, but I just want to have fun right now." It's this "I don't know where my life is going, but I am excited about" vibe that will allow you find that balance. Girls do NOT lik… | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants to be friends after confusing nightThis happens a lot with being single, you have a fun night with someone, but they don't really want to explore it more. It happens both ways, not just from girls. I have done it more than once as well. It happens when people are single and looking to stay single. You had fun, enjoyed the night and now you can move on. | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl has blown me off a few times, but still texts me. How would you play this?It's always tough to know what's going on with girls, sometimes she really likes you, but life sort of gets in the way. There has to be some momentum with setting up the first date and if she has to cancel a couple of times for legit reasons, it can feel like the momentum has gone out of the interaction. So, regardless of how she really feels, events just didn't go your way. If you keep on her, it comes across as needy because a guy with "high social value" would just move on. So, she instinctiv… | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Thought you guys would enjoy thisNice story. I have always felt like there can be a big benefit to having boys or girls only education. Maybe not 100% of the time, but I think in some situation it can really help both genders. I think completely segregating can be bad because they need to learn how to work together, but some would be good. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | If a court says he didn't rape her, he didn't rape her. Innocent men do not owe the female population their blood, no matter how much they bay for it.It's crazy how are society treats men that are convicted, accused or acquitted of sexual and domestic abuse. Some guys get away with being CONVICTED of it, see Chris Brown. Others are completely blacklisted by just heresy. Still others have careers, but can't shake the blatantly false stuff, like Woody Allen. Others seem to get away with sexual abuse for decades without anyone knowing, like Cosby. Just so inconsistent. What's sad are the hundreds or thousands of men who are not even charged with… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/16 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Top modelling agent says male models 'suffer big pay gap' compared to womenI think it's pretty shitty to say that having children (something that also requires a male contribution) is a burden or sacrifice for which women must pay the largest (if not sole) economic toll. I am not forcing women to have children. I am not even saying women should take significant time off or even hurt their careers, I am saying IT'S THEIR CHOICE. By all means, I'd love it if you found a few reviews or meta-analyses or statistical analyses that could show that the consensus-view gendered … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Top modelling agent says male models 'suffer big pay gap' compared to womenThese aren't bad, but still do not constitute a consensus that women makes less money than men because of sexism. It's far from certain of the reasons the limited pay pap exists, which it doesn't even exist in many industries. If it does exist in an industry, it's not clear at all on WHY it exists. Like the second study you pointed out, women have children and take time off and this impacts their salaries in their industries. This isn't sexism at all, it's women choosing their children over thei… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Top modelling agent says male models 'suffer big pay gap' compared to womenwomen do have an overall lower pay rate than their male counterparts in those fields. I would love to see the data on this. Every study I have seen doesn't account for work hours. As in, men make more, but they also work more. So, when you take into consideration that factor, it completely cancels out the "Pay gap". Unless you have some new data, I would stop spreading that lie. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Top modelling agent says male models 'suffer big pay gap' compared to womenLike others here, for me this is more about the hypocrisy of people claiming there is a pay gap for women. I don't particularly care that male models make less. It seems logical given the women's fashion market is several times the men's market. But, I can totally see their point given how people act on the other side. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lies during seduction? Does your conscious bother you?I think I distinguish between lying and bullshitting. I bullshit because it makes a story better or it's funny to mess with a girl. Bullshitting a part of flirting. But, I don't see the point in misrepresenting myself seriously. However, I don't really care if other guys do it. Unless it really hurts someone, like lying about NOT having an STD, then giving it to a girl, then that's fucked up. But, if I know a guy is lying about his age or money so he thinks he can sleep with a girl, then I don't… | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 02:02 PM |
| 6 | [Advanced guys] Have you ever felt guilty because you didn't having feelings for a girl?I used to when I was younger. It was hard to tell how much exactly I was attracted to a girl. Was it enough to date her? Just hook up with her? Did I really want to try to progress it as much as possible, like a gf? Now, I have a test. It's crude, but effective. It shows me HOW attracted to a girl I am and if I want to really pursue a relationship with her. It's pretty simple, do I want to go down on her? If the answer is yes, then the attraction level is high enough. If not, then I usually just… | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Strategy when responding to flaky girls1) Accept that it happens. 2) Make sure you are meeting enough girls and have some in the works so that this one girl doesn't make or break your week. 3) Give her one pass. If she doesn't show up once and seems like she feels bad, then reschedule with her once. If it happens again, then don't even bother with it. 4) Don't get too angry. I have hooked up with flakes MONTHS after she initially didn't show up. I think the key was that I didn't act like it was a big deal, but I didn't let her walk a… | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 02:04 PM |
| 3 | What to do in a small town?Get a car and/or move to another town. Seriously, develop your career to the point where you are successful, only then will you be able to be successful in a small town environment. Even then, it can be difficult to change how girls see you. On top of the fact that you will need to practice being confident and flirting and having sex to actually get good at it. You will make mistakes and in a small town, this can really harm your reputation. Small towns and communities are good for some things, … | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 05:15 AM |
| 4 | "Men aren't empowered by victimhood. The male version of victimhood is simply _failure_. Opening up doesn't do anything for a man. All it does is let everyone know you're defective, and can be culled from society."Damn, this is so true. I got the message loud and clear when I was younger. The irony is now that I am a little older, I have just as many problems, if not more serious ones, but I don't need to talk to anyone about them. The only thing I need is every now and then to say: "Man, this is hard sometimes. I am trying, but it's hard" and have someone say, "Yeah, it's tough. I hear ya." That's it. Learning to deal with my problems on my own and learning how to not let my problems and frustrations lea… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Rejected rudely at a clubYou have to find a place and situation that work well for you. Clubs are hard because everything is so amplified. I would try to find a place and situation that fits you better if you haven't gotten any very far at a night club. As in, are you able to meet girls, get numbers and have fun a regular basis? If not, then clubs aren't a good fit for you right now. Try some place else. A bar or social event. Or the mall during the day. Or coffee shops. Anywhere really that fits your personality and yo… | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 06:01 AM |
| 11 | I've done around 50 approaches in one month and I haven't managed to even kiss someone what should I do?Way too vague information to know where you are going wrong. Are you going out alone? With other guys? With other girls? How are you dressing? Where are you trying to talk to these girls? What do you say? What's a typical response? How far into the conversation have you gotten? What do you look like? | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 03:50 PM |
| 101 | Empty theaters all over the world at the opening week of Ghostbusters 2016. The all women cast insulted their main audience constantly over the last week. It seems it wasn't a profitable marketing strategy after all.The irony is that this was a "girl power" type thing and no freaking women are watching it because it's a movie guys would typically see. If you are going to make a "girl power" type movie, at least make it in a genre that has mainly female movie goers. Just stupid marketing. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/07/16 04:48 AM |
| 20 | 85 Percent Of Female Marine Recruits Flunking Out Of New Combat TestsThis is the least surprising result ever. There are a few exceptional women who can handle the same physical load as a slightly above average man, but they are far and few between. To say otherwise is just lunacy. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/06/16 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Neill Strauss expertly negs Jessica Alba after being challenged to run game on her. Nobody notices. (3.58)Great video. I like how he talks about the neg the way it supposed to be. It's a very light heartened playful comment designed to push her away a little bit. Not degrade or demean her. And Jessica Alba was ALL about it. Well done. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 05:05 PM |
| 0 | So today I got the number of a girl having a first date with a guySome are debating whether this was a dick move or not. I don't think what he did was wrong. He didn't try to out alpha the guy in front of her. He didn't try to take her in front of him. He used a slick line to get her number. No big deal. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Female teacher who faced up to 20 years in prison after admitting multiple counts of sexual battery sentenced to just 7 days in jailYeah, the biggest issue isn't her punishment, which seems fair, the kid was 18 when it happened. Rather, the issue is the same punishment would not have been applied for a male teacher. I don't know about that state and it's past rulings against male teachers, so I can't judge it. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/16 12:33 PM |
| 5 | House panel votes to make women register for the draftit's called "pussypassdenied" not "let's have a conversation about gender" This place is about examples of women getting denied the advantages they think they deserve and often expect. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/04/16 07:02 PM |
| 6 | House panel votes to make women register for the draftThe more you think about this, the more you realize it should have been done a few decades ago. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/04/16 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Steven crowder goes completely off rails on stage and rips apart interrupting sjw's. Special guests include milo and summers.That's the problem, people put up with their idiocy. Throw them out. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/16 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Steven crowder goes completely off rails on stage and rips apart interrupting sjw's. Special guests include milo and summers.Yeah, I agree with the sentiment and his speech was great, but I don't see why you wouldn't just kick them out. That's what you do when people disrupt an event, kick them out. A lot of these videos on youtube (not this one really) with sjw's and islamists and other idiots interrupting a talk should just be kicked out. Seriously, why wouldn't you kick them out? | /r/MensRights | 27/04/16 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Steven crowder goes completely off rails on stage and rips apart interrupting sjw's. Special guests include milo and summers.It's a great rant for sure, but when did people stop being removed from events for being assholes? I feel like 15 years ago people who interrupt would have just been removed and then the show/event would just go on. Am I missing something? | /r/MensRights | 27/04/16 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Had kids taken away after 6 years shared custodyI know this is hard now and you should do anything you can legally to get your kids back, but just remember that children remember and grow into adults. It's more important that you are fair and maintain a good relationship with them so that when they are adults, they will come and see you. A lot of parents dismiss their children's feelings and ambitions when they are teenagers and don't focus on developing a good relationship, then their children avoid them when they are adults. Keep your chin … | /r/MensRights | 20/04/16 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Is feminism a hate movement?Wow, these so fascist and right wing, it's scary. And these are "leaders" in feminism. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/16 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Feminist Are Launching A Database To Identify And Punish/Jail Men For Arguing On The InternetToo many problems with this mainly because it relies on screenshots. 1) Too hard to upload and time consuming. 2) Screenshots can be faked fairly easily. 3) Even if they automate it. Like having your twitter feed automatically uploaded to your profile, only a small percent of that content would be relevant to them. And some people tweet a lot. Like most feminist ideas, it's pretty stupid. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain a strong frame when another guy comes into the set?It takes time and practice, but you don't accept their dominance. Talk to them and bring them in, but frame the conversation in a way that includes them but still maintains you in the driver seat. Chances are, he doesn't have the social skills you do and as long as you remain confident (or fake confidence), then it should be okay. Really, it takes time to get comfortable leading men and being in charge. It's much easier to be the leader in a group of mixed guys/girls when you have experience as … | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Men should have the right to ‘abort’ responsibility for an unborn child, Swedish political group saysWhat's the argument against this? Men should be FORCED to be parents? | /r/MensRights | 10/03/16 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Did Amy Schumer Get a Pass for Stealing Jokes because She’s a Woman?I think people are giving her a pass because a lot of people like her (not on Reddit, I guess). And she has maintained good relationships with a lot of comics (minus the ones claiming they ripped her off). Anyways, people make excuses for people they like, and many people like her. Not really a pass for being a girl. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/16 02:46 AM |
| 13 | she annoys me but hot as hell..You only got out with "hot" girls, but you hate that they are shallow. I hope you see the irony if your post. Look, I get it. We all want hot girls, but hot girls that are smart, fun and interesting to be around are really freaking hard to find. Just keep meeting girls and maybe change the location of where you meet them. Find a more intellectual place to hang out. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 04:45 PM |
| 17 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondUgh, sounds like a waste of time. She is using you so she can feel attractive right after she broke up with her bf. In the future, only give them 2 opportunities to meet up with you. After the second flake, just move on. It's not worth your time. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Sanders: Law enforcement should handle campus rapeDidn't think I could like this guy as more. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/16 10:26 PM |
| 11 | Sudden change in behaviour from my successful dateYou need to meet more girls. If you find yourself waiting on one girl when it is this early in the relationship, you need to meet more girls. She is probably dating a few guys and decided the other guys were worth her time more at the moment. You may come back in in a month or several months, who knows. But don't ever sit around and wait for a girl like this. You texted her twice and no response. That's your answer. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 03:39 PM |
| 21 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?Generally it's a good way to build attraction, but it can have it's drawbacks. I have had it backfire on me when I had already kissed a girl and wanted to continue with her, but I ended up flirting with another girl in the club and the girl I kissed sort of freaked out and left. Not exactly the reaction I was going for. So, I would say go ahead and flirt with a lot of girls, but we had already gotten to the point where we connected a deep level throughout the night and in retrospect the night ha… | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnHaha, you have an alt account for your red pill douchbaggery because you know it's so fucking dumb and you don't want anyone to know. Keep telling yourself all the red pill lies if it makes you feel in control of your life. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnHey buddy, your account is a couple of months old. How about you actually get a little experience and then you can spout your nonsense? You wanna buy into the red pill idiocy, go for it, but if your opinion is dumb, I will say it is dumb. If you can't handle it, then I suggest you move on and keep insulated in your red pill subreddits where the lemmings will agree with it. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnWow, You are deep into the shit. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 03:55 AM |
| -1 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnHaha, definitely didn't do that. Enjoy the bitterness and women hating. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 08:20 PM |
| -1 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnThe problem with hoes is that this process is broken. Don't come in here what Red Pill Bullshit. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 06:45 PM |
| 6 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnSex is usually NOT linked to whether or not you will get into a LTR with her or not. If she wants to be in a LTR with you, she will do it. If she wants to have sex with you, she will. The two are not linked, in my opinion. I would make the argument that NOT having sex with her might send the signal that you are not that interested in her. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Inexperienced Guys with an Experienced Girl: Being Lead OnLike others have said, temper your feelings. She sounds like she wants to sleep with you, so just try to do it the next time you are alone. It doesn't matter whether she sleeps with a lot of people or not, you need to be proactive too. Girls go into cycles where they want to sleep around and then will change into a cycle where they want to be in a relationship. You might catch her in that cycle, but don't hold your breath. Just keep trying to progress sexually when you are alone with her and aft… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 09:25 PM |
| 50 | Sherri Shepherd Must Pay Child Support for Surrogate SonThat's not how it works. She choose to have a kid. You can't take back having a child. This isn't like a guy knocking up a random girl from a hookup and then she decides to have a baby AGAINST his wishes. She willfully choose to have a kid through surrogacy, then tried to go back on it after the child was born. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/11/15 03:37 PM |
| 0 | How should I seduce someone in my friend group?1) Get her alone. As in, lets go for a walk. Or invite her to something alone. Like grabbing some food. 2) When you have her alone, try to escalate physically. Touch her arm, put your arm around her, hold hands, kiss her, ect.. 3) Read her as you physically progress. If she pulls away at all, then she probably doesn't feel comfortable. Keep trying to escalate a few times, but if she doesn't ever get comfortable, then stop and you probably have your answer. | /r/seduction | 02/11/15 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Hope Solo to face domestic violence charges after court decision reversedA friend of mine went to the same high school as her and they were the same graduating class. She said that Hope has had problems for a long time, drinking too much, bad temper, and just being a crazy bitch for most of her life. I was conflicted about her playing in the last WC, but really it was USA soccer's fault. They can't just suspend a player for being investigated for a crime. They should be able to, but they couldn't. I can't remember exactly, but they have protocol and policies in place… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/15 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Trying to build sexual tension in a non-datey environment?If you haven't been to a few of these types of parties, then it might be hard to do it well the first time. But, just make sure you are in a good mood with good energy. These things tend to be very high energy so if you don't think you can match them, then it might be hard to pull it off (unless she is really into you). I would do it just for the experience. Just be aware, you will run into tons of other guys (possibly a few that are loud/frat types), and if she is attractive, she will probably … | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Helen Mirren: 'Men should get their arms off women's shoulders' The British actress gets annoyed when she sees a man slinging an arm around his girlfriend as she feels the gesture looks like "ownership"These old, bitter actresses are hilarious. They always bitch about how hollywood passes up on older, better actresses. But, they were all super eager to take advantage of it when they were younger. They are just pissed the world doesn't fall into their hands because they are young, hot successful actresses. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How could I force an eye contact?You have to draw attention to yourself. This is where they got the idea of "peacocking". Or you can be a loud talker, telling stories and making jokes, this gets attention as well. Or maybe dancing well. | /r/seduction | 27/06/15 05:17 PM |
| 3 | The male Pill is coming - and it's going to change everything. New forms of male contraception are estimated to hit the market in two years and - unlike women's options - most won't contain hormones.This would absolutely be a game changer. No more getting roped into raising a kid you don't want. This will change the dynamic in relationships SOOO much. I can't wait. An unwanted pregnancy has always been a big fear of mine. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/15 11:17 PM |
| -1 | How to find out if she has a boyfriendThis is a bad idea. It takes her out of the interaction and forces her to make a decision on whether she wants to give you a HUGE green light or not. Honestly, even if she does want to sleep with you, it still can jolt her out of the moment and make her take a step back. If she has a boyfriend or husband, she will let you know because you are flirting with her and escalating the interaction. Girls know what you are doing (if she doesn't then you aren't being aggressive enough). And what if she i… | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Next step after getting numberThe "pals" line isn't good, but you can text her to set up a coffee date or invite her to something (either alone or with a group). Text her the day after you meet her. Don't wait any longer. And don't use text to "game", texting does NOT build attraction. Only text to set up a face to face meeting. If you can't see her for a week or so and you want to talk to her, then Skype or call her on the phone. I repeat, texting does NOT help other than logistics. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 02:59 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a girl flirts with me then turns saltyShe probably wants you to escalate into making out or asking her on a date. Flirting with girls is good practice, but you need to go on dates (or be alone with them) if you want to escalate physically. It sounds like you are just flirting with girls and not doing anything else. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 02:55 PM |
| 2 | One thing I learned: If there is no connection, leave it you are wasting your time.This is a much missed point of a lot of the advice in here. Guys need to know when to get out. Along with not having a connection, there is also the girl that flirts and texts you, but doesn't want to make the next step. It happens all the time here, a guy starts learning how to talk to girls, learning how to flirt, but he also needs to learn how to leave. And the guy wastes a month of talking to this girl (usually texting) and seeing her a couple of times, but getting no where. He thinks she wa… | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting over the feeling of shame for expressing sexual desire.we all have places or situations where we are more comfortable with approaching and trying to meet girls. coffee shops may not be your thing. a key to doing well is knowing how to maximize your strengths. since you don't feel good at coffee shops, then don't go there. as for feeling shame, your coworkers comments say much more about them than about you. I just usually laugh off other people's negative reactions to my attempts at dating or meeting girls. it's ridiculous to be so concerned about m… | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl was looking at me, smiled and looked away.It's good that you noticed, now go talk to her. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:37 PM |
| 20 | Virgin GameI am sorry, I don't really get what you are proposing. A guy wait for a girl to think he is hot? A guy act shy and demure and surprised when a girl says he is hot? The problem with this is that you are teaching a guy to be passive and wait for a girl to think he is hot, then he can act in this way, when he gets her alone, and then she will want to have sex with him. You assume that 1) The guy will get her alone. 2) They will make it to the bed. 3) The conversation will progress in this way. Guys… | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking at girls in class feels uncomfortable?staring and not talking to people is weird. if You are making eye contact with girls, you should be talking to them too. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Girl who has been 'just friends' with me suddenly comes on to me.Of course, this is pretty common. The only way to deal with it is: 1) She is crazy, so cut her out of your life. 2) Make it a relationship on your terms, invite her over and then try to escalate. No date. No discussion about "where this is going". You just try to escalate, within reason, of course. If she doesn't want to, then stop and show her the door. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 12:20 AM |
| 4 | As a woman, I feel the need to apologise.An apology isn't necessary, but I do appreciate the sentiment. The best thing you can do in my opinion is speak up when you are around feminists who are being sexist or racist. They need to realize that they can't shout down people who disagree with them. Speak up for true equality and justice, it will go a long way. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/15 01:07 PM |
| 9 | I experienced some great success, now I'm having some serious moral dilemmasYou are doing what hot girls do, having as much sex with as many different people as you want. The only moral issue would be: 1) Don't let on that you expect to be in a relationship. 2) Use condoms. Sure, some people will get hurt because of jealousy, but jealousy isn't your problem, it's theirs. If they can't handle the idea that you are dating around, then you two can move on. But really, you will date around until you find a girl you really really like, then you will probably have a girlfrien… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 04:18 PM |
| 14 | Suzanne Venker: "Why men won't marry you."this is exactly right. women have been told they can "have it all". and it's the man's fault if it's not happening. men blame whoever is wrong from a nonbiased perspective, but women have loyalty to women just for being women. it doesn't happen 100% of the time, but men are blamed by their spouses for being unhappy. happiness should only depend on yourself not your spouse | /r/MensRights | 10/05/15 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Fellow redditor needing advice1) Ask her out. 2) Stop texting her a lot, it doesn't help. Attraction is created in person mostly. Maybe talking on the phone or Skype. 3) Meet more girls. Well done so far, keep going. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 02:19 PM |
| 12 | I did the right thing right?Damn, that's some fucked up shit she tried to pull. Good job on not giving in. For now, just ignore her. You never know, in the future, she might run into or be into you. I have had this happen to me before, she tries to pull some crap on me and I refuse and we stop talking to each other. Then a few months down the road, I bump into her again and she is now ready to go. That's just how they are, they need to see if you able to handle them. And when you "pass the test", they are interested. It mi… | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 02:17 PM |
| 2 | This is depressing meYes, there are major problems going on in the US and around the world, but gender isn't the only problem. I can think of a lot of other places where it would be pretty bad to live. You are getting paranoid about getting fucked over. Yes, it happens to men, but most men go there whole lives without having to directly deal with false sexual harassment, false rape charges, false paternity charges, and other bad stuff. Marriage money issues are much more common and you should be very aware of them w… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips for someone who doesn't have guy friends to go out with.Get more friends. You live in NYC. Find a club or group of people that like to socialize, there are literally thousands of possibilities in NYC. If you just put in a little work, you will have a ton of people to go out with. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 01:44 PM |
| -10 | Best response to "I was thinking about you""What were you thinking?" | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong? Seddit, pleh!No problem, I hope you get things turned around. Any other tips on doing this would be appreciated. The key to being social is showing that you care about someone and are interested in their life. You talk to people just to talk to them, just to connect. There is no other purpose. It's like trying to find purpose in art, there is no purpose, it just is. You connect with someone for the sake of connecting with another person. It starts small at first, just a "hi" or "how are you doing" then it go… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong? Seddit, pleh!I would so like to get a reason from them as to why, like HEY MAN YOU SUCK or something. Not going to happen. Get over it. If a bunch of ugly girls were texting you, you wouldn't text them back and say "sorry but you are too ugly". Girls won't tell you why, and if they do, they aren't telling you the real reason. That's why it's so important to meet a lot of girls. It helps you forget about the ones that got away. The key is to free yourself from needing their approval to feel good about yoursel… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Constantly eyeing each other, but with a neutral expression?Wait. wait, hold on. Coming from a female this is not necessarily true I am not going to be that hard on you because you don't know what it's like to have to approach women like men do. Is it possible she accidentally made eye contact with him three times in an hour? Possible, but not likely. And it doesn't do him (or any man) any good to over think, "did she really mean to have eye contact with me?" He isn't going up to her and sticking his tongue down her throat. He is talking to her. If she d… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong? Seddit, pleh!You need to meet more girls. Join clubs that you are interested in, maybe film, art, something with a good amount of girls. And do exercise activities with girls, yoga, jogging, tennis, whatever. But they have to have mostly girls, maybe a 70/30 ratio. Don't join the robotics team. The most important thing is to meet as many girls as possible in your social life. Then gradually start flirting with them and being friendly. This will build your confidence and widen your social network. Then you ca… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 04:47 PM |
| 7 | What am I doing wrong? Seddit, pleh!What am I doing wrong seddit? You aren't meeting enough girls. Two girls isn't enough. If you goal is to get a girlfriend, then you need to meet several girls a week that are attractive and single in a social setting where you talk to and flirt with them. Then, you get 3 or 4 phone numbers a week, which should translate into one or two dates A WEEK. Then, one of those 4-8 dates a month turn into a second date. Then you keep meeting girls, getting numbers, getting dates and getting second dates u… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Female Friend cockblock twice in one nightGirls do this shit all the time, especially attractive girls. There are two things that could be happening: I) She doesn't know what she wants with you, friend, lover, or fwb. So, she wants to prevent you from seeing other girls until she can make a decision. II) Honestly, it may be about power. A lot of times, attractive girls want to have power. From the sound of it, you aren't letting her drive the relationship, which is what she wants. She wants control and power. So, to get it, she is tryin… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 03:23 PM |
| 20 | Constantly eyeing each other, but with a neutral expression?If she makes eye contact with you more than twice in the span of an hour, then, yes, she is giving you a signal to approach. Go up to her and say, "Hi, how is your workout going?" Talk to her every time you see her at the gym. After a few times of seeing her and speaking to her more and more, then invite her to something you are doing, like a local band or coffee or whatever. If she says yes, then get her number and text her to solidify the details. This is how you pick up girls when you go to l… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "I have boyfriend"I don't really understand why she wants to meet with me if she has a boyfriend. She just wants to fool around. Probably casual sex. She is making her intentions as clear as possible. 1) She asked for your number. 2) She wants to meet up. 3) She told you she has a boyfriend. This all means she wants to hook up casually. I would probably do it, but I am not the nicest guy in the world. If you want to do it, when you meet up with her, don't waste too much time, get right down to business and try to… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | First date advice, its been a whileShe already knows you are interested because you are going on a date with her. Since she is leaving, you probably need to make some significant progress on the date. So, I would flirt with her a lot and make sure we are progressing the physical interaction as the date goes on. Like, holding hands, casually touching her arm. If you are hiking, maybe helping her on difficult parts of the trail. Then, kissing her no later than half way through the date. And trying to progress the date physically to… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 03:39 PM |
| 8 | Male student now sues Columbia University over classmate who carried a mattress around campus and accused him of raping herI just read the whole article. This girl just made up a bunch of shit about him, probably after spending so time on tumblr, then went and found one of his exes to make up more shit about him, so it makes her story look better. THEN found a girl who didn't like him and got HER to make up a story about him trying to kiss her. What fucking piece of shit. I hope she never gets a job. The only one she is qualified for is "art student turned femi-nazi that uses fake trauma into publicity to get attent… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/15 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Male student now sues Columbia University over classmate who carried a mattress around campus and accused him of raping herWhat the fuck is wrong with women in college? They are fucking fascists. This is what happens when people who were a minority for so long (women at universities) and had a perceived lower status than men, then become the majority and seem to want to lash out at their "long time oppressors". It's just fucking weird and sad. Freaking pathetic. TLDR; princess girls going to college only want to apply rules and laws when it favors them. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Sarah Silverman admits she made up wage gap story even after she called out specific employer. (X post /r/nottheonion)The irony about her is that part of per appeal was that she was a good looking female comedian. But, she never developed as a comedian, she had potential, but she hasn't gotten any better, just worse. All the best comedians get better and better. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/04/15 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Kissing on first date?Overall just throws me for a loop. She is playing games with you. I probably would not play and just move on. Too much drama and crazy over a stupid kiss. But, if you really like her or if you think you have a really good connection (minus this), then just tell her that you "really like her and don't usually kiss on first dates either, I just wanted to kiss you sooo bad." If she can't deal with this situation maturely then she really isn't worth to date. | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is okay to date your coworker?For me, it all depends on two factors: 1)The work situation: Is it a small office? If we work with a lot of other people and don't see each other day to day, then I would say it's okay. 2) How attracted we are two each other. If we get along great and she is crazy hot, then all bets are off (maybe unless she is my boss). Really, people meet their spouses all the time at work, so it does work out a lot. But, you have to make that decision for yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Help for a 19 year old (m)You need to act now. Missing the moment is a VERY common mistake. Get her phone number, then try to schedule a hangout or a casual one-on-one situation, getting a drink, watching a movie, studying together, something like that. When you are alone with her, gradually increase how much you touch her (it's called kino escalation). If she responds well to holding hands, kissing, ect, then keep escalating until sex (hopefully). Good luck. | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 04:48 AM |
| 42 | Lena Dunham faces criticism over article comparing Jewish men and dogs. But it's the "Jewish" bit that folks are mad about — just comparing men to dogs is no problem!It is pretty tasteless, but it is supposed to be satirical and, while I don't like the content, but I defend her right to joke about anything. The hypocrisy, of course, is when men joke about women, they are often ganged up on by the thought police of SJW. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/15 03:37 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Didn't feel like going out tonight. I did anyways and finally lost my V card.Well done, going out and meeting people is probably the number one thing you need to do to have a successful social life. Many guys often talk themselves out of going out too much, myself included. That said, sex is definitely not overrated. It's overrated for one night stands, or possibly strangers you are only mildly attracted to. I generally only try to have sex with women who: A) I want to date. B) I am VERY attracted to. Having casual sex with girls I am not that into just isn't that fulfil… | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 07:27 PM |
| 10 | It's actually pretty disturbing that a feminist can claim this despite literally the exact opposite happening.Exactly. Powerful men care just as little about poor/weak men as they do poor/weak women. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/15 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Number of Sexual Partners for a Female5? What the hell? That's nothing. You must be dating only liars or girls who are "waiting for marriage? How old are you OP? | /r/MensRights | 08/03/15 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Three piece suits are now "oppressive to women" in the workplace (and apparently just in general)This actually made me laugh. All the stupid "feminism" and "oppressive" bullshit that she talks about is just a waste of her time. Sure, a few of these idiots can make money off of their "oppression", but most of them are like this idiot, broke and angry at the world. If you don't like the culture of the company, then create your own company. I love how she thinks she is "experienced, skilled, and efficient." If she she so amazing, then she wouldn't have been unemployed for so long. If you can h… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's?I have done it in the past, mostly because I didn't know what I was doing. When I was younger, I had problems telling the difference between liking a girl as a person and being sexually attracted to her. I hooked up with a few friends who I liked but wasn't extremely attracted to. This, of course, blew up in my face, so I that's when I realized how to tell if I am really attracted sexually to a girl or not. Now, I know, so I would never sleep with a girl I don't want to sleep with several times … | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 06:06 AM |
| 1 | My first dates are always a disaster- can someone please helpYeah, your looks probably aren't the issue. I think it is just how people date online. You are starting from zero when you date online. Your profile, no matter how good, is the equivalent of shaking someone's hand. From my experience, online dates have a very different feel than real life dates. Real life dating for me is a much better experience with girls excited to be there, very open, flirty and generally easy to escalate. I haven't cracked the online dating code yet. Some guys say it's abou… | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 05:43 PM |
| 4 | My first dates are always a disaster- can someone please helpMost of my dates come from online. Yeah, that's what I would have guessed. I am dating online as well as from my real life. The biggest difference is that online dates tend to be more "meet and greets" than full-on dates. Dates from real life are much better, in my opinion. They come from a place of real, mutual attraction. There is already an established connection as well. I tend to do much better with real life dates than online dates. Honestly, online dates are something I am still trying to… | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 05:18 PM |
| 4 | My first dates are always a disaster- can someone please helpIf that is there mood, then just bail. Maybe you are getting dates from the wrong girls? People should be excited about dates. How are you getting dates? | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 04:57 PM |
| 3 | My first dates are always a disaster- can someone please helpYou are focusing too much on the activity. The activity is not nearly as important as your interaction and the connection you establish while you are with her. It's hard to say what your issue is, but many times guys who can't get second dates it's because they don't have fun, interesting dates. Dates are not supposed to be "okay" they are supposed "wow, that was really fun!". A lot of guys try to just not mess up on the date. Your attitude needs to be to wow her. The only people who can get awa… | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Any Parks and Rec watchers here? I was not pleased with a recent episode.Getting angry at a joke is not worth your time. I think everything should be fair game for joking around. Comedians joke about rape, incest, race, slavery, immigration, ect. A lot of these jokes are considered non-politically correct. The problem isn't the joke, the problems is if society sees it as the truth or a joke. The way I see it, Men's Rights made it into the episode, this will cause a few people to google the term and realize it's a thing that exists. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/15 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What to say after approaching a girl?A lot "successful" pick-up guys will talk about routines and bits and having a "tight set". Really, it's about connecting with the other person. I think it is useful to have an idea of something to talk about or a story to tell. For me, the most important thing when I meet people for the first time, is my attitude and excitement level. The better mode I am or the better I feel, the easier it is and the more people connect with me. So, really, for me, it's mostly about being able to get to that s… | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 07:24 AM |
| 53 | What happens when you have a girlfriend? How do you not SETTLE and not COMPROMISE.The biggest issue I have with the seduction community is that it creates this concept that (almost) every guy should be about getting as many 10's as possible. And if you are in a long term monogamous relationship, then you are a loser (or couldn't date the hot girls). My point is that every person has different goals and desires, if you feel like having a girlfriend would put you back on your newly gained progress, then go ahead and stay single. You get in a monogamous relationship because you … | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 07:03 AM |
| 12 | Girl takes hours to reply but whenever she does, she replies in detail and ask questions to keep conversation goingHaving text conversations doesn't build rapport or connection. It's not impossible, just rare and hard to do. You need to talk to her on the phone (call her) or just ask her out. If you just met her, make it something light and not-intense, like coffee. You should have a few places to take girls you got phone numbers from already in mind. This way, you have a plan. Also, you need to meet more girls and get more numbers. Everyone's ratio for getting numbers to getting dates is different, but your… | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 04:12 PM |
| 8 | How could I take girls back to THEIR place instead of mine?This is an issue for sure, because you probably can't date girls who live with their families since neither of you have a suitable place to be alone. You just have to ask tnem when the time comes. It's a handicap you just have to work with. Everyone has them, so it shouldn't prevent you from dating successfully. | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop myself from being a try hard?Balance is insanely important when you want to attract a girl. You need to be passionate, yet smooth; relaxed and excited; funny but not a clown; in shape but not a meat head. You get the idea. Right now, your interactions are telling you something is not right. You need to find a person who you want to emulate and then model their behavior. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How to not have a boring personality?You are probably too worried about "being a jerk", so you only talk and do things that would prevent this. That's what makes you boring. My advice is to try to be funny. Then you can work on being funny AND flirty. Then you will get girls interested in you. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Give her the gift of missing you.It's all about balance. Especially with girlfriends, you need to balance the attention. Too much and she will feel smothered, too little and she will lose interest. You also should take your goals into account. If you want a steady girlfriend that you talk with and hang out with every day, then you can steadily progress the relationship and the attention. If she loses interest, then that's life and she didn't want a steady relationship. If you are just looking for someone to date casually, then … | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | This is my resolutionOkay, that's a start, but you also should be one-on-one with girls in a date-like setting. If you just trying to hook up with girls at parties without properly ask them out, then I think you found your problem. Hooking up with girls at parties works for some guys, but it's not working for you. So, I would start spending the whole evening or afternoon alone with girls. You could call it a date or not, but, it should feel like a date and you should be trying to escalate the physical intimacy. Like… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 03:07 AM |
| 1 | This is my resolutionOften are you with girls in a one-on-one situation? | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Tips for messaging girls on facebook.I am not saying go to high school. I am saying join clubs and activities that have people your own age. You need to meet girls in real life. You can't go to bars or dance clubs, so you need to join clubs like the movie club or the theatre club. You can't run game from Facebook. You need to meet people in real life in a social setting. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad to have slept with 23 different people in three years?I mean, it's probably not ideal for a girl to have a lot more partners than me. But, really, I can't judge since I have dated girls who have slept with a lot less than me and they didn't judge me. If you are concerned she has a lot more experience than you, then you need to get over it or move on. Really, this is about you. You are insecure about your lack of experience, not her abundance of experience. If I really like her, I wouldn't think much about it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:47 AM |
| 11 | How to esculate in a private setting without getting rejected?If she is in your house after a date, then she is thinking about having sex with you. I usually pour a glass of wine and keep talking about whatever we were talking about. Then, when on the couch, I gradually move closer to them and eventually, just kiss them. I have never timed it, but I would guess it's not more than 30 minutes until we are kissing and making out. As for sex on the first date, I don't see as issue with it. It can lead to very meaningful relationships. If you have a problem wit… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:44 AM |
| 21 | Where to start?You shouldn't pursue one girl at a time. You should have a few girls that you are "talking" with. This will help prevent getting caught up on of them. If you don't have a few girls that you are pursuing, then you need to meet more girls. You meet more girls by joining clubs, going to parties, and approaching them in your every day life. Keep doing this until you are dating 3-4 at one time, then, if you want, pick one that you want as your gf. Or just keep dating a few at one time. By having 3-4 … | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | This is my resolutionFor high school, you need to have social status to get attention from girls. You get social status from knowing a lot of people and being in a lot of groups or clubs. And when you are in those groups, I would recommend trying to be funny or, at least, the fun guy. I wouldn't recommend trying to be funny in class because it can really piss off your teachers. It's rare that a kid can be funny in class and still be liked by his teachers. If you know a kid like that, then maybe use him as a model. A… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to make boundaries with women and tell them when something they do is bothering you.Do you have an example? | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:22 AM |
| 8 | Tips for messaging girls on facebook.You CAN'T run game in high school on facebook. It will be creepy as hell. You need to join a couple of clubs, activities, or sports. The guys who get the most attention in high school are the ones you are the most popular and known by everyone. Homeschool students are allowed, by law, to join clubs and sports at the high school they are zoned for. At least in my state. Seriously, join a bunch of clubs, some with a lot of girls, some with a mix and another with just guys. This will give you a big… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Give her the gift of missing you.I see it as being able to balance your attention to her and her reactions to the attention. If you are caught up in a whirlwind romance, which is a shit ton of fun, you can almost not never give her too much attention. She will always want more. However, this happens rarely, and when it does, you will freaking know it because it hits you like a freight train. Most of the time, you have measure how much attention you give her depending your relationship at that point. If you just met her and ther… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:14 AM |
| 35 | Is it a bad idea to date women with low self esteem?Yes, it is a red flag, but I think almost all girls suffer from low self-esteem. It's completely unjustified a lot of the times, but it's true. Even girls that are absolutely beautiful models are VERY insecure about their looks. Models are constantly questioning their looks and how they measure up to other girls. You find the girls who often don't care how they look usually have very high self-esteem since they don't associate their physical appearance with their self-worth. So, if you want to d… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:02 AM |
| 11 | Creep shaming - this is what feminists are branding creepy now? (just don't talk to anyone)This is yet another example of "If I don't think you are attractive any attempt at a conversation or relationship with me will result in you being labeled a 'creeper' and me being a bitch to you." It's hilarious how girls will be bitches to 99% of the guys who talk to them, yet don't consider themselves bitches because the 1% of the time they like a guy they are actually civil. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/14 03:26 PM |
| 5 | I need help! My back is against the wall...One of the most important things in your life is to pick the right spouse. You picked the wrong one. It sucks and you are in a big fight. The other issue you have is that you don't have any money or a job. This doesn't bode well for a legal battle. I don't know what to tell you. Keep fighting and good luck. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/14 03:13 PM |
| 27 | Girl slaps BF in public argument. Cop sees and arrests her.This was hard to read. He kept making excuses for her. And he still is staying together with her. WTF. It's only ten months. They are not married. They don't have kids. They seem pretty young. I mean, jesus, what does it take to break up with a crazy girlfriend? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/11/14 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Feminists wonder why so few support them? Drunk girl' video is a HOAX: Men who appeared to be taking advantage of model in viral video say they were just acting.This video was created by a guy. Probably just some asshole looking for a few million views, which he got. I wouldn't worry about it too much. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/14 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that simply disagreeing with modern feminism warrants hate and anger toward you?I honestly think it is just a distraction to the real issue, which is income/status inequality. Gender is an easy thing for media and social media types to write about or talk about without actually doing anything. I have much more in common with a female of equal comparable income with me than I do with a male who is either a lot above or below me. I generally get along with women and don't get into arguments with them or experience gender inequality one way or another. I do, however, experienc… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/14 04:43 AM |
| -1 | My professor tried to lecture objectively about circumcisions, but I feel she was leaning more towards our way of looking at it. She surveyed the students, these were the results.http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/circumcision | /r/MensRights | 17/10/14 12:53 AM |
| -10 | My professor tried to lecture objectively about circumcisions, but I feel she was leaning more towards our way of looking at it. She surveyed the students, these were the results.I know it very unpopular here, but I think it's up to the parent. Parents have to make all sorts of health decisions for their children. There are some health benefits to it, so it's not like it's JUST for cultural or religious reasons. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/14 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Seems like its women who mostly slut-shame.Duh, women are mostly responsible for fat shaming each other as well. Look at men's magazines, healthy looking, beautiful women. Look at fashion and women's magazines, under nourished, super thin and VERY young. Women are their own worse critics. Feminists yell all day long about how women should be able to make their choices, except the ones the feminists disagree with. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/14 02:56 AM |
| -1 | Story: I'm still feeling a little sick by this.I agree. It's sucks, it's bigotry and it's shitty. It happens to black people with dread locks all the fucking time. I worked with a back who was an amazing worker and person. Did everything right. Everyone loved him. But, he looked rough. He had dreadlocks and was big guy. As soon as he got a haircut, he got a big promotion that he had been passed over a few times before. But, that's part of the problem with looking like OP does. What's more important? Not being harassed in front of your family… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/14 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.Bad Mother Fucker. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/14 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.Too late, TRP is growing way faster than MR, and RP philosophy will only become more prevalent. Meh, I disagree. It's growing on the internet. People who "follow" the red pill philosophy probably don't apply it in real life. Most of the "real life stories" on the red pill read like /r/thatHappened Most of the guys on the red pill are too afraid to actually do all the things they say. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/14 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.Again, name calling. You still don't realize how dumb and weak you come across by trying to act tough on an anonymous website. But, that would take some self-awareness. I bet in your everyday life you are the meekness person and keep your "opinions" to yourself. That's why you love the internet, you get to voice your idiotic stances without any real world repercussions. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.You have no idea how old I am and you don't know my level of involvement. So....you are the one talking out of your ass. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/14 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.Haha. Again nice name calling. People show their true colors when there are no consequences for their words. Calling someone names on the internet is about as tough as eating cupcakes. If you had any ounce of dignity or self-confidence you would actually debate me instead of calling me names. Enjoy your eternal adolescence. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/14 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.haha. Right. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/14 01:36 AM |
| -1 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.I did engage. Because the believe the red pill is an idiotic way of thinking and just as damaging as the worst feminists. And it is just like someone from the red pill to call me moronic instead of making counter points. Their debate style is juvenile and reminds me of middle school. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/14 04:32 AM |
| -1 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.You have no idea what you are talking about. Enjoy adolescence. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/14 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.Admittedly, there are crazy people in almost every group of people. The problem with the red pill is that they are ones running the show and setting the agenda. If someone hangs out with criminals all the time, then says "they aren't all bad people." I will believe him, but I don't buy it when he tries to defend their criminal behavior and acts like they are just like regular people, but they commit crimes for a living. The red pill is a medieval and adolescent philosophy mostly for men who are … | /r/MensRights | 20/09/14 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Feminists: why even bother debating them? This is why.I agree that some/many/most? feminists are impossible to convince rationally, but you are demonizing them too much. Also, it's difficult for me to believe anything you say since you are a frequent poster and user name suggests that you are of like mind with those guys over at the red pill. Feminists should be debated and many of their arguments are illogical, so they will eventually lose the debates, but you should stay away from those crazies at the red pill. They are about the same as the wors… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/14 04:01 PM |
| 1 | ESPN analyst is happy to reduce "men" to vile caricature, says they need to be reprogrammedThis is very similar to the argument that athletes have bad grades. All the data shows that athletes have, on average, a better GPA when compared to the rest of the study body. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/14 05:33 PM |
| 2 | ESPN analyst is happy to reduce "men" to vile caricature, says they need to be reprogrammedWhile I am a fan of football, it does in some ways promote violence that can lead to some people committing the violent crimes that they do. Do you have any evidence that supports this claim? Are football players more likely to commit violent crimes than the rest of society? The data says no. So, football might actually make them LESS violent. http://www.commdiginews.com/news-2/ray-rice-domestic-violence-and-the-nfl-a-phony-problem-25857/ | /r/MensRights | 17/09/14 04:22 AM |
| 6 | ESPN analyst is happy to reduce "men" to vile caricature, says they need to be reprogrammedI don't really listen to people who have no idea what it's like to be a male. It's funny how women are allowed to be experts on men, but men can't be experts on women. She is an idiot. Football doesn't have a culture of violence against women. Ray Rice and other players have lost their jobs because of domestic violence. That means football is AGAINST domestic violence. Football would be FOR domestic violence if it rewarded players for it. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/14 02:07 AM |
| 43 | My Son was born yesterday. I need to find out where. Any tips?You need to get a lawyer who deals in family law. This is the most important thing. They will tell you all the steps you need to take. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/14 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Youtuber Jayd3Fox harrassed and driven off the internet by feminst Social Justice Warriors for her criticism of Anita/Quinngate.They talk about things that contradict the other sayings, This is feminism in a nutshell. They want women to be able to make their own decisions, yet they criticize them for not making the "right" decisions. So, when they criticize a girl for dancing in a rap video, they don't even care that there is a person who WANTED to dance in the rap video. It was her choice and she is a person who should be able to dance wherever the hell she wants to dance. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/14 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone understand the Wikipedia editing process/site interaction well? I need help dealing with someone over there regarding a false claim that 86% of domestic violence victims are women.Wikipedia is so horribly run now. The people who contribute often have no clue about their topics and the stuff they write is often categorically wrong. I attempted to get into wikipedia editing a few years ago and it was the biggest waste of time. Essentially, when a person contributes heavily to an article, they think they own what is true and what isn't, when in reality, they often have no clue. I mean, how else can you get people to volunteer for something, you give them ownership of their a… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/14 07:27 PM |
| 8 | Youtuber Jayd3Fox harrassed and driven off the internet by feminst Social Justice Warriors for her criticism of Anita/Quinngate.Why, why do feminists attack women regurarly? Women are all about controlling each other. They learn from an early age that they need to regulate each others behavior in order to "stick together" so they can use their social cohesiveness to control various aspects of society. Men generally don't criticize women for being too skinny, women do. Men don't buy magazines with girls who are a size zero on the cover, women do. Men don't criticize women for having a lot of sex (unless they lie about it)… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/14 07:04 PM |
| 25 | TIFU: By Smiling at a Girl on the Bus • /r/tifu (np): Front page story about a man who was ashamed, frightened, and yelled at because he made eye contact on the bus and walked home. Demonstrates how some men spend a lot of time and effort being frightened of offending women.The crazy thing is that this girl will chalk this up as yet another "stalker" story to tell her friends, then they will all relish in the fact that all average looking men are creeps and weirdos that want to rape them because they are so hot and desirable. The irony about all the rape talk by the SJWs is that the people who have been raped don't talk about it and the people who haven't been raped won't stop talking about it. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/14 03:39 PM |
| 15 | My wife committed drug felonies, abuse, and other despicable acts. She still got my son and everything I had.This guy is up shit creak. He made the biggest mistake of all, trusting a lying drugged out addict. He needs to keep gathering evidence against her. Get her arrested. Anything. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/14 02:22 AM |
| 1 | I am a Life-Long Liberal & University Instructor Who Has Finally Had It with Feminism in Higher EducationHonestly, I think this trend in higher education for favoring women will continue as the female % of college students continues to climb. Education at the lower levels (primary and high school) are extremely dominated by females and it's a horrible place to work . Ridiculous testing, very little educator freedom, inefficient bureaucracy, massive amounts of stupid paperwork. The list just keeps going. I hate to say it, but really the best places to work are ones where women are under-represented.… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/14 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Why are PUAs often so mean-spirited or dismissive other guys (both PUAs and non-PUAs)?There is a lot of this mentality in the community. I see it as a lack of balance. A lot of guys who get into seduction were too passive and shy growing up, so they get into seduction and then try to over compensate. They just don't know how to balance their lives and themselves. It's easier to just do one thing 100% than to figure out a good balance. Balance is very difficult. It takes a lot of inner work, patience, and the ability to see the self as it really is. A lot of guys would rather just… | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 02:51 AM |
| 4 | I'm curious what's the most common mistakes areNumber one: all-time biggest mistake is not trying. Number two: is not correcting your mistakes. If you try and correct your mistakes, you will figure everything out. | /r/seduction | 23/11/13 04:50 PM |
| 1 | First move after getting a girl's numberJust text her and see if she responds. If she doesn't remember you, then move on. If she does, then flirt with her a little and then call her. You need to get things going quickly or she will definitely forget you. | /r/seduction | 23/11/13 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Going on a date with a girl? KISS HERIt's your first date ever, just focus on progressing on each date. Hold hands first, then put your arm around her, then kiss her cheek, then kiss her on the lips, then make-out. The most important part is that you try. | /r/seduction | 23/11/13 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Cold war: women limit sex access as a way of maintaining advantage in the negotiation of this resourceWomen aren't bad people, they're just ordinary, narcissistic, egotistically self-absorbed human beings who have no particular need or desire to be altruistic toward you for any reason at all This is extremely unhealthy. You are missing the larger point of interacting with women, which is to enjoy the moment and break down their barriers to connect with them. This is my biggest problem with seduction. It talks about "winning" and "sexual competition". It isn't a competition. Life isn't a competit… | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Cold war: women limit sex access as a way of maintaining advantage in the negotiation of this resourceI have long thought that women were harder on women than men are. The most glaring example is slut-shaming. Generally, men like women who enjoy sex, are skilled at it, and have casual partners. Just like the article says, men enjoy sex a lot, so encouraging women to enjoy it would tip the sexual balance back to even. I generally disagree with the idea that everything is a competition, but it makes sense when viewed in the whole. I would be very reluctant to use this "sexual competition" metaphor… | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Girls who can't take a complimentSome girls like this type of flattery/complimenting style, but some see it as bullshit. I had one girlfriend who loved it. I used to make these types of exaggerated comparisons about how cool/pretty she was. She really got off on it. She knew I was sort of joking around/exaggerating, but she liked it, so I would do it occasionally. I did this to a different girlfriend and she hated it. It wasn't that she had low self-esteem, she just thought it was bullshit and she didn't like it. So I just stop… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 04:58 PM |
| 13 | 6 year LTR ended 3 months ago. Just feeling defeated, alone, and don't know where to start.I work 12 hours a day 5-6 days a week in jobs I don’t even like? This is your problem. Not women. Not your ex-gf. Not your friends. Not your family. You need to look yourself in the eye and realize that this break-up was a great opportunity to remake your life and yourself. If you could find a way to do something you think is interesting then you could really transform yourself. You have hit bottom. Since nothing else worked, now do something you really want to do. Become the person you want to … | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Has Seduction Changed Your View Of Women?Yeah, Models has helped me a lot. I feel like I learned a lot before I read it, but it sort of summed up all of my lessons and reinforced them. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 03:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Attempt at a Second Night StandOutcome dependence is often the result of the feeling that you don't get enough opportunities, so you HAVE to make this one count. So, take it as a sign that you might need to work on socializing more and in a better situations. If you are consistently in situations (parties, bars, clubs, school, work, ect.) that you get exposure to girls you are interested in, then you won't have outcome dependence. If you are happy with your social life and the quality of people/girls around you, you generally… | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 05:40 PM |
| 30 | Has Seduction Changed Your View Of Women?Like almost everyone, it has been a process and a journey for me. I was always able to date and have girlfriends, I just didn't think I was reaching my potential. Before I started studying seduction/dating, I would go through long dry spells, then would have tons of dates and girls interested in me. It was feast or famine for me. And I never really understood why. Studying dating/seduction helped me to realize some of the misconceptions I was having and to get rid of the negative mindset I had. … | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 04:11 PM |
| -1 | How to respond to a "How old are you?" shit test?There are a number of ways to handle it. You could say "guess" and then just agree to whatever they say. Or could quote some famous line about age not being important. Here The truth is, age isn't important, so just tell them that. Tell them you don't like to talk about age because it closes people off. It dismisses people. You value being open, meeting new people and having fun. Age doesn't have anything to do with that, so you honestly don't think about it. Then ask them what they value. It's … | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 01:28 AM |
| 1 | TL;DR first time out in a while. went ok.Don't get too caught up in the "rules". Paying for dinner is considered being classy for a lot of people. But if you are footing the bill for everything, drinks, dinner, parking, ice cream, movies, flowers, ect. Then you might be going to far. I would say, 60/40 split would be okay. It's really about balance. Paying 50/50 seems robotic and calculated, not good for a vibe for a date. Paying for everything seems needy and puts her on a pedestal. Having her pay for everything also seems strange. So… | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Text vs. CallWhatever you think is better and are more comfortable with. There is a lot of information on here about texting being inferior to calling. | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Lack confidence: Need help with approachmy current job is not very exciting This could be more significant than you think. You need purpose to your life. It sounds like you have done some really interesting things. Was your confidence better when you were doing something you enjoyed or were more into? If so, then you need to start looking into making a change. I struggled for a while with my confidence when I moved back to my hometown after living abroad for a while. Moving wasn't the issue, it was the lack of interest in my hometown … | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 03:38 PM |
| 40 | Talking at partiesYou need to connect deep and wide with girls. Wide: Lots of subjects, lots of topics, lots of activities. Change the topic constantly, tell jokes, do interesting stuff together: playing games, roleplaying, ect. Deep: When you do talk and do something, do it intensely. People like passion. Get interested in their lives and their passions. Then change the subject or activity. Then, when you feel like you have made a really good connection, get them alone. Not in a bedroom alone, but maybe on the b… | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 03:26 PM |
| 3 | "I can visualize every girl I see as a trashy, internet cam whore, and it becomes incredibly easy to get back into state."I think you are being fooled, but someday, hopefully, you will realize the fog that is the Red Pill. Status, wealth and chasing women are illusions used to trap you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 06:54 PM |
| 4 | "I can visualize every girl I see as a trashy, internet cam whore, and it becomes incredibly easy to get back into state."I'm not 'regressing' to anything. I disagree. The Red Pill advocates a locker room/ Lord of The Flies type mentality, with women in a subordinate position. The irony is that the Red Pill is supposed to be about being "alpha" and being independent. By being so heavily invested in the Red Pill, you are being beta, according to your own standards (I don't thing these things exist, though). Do you have any original ideas or thoughts that aren't a part of the Red Pill ideology? Or do you just listen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 06:32 PM |
| 3 | SMVThe RP sub is mostly younger and immature guys, I agree. I just don't see why someone who recognizes this would actually want to spend time there. Locker rooms are 99% bullshit. Some guys do not have balance, that's what makes them BETA, and that's why women often cheat on them or dump them You are confusing balance with being alpha. You said it yourself. Relationships require both sides of the pill, so to speak. But, you are generalizing about human social dynamics, which are notoriously comple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 04:22 PM |
| 4 | SMVI have original thoughts, I agree with many things in the RP, but not everything. That's good, but you are being fooled by them. The Red Pill used a clever marketing ploy (The Matrix) to rehash ideas taken from 10 year old seduction books, blogs and forums. You don't need them. They are the fog. The Red Pill has a strict interpretation of what is okay and not okay. There is not much wiggle room at the subreddit. People who voice balanced opinions get banned (or shouted down). My point is, if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 09:15 AM |
| 5 | SMVNice, a matrix metaphor. I have never heard that one before. The irony about the Red Pill fascination with being alpha is that you are being beta by listening to all of it. You don't have a real opinion. You are just reproducing (which is beta, right?), all of their theories. What are some of your original ideas or thoughts that haven't been stolen from the Red Pill mods (who stole most of it from seduction guys)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 08:07 AM |
| 3 | SMVHaha, what is my evolutionary purpose? I would love to here it from you. Or are you going to punish me unjustly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 07:51 AM |
| 6 | "I can visualize every girl I see as a trashy, internet cam whore, and it becomes incredibly easy to get back into state."No, anyone who has done it, knows you must face it. Yes, I agree. Facing the fear and doing is a very effective way to overcome anxiety and become skilled at whatever you want to learn or do. Maybe you think an absurd thought to help you get up there, and to help you start. That's not what the Red Pill is about. It's about degrading and demeaning women to pump themselves up. And I believe this isn't a healthy way to view the world. It assigns status and value to people who have the appropriate s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 07:27 AM |
| 7 | "I can visualize every girl I see as a trashy, internet cam whore, and it becomes incredibly easy to get back into state."The root of the anxiety is inexperience No, again you assume too much knowledge. He can only know why he is anxious. You don't know. I don't know. But you are using a painkiller to solve a deep issue. Yes, approaching girls and talking with them will alleviate the anxiety, but using an archaic and misleading ideology to do it will have negative consequences. You are saying it doesn't matter what gets you over the problem and I am saying that it matters a great deal. Again, the main problem I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 07:02 AM |
| 3 | SMVHaha, that's funny. I happily accept whatever that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 06:30 AM |
| 1 | SMVThe sexual marketplace is real. For you maybe, I don't see human interactions as a market place. It is dehumanizing. I humanize people. The fact is human nature is inherently selfish, Now, I see why you think of people trying to find love and connection as a market place. I don't think people are naturally selfish. If you want to be selfish. You can be, it is your right as a person. I just probably won't want to be your friend. I might be wrong, we might have some things in common. I just usuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 06:25 AM |
| 1 | SMVbut I will weigh many factors to arrive at a value in my head though. Understanding these things makes my value assessment more accurate IMO. You are, of course, allowed to do or think whatever you want. For me, Sexual Market Value is a ridiculous concept that is completely made up by people concerned with obtaining status. And it is a part of the Red Pill ideology that attempts to quantify people according to status which assess status using Red Pill approved methods. By building up these rules… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 05:54 AM |
| 11 | "I can visualize every girl I see as a trashy, internet cam whore, and it becomes incredibly easy to get back into state."They are addressing the symptoms and not the cause of the anxiety. It's like taking a pain killer. Does it alleviate the pain? Yes. But these mental tricks just mask the insecurity and anxiety that they are refusing to address. Once you strip away the root cause of the anxiety, the symptoms of anxiety go away. But, it is easier in the short term to mask the symptoms than it is to look deep into the self and expose the facade that we have all built up our whole lives. The most dangerous part abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 05:34 AM |
| 5 | SMVYou seem to worry about a lot of stuff. Do you really care why you are drawn to someone else? Doesn't it matter why? You make all these rules about market value, chasing, cuckolding, attraction, and other nonsense. You are just imprisoning yourself. Sluttiness is obviously a risk factor here too. Why? People change. If you focus too much on a person's past, you will miss out on a lot of great experiences and connecting with some interesting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 05:19 AM |
| 7 | SMVHow, may I ask is the of SMV of a sexually active woman lower for having more partners. It isn't. These concepts are generally meaningless. Sexual Market Value and Married Market Value are ridiculous concepts for both men and women. People marry or date for a number of reasons. Human dynamics are extraordinarily difficult to quantify and measure. Are there some universal traits that people think are beautiful or attractive? Probably. But there are so many examples of people doing the opposite of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 04:41 AM |
| 14 | Women are incapable of contributing to societyNot everyone is 'essentially the same'. Yes, everyone is. No one is better than anyone else. Like I said, rich people, poor people, hot, ugly, rude, polite, smart or dumb. Everyone struggles. The Red Pill measures people by accomplishments. This is exactly the "hedonic treadmill", Buddhists call it the "empty ghost". When you realize that life is about a lot more than money, chasing girls and "being Alpha", then you will free yourself from the false hierarchy you have created in your mind. The R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/13 11:41 PM |
| 37 | Women are incapable of contributing to societySadly, you are a very accurate in your criticisms of the Red Pill. The Red Pill philosophy is mainly directed at pumping themselves up so they can date "HB 10's". This doesn't sound so bad, but since they adopt an adolescent mentality in social value they have to demean women so they can move up the social ladder. I think it would be much easier and more fulfilling if they just worked on improving their own self-worth and inner balance. It is only after you achieve this inner balance, that you r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/13 01:34 AM |
| 11 | Biotruths?The use of the terms "slut" is one of the most enlightening ways the Red Pill demonstrates it's contradictions. This term is almost universally considered negative. And the Red Pill uses it in a very negative way and they use it often. However, the "main goal" of the Red Pill is to practice swapping tips and strategies for sleeping with more women along with staying perpetually single. I actually don't see a problem with sleeping with who ever you want, as long as it is consensual and you aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/13 08:33 PM |
| 17 | What tips does /r/seduction have for gaining the affections of a more quiet, introverted girl?You need to connect with her, deep and wide. Wide= do a lot of activities with her, talk about tons of subjects. Deep= when you do those activities, it has to be an excellent experience, very fun, yet significant. And when you talk to her, the conversations should be deep and important. Shy girls are shy because they don't trust people quickly. When she trusts you, she will open up. So, you have to build rapport, trust and develop a deep, special connection with her. Shallow activities, boring c… | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 05:53 PM |
| 8 | What is so hard about just being decent to everybody?Are both sides mean to each other? Yes, sometimes. I wish it weren't as bad as it is, but this is the internet, right? I have two main problems with the Red Pill: 1) The philosophical: The Red Pill claims to fundamentally understand human sexuality, relationships, and social dynamics between genders. To me, this is ridiculous. It is an overly complex to address so many different issues in one pseudo-scientific philosophy. Then, when something doesn't fit into their world view, they explain it aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/13 04:13 PM |
| 9 | [serious]The Distilled Essence of TRP According to Someone Who PM'ed Me Angrily. TRP--is this What You Believe? If Not, Please Explain that to TBPThe reason it is called the red pill is because it is about acceptance of how the world actually operates. And this is my biggest problem with the Red Pill. It assumes way TOO much about the world. Human sexuality and social dynamics are very complex and difficult to understand. Using the Matrix metaphor that the whole concept is built upon. How do you know that the world Neo is shown and told my Morpheus to be the real world, is, in fact, the real world. The answer, you don't know. Neo is foole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/13 03:58 PM |
| 11 | National Geographic Agrees the Human Alpha Male is Real--What Does PPD think?so don't try to improve yourself or rise above your station? If you want to improve yourself, then go ahead. I don't see a problem with it. But, I think this "alpha-male" obsession is counter-productive. It's a locker room/lord of the flies type thinking. You aren't being yourself, you are trying to be an "alpha-male". If a girl treats your poorly or is rude, just walk away and find someone who is a decent person. That is not alpha or beta, that is common sense. Can you attract girls by being a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 08:07 PM |
| 9 | National Geographic Agrees the Human Alpha Male is Real--What Does PPD think?The obsession with Alpha males by the Red Pill is strange. Thinking about it, talking about it, discussing it. These are traits that alpha males probably don't do. Just be who you are supposed to be. Red Pill people try to fit into this master "type" that will bring them success in life. Look within. Seek balance. Alpha, Beta, Omega, Gamma, Zeta. It doesn't mean anything. If you want to study apes, behavior and society, that's fine. But applying scientific studies in a hap-hazard way to dating i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 05:33 PM |
| 4 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVI get it. You are trying help men not be afraid of women to get more dates. I just disagree with bashing women and putting them down, which is what the Red Pill does. Instead, seek balance. Balance is what honest and good "naturals" have. They have this ability to socially relax and remain calm that allows them to just connect with people. They don't put women up or down. They just connect with people. Women love connection. Men love connection. This concept draws you to good people. This balanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 05:04 PM |
| 3 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVYou might think this is shaming them "Slut" is very derogatory term used by your community to put down women, so people (and you) in your community can feel better about themselves and not be afraid to approach these same women. You are the hamsters just as bad as the "sluts". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 04:42 PM |
| 2 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVHere it is one last time so you don't get confused. The Red Pill uses the term "slut" in a negative and mocking culture. You allow this. You advocate this. However, you have casual sex with these same "sluts". You can't respect people in which you allow and advocate demeaning, mocking language about them. Thus, you are hypocrite or lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 04:18 PM |
| 2 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVWould you blame women for saying it's his choices that made him unattractive? Or should they be forced to date people they don't find attractive? That's not the issue. You allow people to demean and mock women that you sleep with, whom you claim to like and respect. You have helped create a negative culture that contradicts it's own actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 04:10 PM |
| 2 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVThen why do you allow your subreddit to demean and mock women who have casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 03:55 PM |
| 2 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVSo, you are saying you respect all the women you sleep with? Even the "slutty" ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 03:52 PM |
| 2 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVYour actions speak louder than your words. Submissions, by you, that had slut in the title: "Social Welfare Creates A Society Of Sluts" "The Feelings slut" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 03:47 PM |
| 3 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVYou actively moderate a subreddit where women are consistently called "sluts" and "whores" and are demeaned for having sex with multiple people. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/search?q=sluts&restrict_sr=on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 03:37 PM |
| 5 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVYou present yourself in The Purple Pill Debate as liking these women you sleep with. Then on the Red Pill, you slam them and allow others to do so. This is the lie. Which is it? Do you respect them or hate them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 03:13 PM |
| 4 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVI like sluts, I have sex with sluts. Exactly, but yet you advocate and pursue a philosophy that demeans these women. You are sleeping with (and spending time with) women you detest and don't respect. You are lying to them and you are lying to yourself. When we criticize anybody, it's because how they act is starkly in contrast to how they attempt to portray themselves. You are really good at identifying hypocrisy in others, yet you are blind to your own. Hey, I get it. It's hard to see in yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 02:08 PM |
| 9 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVDo want to sleep with lots of women? Or not? Having sex with women while secretly hating them for it. That's a common theme at the Red Pill. You are putting yourself above women. You are not above anyone. You are just like everyone else. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 01:47 PM |
| 11 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVThe Red Pill absolutely advocates slut shaming. The whole subreddit is full of jokes, comments and "hamstering" about girls who have had multiple sexual partners. Saying otherwise is dishonest at best. The irony is that you claim to be "super honest". Why not be honest here about how you feel about promiscuous girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 11:32 PM |
| 4 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVHaha, that's hilarious. The image of a young college idiot making sweeping generalizations about female sexuality because he "hooked up" with a few sorority girls. Which he probably never did anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 11:31 PM |
| 6 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVYeah, they have a world view and no "scientific" evidence will change that. I think they are a bunch of guys who have had problems connecting with women and this is their answer. So, they use techniques to connect with women superficially. It works, because there are a lot of attractive superficial women, who tend to be younger. Unfortunately, I don't think their strict interpretation is sustainable. So, what happens is similar to a male locker room. They tell each other stories about how many g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Surely You're JokingIt is very difficult to have balance. You shouldn't put yourself below or above anyone, male or female. So, Feynman was having problems with both sides of the issue. Assuming the story is true, he probably made a good connection with the girl. He then put her above him by buying food for her, then brought her back down by asking her to repay him. Balance is what you need. This is not easy. It takes great inner calmness to know how to connect with a person. We all do it. We all love connecting wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 11:09 PM |
| 8 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVI don't know how you can sit there and accuse the blue pill side of being stubborn and unwilling to change when the supposed scientific evidence that you claim supports you actually doesn't. Unfortunately, this is typical of the Red Pill "debate" style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 10:51 PM |
| 14 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVThere is very limited science on this topic, and for good reason. No scientist will ever successfully get funded to look into something anti-feminist, such as hypergamy. I don't see why this is true. You are making a sweeping judgment about all of science forever into the future. This is the problem I have with the Red Pill "debate". You are making wide claims about the whole of human sexuality and then when you can't give examples for such claims, you then say that it impossible because society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel being a stay at home parent is as much work as having a full time job?Holly shit yes! I am single and don't have kids, but little kids are a crazy amount of work. Do you know why kids are in school for most of the day? Because it is easier to send your kids to school and you go to work, than to stay at home and home school them. Home schooling children is A LOT better for kids, but parents would much rather spend time at work than stay home with the kids all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What is "benevolent sexism?" And why isn't it just sexism?Men live at the extreme's of society more than women. We commit more violent crime, kill ourselves more, rape more, but we also are more often CEO's, Presidents, business owners, leading scientists, ect. Women occupy the middle of society with less extremes. I think of it like being the quarterback in football. You get blamed if you lose, and get more credit if you win. Regardless if you are truly responsible for the outcome, you are blamed/glorified. This is just how most societies think about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/13 08:18 PM |
| 6 | Two months ago an AFC, progress/FRNice work man. Keeping working and improving! | /r/seduction | 11/10/13 03:16 PM |
| 3 | How can I stop being socially awkward?One word, IMPROV. This is the best to thing to happen to me socially. It was like the I could see the matrix when I discovered it. I never knew why sometimes, I could be the life of the party and other times, be the loser with no friends. Improve concepts and practicing showed me the way. It shows you how to flirt, stand up for yourself, be self defecating, and make people feel comfortable. Go to a class, practice and then do it in a real world situation. | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Im going to be living in an intimate group environment for 10 months as the only foreigner in a group of 50What do you think I should do in regards to the girl I was messaging? Let her initiate contact with you. Be very friendly with her when she comes up to you, like you just saw a long time friend for the first time in a year. Act like you have known her forever. Then introduce her to the people you just met. Introducing people= social value, do it often. It builds rapport with both people. And do it in front of a lot of people. This will build mystery about your relationship with her in others' mi… | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 05:00 PM |
| 31 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."chicks dig assholes and will always drop the nice guy for the insensitive jerk. I agree, but I think this over simplifies the problem. I am borrowing heavily from Mark Manson's ideas, but I agree with him. Girls are attracted to non-neediness. They love strength and confidence. In their ignorance, they think the insensitive local rock band guy is strong because he is selfish and acts like he doesn't give a shit about her. This is my point, women's clues for strength and confidence that lead to a… | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 04:27 PM |
| 35 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."I think most women confuse "nice guy" for being weak. I know a lot of nice guys who have really good careers, make good money, are good fathers, don't drink too much and pay their bills on time. This is the problem with modern middle class men and women. Men are "too nice" or are perceived as being weak, and women don't know how to see the forest through the trees. She is making the same mistake that many middle class women make, that the men she meets in her daily life, at work, in the gym, in … | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Im going to be living in an intimate group environment for 10 months as the only foreigner in a group of 50Be the cool, fun guy. It is very important that you establish yourself as the social center very early on. Meet everyone, know everyone's name and try to organize social, fun stuff. Be the go to guy for what's going on. If you do this, you will have a few of the most attractive girls to choose from. You are risking drama, but drama can actually increase your attractiveness to the girls because it means you are being fought over. Now, if you are completely uncomfortable in this role as the social… | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Rebuilding AttractionAnything is possible, but this is very unlikely. People, not just women, associate certain feelings for certain people. For example, think of a famous beautiful actress and imagine her sitting next to you, you probably get very excited and happy. So, you have to be very aware of what feelings and emotions she is associating with you. This is why relationships fall apart, overtime, the associations change. This happens for a variety of reasons, not just because of things you do, but because of ho… | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 05:15 PM |
| 1 | My introduction to Seduction.Haha, yeah it was interesting. We called the ones that chased us "gaijin hunters". The fact that I was white, tall and spoke some Japanese was enough to set you apart. I mean, it wasn't easy to pick up hot J-girls, but there was always some attention thrown my way because of my uniqueness. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 09:10 PM |
| 6 | My introduction to Seduction.It's great that you started this process. I am a white American, but was introduced to seduction while in Tokyo. Anyways, my best friend who was Filipino, also had some of the same issues as you. I know there is a lot of pressure to be nice, not rock the boat and just get along with everyone. Some in seduction might say you should completely change and go hard core, approach tons of super hot girls in night clubs, but I think this is just too much too fast. Seduction is complicated and it means … | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you when you're always the only one carrying the conversation?how do I prevent feeling awkward in a moment of silence? Think of it as building sexual tension. how do you escalate to more sexual questions? Tell a slightly (or overt) sexual story with a common dating issue. Like: Tell a first kiss story and then ask them about their best first kiss. Or tell a dance floor story about kissing and the as them about dance floor etiquette. Or something like that. It should be fun, light and slightly sexual. | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 03:26 PM |
| 3 | What do you when you're always the only one carrying the conversation?Your goal is not to prevent awkwardness, it is to attract her. You think the two are linked, but they are not. Girls are attracted to men who are not needy and demonstrate confidence and strength. So, to attract her you need to: 1) engage her 2) get her to engage you 3) escalate to make her demonstrate a "yes" (or "no" ) 4) Isolate to connect with her: deep and wide (many different things on a deep level) 5) Gradually escalate sexual touching (leading to sex) So, for #2 to happen, you need to sa… | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 05:21 PM |
| 7 | What do you when you're always the only one carrying the conversation?I feel like the key here is making the other person ask you questions. Yes, in a way. You have to get her to engage in the interaction by being interesting, funny, good looking, whatever. There is no magical way. Basically, you can't know she is attracted to you by just having a conversation. You have to push interaction and get her to say "yes" or "no" to you. It is very similar to sales. "Maybes" will kill you. If they say "no" then you can move on to someone who will say yes. That's why handl… | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls running push pull on you?Good luck. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 07:50 PM |
| 20 | What do you when you're always the only one carrying the conversation?It is bad thing to carry the conversation because it is needy. She senses your discomfort. A truly confident person doesn't feel discomfort in an awkward situation, he just doesn't give a shit. So, you should give a genuine effort to connect with the other person, but if you sense she isn't helping, get out or let her feel a little discomfort. And then you can tease her for not having good conversation skills or make her ask you a question. Do awkward silences usually mean the other person isn't… | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls running push pull on you?Try to break off contact before she does and re-establish your frame of the situation. Honestly, though, it is difficult because you can feel like you are constantly playing a game with her and the two of you are struggling to dominate or control the other. If this type of control game escalates or goes on for too long, I lose interest. It means she doesn't really like me, she just likes the game, or is too insecure to trust me. And without decent levels of communication, then this might be a ve… | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Is there a paradox in learning seduction?Is there a way to reconcile outcome independence with, you know, wanting the actual outcome? In a word, no. You have to get value from your inner self. You have to see yourself as having intrinsic value no matter if you are rich, poor, have 3 girlfriends, zero dates or whatever. "what is alpha? Alpha is any trait that displays high value to women. Beta is any trait that displays low value to women." Alpha is whatever you think it means. For me, it means being your own man. It means creating my o… | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 03:17 AM |
| 2 | A Quick Guide On Meeting ModelsThat's fine for you. The way I see it, models are people just like everyone else, except they are beautiful. Let's say you meet 30 women a month, well if you are just randomly going through your life, some will too old, too young, married, not pretty, dumb, whatever. If you make sure that out of that 30, 25 are attractive and in their 20's, then you just dramatically increased your odds of finding a girl who is attractive, available and likes you. | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A Quick Guide On Meeting ModelsThis is good advice. A lot of seduction is focused on clubs and cold approaching, so I really like this type of seduction. I once heard a guy who wasn't really into seduction talk about how he met models. He would go to a coffee shop across from a major model agency (or in the building). He became a regular there and met a lot of the regular customers and staff, and because a lot of the customers were models, he met them. Essentially, you need to expose yourself to a wide selection of these wome… | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Of the 20 richest women in the world, 19 of them inherited their money from either their husband or father. The first self made rich woman rings in at #17. [x-post from r/todayilearned]I don't if /u/AdmiralRedShirt is really trolling or not, but OP's title seems to be slightly misogynist. Of course, women are not as respected in the business world as men. I just don't see why this article is posted here, unless it is to emphasize "Men are more awesome than women." I mean, I don't think men are better than women. I think men are more extreme than women. More men are in jail, more men commit suicide, men are more violent. On the other hand, men are more successful on the high en… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 04:41 PM |
| 6 | I am leaving high school, going into college. What would you recommend to meet new women outside my old high school circle?Haha, this is funny. One thing that I didn't realize until a few years after I left college, was that college is a perfect situation for hooking up with girls. It is literally perfect made for dating several girls. Once you get out of college, a few things happen. Girls begin to get less attractive as they get older. So, dating girls your age becomes less and less desirable. In college, hot girls' dating pool consist of guys still in college. After college, it is the wild wild west. 23 year old … | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 08:02 PM |
| 2 | How do you get/keep a girl invested in you?Really as someone who is like that I hold nothing against touchy people. I know the problem is with me. This is the frame you want to have. As long as you read the uncomfortable reaction and stop touching them, then there is no issue. It will certainly be a 180 for me. This is another positive way to think about it. You will develop your own style as you progress, so your kino style may not be as forward as others, but it still needs to exist. Any last pointers on beginner mistakes? Make mistake… | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you get/keep a girl invested in you?Well, you can incorporate kino escalation into every interaction you want to. If you only do it with attractive girls, then it may come across as forced. It is something I try to do on a daily basis, regardless of where I am. Now, I am talking about the basic kino. I do not try to make out with every girl I meet. Kino is good not just for meeting girls, it is good for being a friendly and genuine person. But, for you, try to do it as much as possible so you become used to it. You will fail and m… | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 04:39 PM |
| 17 | How do you get/keep a girl invested in you?If I am a charming, interesting guy won't they cut me some slack and give me more time to hesitate? No, they won't. You have to be special. They do not make out with people they meet. It happens maybe .0001% of the time. You have to be in that tiny percent or they will see you as just another person. I can't quite figure out what I am or am not doing. Touch her. It sounds creepy and too forward, but touching leads to sex. Here is the progression. Meet Girl- brush her forearm with yours within 30… | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine dizzy, can't imitate it sober.Here is a link to a blog. It talks about public speaking, but it really applies to pick-up as well. http://www.jamesaltucher.com/2011/06/11-unusual-methods-for-being-a-great-public-speaker/ You will notice one the methods is for you to "act drunk". Slur your words slightly, slow down your heart, relax. I have tried this and it worked for me when I am feeling anxious. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 10:56 PM |
| 19 | My friend has been with his girlfriend for 8 months and hasn't gotten passed kissingLeave him alone and learn from his mistakes. The best way to get him to change is for you to become his inspiration. You should have a healthy dating life, so much that he sees it and asks what you secret is. Only when he comes to you should you tell him your opinion. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 10:52 PM |
| 3 | What I learned from losing my HB9Yeah, you have to continue to "game" girls you get to a certain extent. This is where it gets cloudy. Seduction really is about getting the girl, not necessarily keeping her. A lot of pick-up guys have talked about how it is a different skill set. I think it is important to keep things fun and exciting, but to have to constantly play games is exhausting. It feels like spinning wheels. I was dating a HB8 and we were off and on for a while. It was because we wouldn't see each other for a month or … | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Being TOO alpha with a...different kind of woman?I agree with most everyone here. Every girl is different. They generally are attractive to strength and status, but some want to control their men. I generally avoid those women. The biggest difference between when I was younger and now is I know what kind of girls I need to avoid. Before it was just "get the hottest possible girl", now I have higher standards and will not just date the prettiest face. I am surprised to see that I am not as drawn to the super hot girl, I know how much bull shit … | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 03:04 PM |
| 7 | Everytime I talk to girls it turns to an interview.Lots of guys suggest the 90/10 ratio at the beginning of a set. Like the first few min. But you should be transitioning into a more equal conversation after that. If there is awkward silence, it means your stories/routines are not funny or interesting enough. Have a goal of getting girl to ask you a question in the first 2-3 min. of a set. Also, ask questions that are story driven. Like, right after you tell a travel story, ask about a place that they would like to travel to and why. Hopefully, … | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Something that annoys me about talking about flakes.I just read on another post in Seddit about a way to stop getting flaked on. It goes like this. Send a text after you have made plans with "I am a busy guy and my time is valuable, you are not a flake are you?" Now, I haven't tried it yet, but a bunch of guys were raving about it. Just search Seddit for "Flake Preventer". | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 05:16 AM |
| 3 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.Awesome post! Thanks. | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 02:12 AM |
| 9 | Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her.I liked the article, thanks for posting it. However, I am not sure I agree completely. Here is my take on smartphones and the deluge that hot women get as a result of them. I think it makes the winners and losers more profound. Before, hot women got significantly more attention than average looking women. But, it was linear. Meaning that it was more, but not a crazy amount more. I mean, before cell phones/texting/ facebook hot women only got hit on in person and on the home phone. Now, today let… | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Question about shy girls and eye contactWith super shy girls, you don't have to be as cocky and confident. I would say it should be more of a kind, confident, and relaxing vibe. Shy girls want to have fun, but they want to feel safe too. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 02:46 AM |
| 5 | I need help in the hardest step possible, the actually talking to girls part.It can be hard to make friends. It can be terrifying to approach women. I think we all have been there. Now, you can try the baby steps approach. Just say hi to 5 people each day, maybe one each time you take a break at your coffee shop. Then after you feel comfortable with that (a few weeks or several days), try to say hi and ask them one question, like "Have you tried the pumkin latter?" or "How's your day going". Then stop the conversation. After a few days/weeks of this you can get to know t… | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:49 AM |
| 6 | "Are you going to pay for me?""I don't know, are you going to pay for me?"--> turn it around. See her reaction. "Do guys normally pay for you?" --> act like it is weird/not normal. "Haha, what do you think?--> make it a game. make her guess. "Well, maybe if you do something really cool." --> make her earn it. Not sure if I like this one, you should never pay for sexual favors. "I totally forgot my wallet." --> not sure if you're teasing or telling the truth. I like this one the best. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:37 AM |
| 2 | First high school partyJust meet people, try to meet and be friends will everyone there. If you meet someone and they seem like jerks, move on to people who are more friendly. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Getting alot of girls numbers but yet getting nowhere!This. Don't take it personally. It also sounds like you are young. And you are probably trying to date young girls, 18-25, probably. And you are probably going after hot girls. These young hot girls are EXTREMELY flaky. You have to accept it. They will not only give you a number and not set up anything. A lot of these girls will set a date and then not show. This is typical of young hot girls. You have to just keep fine tuning your game. And getting better and better. Also, you need to know how … | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Field tested opener that's been working great for me!Yeah, this has been popularized before. I want to say RSD talked about using it. It may have been Style as well. Can't remember. Still, I have used it before and it worked well for me. I have a little sister, so it was sort of real. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be too weird?I see your point. I am not saying don't have your own personality, I am saying that whatever you are doing isn't working. The problem is I just don't know how to be any way else. You have to learn a different way, if you want to be more social and have more girls interested. I am telling you, most people in seduction have gone through what you are going through. You have to learn to read people better and tell a joke or story that would make them laugh. By being weird and saying stuff that YOU l… | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to be too weird?It is not that you "notice" things that most people don't notice. Everyone does this. The weird part is that you say that thing. I am not trying to come down on, so please don't get offended by the following. You asked for advice and I am giving it the best I can. You like being called weird, it sets you apart, so you are not normal and boring. You think this makes you special and original. BUT, you aren't really weird, you are just socially awkward. You aren't original. STOP. It is killing your… | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 06:28 AM |
| 1 | I've been debating going out by myself or with a friend for a while. There's just one problem...If you are under 21, it can be hard to consistently find approachable women. I would also work on developing social game where you make friends and go do stuff with them. This is actually an excellent way to meet girls. It is practically how I got through college with girls. If you only have friends that want to stay in and/or are not very proactive in their social lives, I would recommend joining a club or group of some sort that you would be interested in and make new friends. Seduction in clu… | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 02:25 AM |
| -1 | I don't understand it when guides tell you to "develop a sense of humor"But do you ever quote movies to make people laugh? | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 02:19 AM |
| 2 | It's my first post here in Seduction. I need help that could drastically change the way I interact with people. How can ignore my shyness to be more confident?Shyness is definitely a major issue with lots of men. I have recently been trying to develop my awareness of my anxiety. I am not sure exactly where it comes from. But it gets in the way a lot. Calling it fear is misleading. Fear is more about security and safety. Anxiety is way more social based. It clouds the mind, gets in the way of goals and generally fucks with my life. Being aware of it has helped. For example, recently I have been talking to a girl who is very beautiful, by any standards.… | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand it when guides tell you to "develop a sense of humor"I think a sense of humor can be developed by watching stand and funny movies, then imitating. I don't think it is about getting a sense of humor, more like finding what you think is funny and getting people to laugh. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 01:54 AM |
| 5 | First date ever. Met online. Help?What do you like? Art? Music? Sports? You need to do something you like to do, that way you will feel comfortable and be able to talk about it and talk about some interesting shit. NYC is a godsend for dates. This is what I do when I need some date ideas, pick up the weekender newspaper and find something that sparks my interest or something that I know will be fun for her and me. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Got another shot: Need help not fucking things up this time with girl I previously blew offFB message is fine, imo. I wouldn't apologize yet, if she is over it or has forgiven you, then she will return message. If she is still sore on it, then she will ignore the message and you will know. Just send her a message with something like "Great seeing you again. I want to do _______ this weekend and thought you might want to come. Are you in?" If you two ever hang out alone again, then you can say what you want to say, but do it to her face and alone. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:55 AM |
| 24 | Grabbed her ass and kind of regret it.If you are uncomfortable with it, then it might not be your style. But the awesome thing is that you tried it. You don't have to ever do it again if you don't want to, but you tried it. Congrats. Experimenting and not giving in to the fear about trying something. You are on your way to developing your own way of seduction. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Advice / HelpAs soon as you get numbers, start texting. Waste almost zero time. Then read her reaction to the conversation, try to get a date, and f-close on said date. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 11:10 PM |
| 5 | My mate needs to learn that women are normal persons?Exactly, it is very difficult to help people that don't want to help themselves. If you really want to help him, then get him to help himself. A lot of guys don't realize that being successful with women can be learned by normal men. They accept the fact that they "will never understand women". Then they marry the first girl that sucks his cock and his life is miserable because he settled for a controlling, manipulative, and out of shape beast. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 11:08 PM |
| 3 | How much do I have to change who I am?If you want to get women, you have to learn how to calibrate socially. You think you are "being real" and "telling it like it is", but really you are just being socially clueless. I have been down the road you are on right now. It is lonely. You think you are the only one being honest and everyone else is being a fake douche. I am telling you, if you want girls you have to stop saying shit that pisses them off. If you don't give a shit, then go ahead and keep doing what you are doing. But by pos… | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Saw some girls moving heavy boxes. Am I on the right track?I sort of agree with you. It all depends on how you approach something. PUA stuff is great for picking up girls. But, if you blindly apply it to all aspects of you life, it will backfire. The problem isn't the PUA material is it the lack of mastery over it. So much of being successful with women is trial and error that if you apply it at work, it might just blow up in your face (error). Once you have mastered the material or got to level you are happy with, you can use your material in all aspec… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I continue after getting phone number and a text message?Yeah, you need to keep the interaction going. Meet her as soon as you can. If she says no or flakes, then you can move on. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask out a girl when we are doing the same club/activity that we both enjoy?Indirect method would be 1) have something in mind to bring up in conversation. Examples: movies, local band, museum, outdoor activity. 2) when she shows interest in it, ask for # to organize that activity. 3) start texting each other about said activity. 4) you can try to do that activity, but you don't have to, you just needed a good enough reason to get her #, then you can just start getting to know her and maybe set up that activity or something different. 5) most importantly, girls don't gi… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed following first meet up?(Details Inside)Anything. Just get it going. Is she active on facebook? If yes, what shows up in her feed? Find something in her news feed and comment on it. If she responds, then send her a private message. Then get phone # and start texting. Then get date. Then fuck. ;) | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Having trouble with HB9+ but not HB 5-8. Any tips?I heard an excellent quote by someone not in seduction about dating super models. It went something like this "Dating a supermodel or model is easy, find a coffee shop next to a large modeling agency and hang out there a lot. Then talk to all the models that come in, and boom you now know a lot of models". The message I got and I have tried to apply it is that you have to meet 9's and 10's consistently in order to date them. edit: formatting If you see these girls once a week when you go to a cl… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Don't know why this has been so hard. When it feels like I'm doing things right, yet no results.The best things to organize are things YOU want to do. I am not a huge party organizer, but the few things I have done I really enjoyed because I really wanted to do them. For example, there is a local band I really like. I will invite a few friends to go see the band, it usually goes well because I am excited to see the band, regardless if everyone shows up. If they show up, great we will have fun, if not, I really don't give a shit because I am doing something I want to do. This is how I try t… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Don't know why this has been so hard. When it feels like I'm doing things right, yet no results.You need to be proactive. I hate it when people say "just have confidence". That is bullshit, of course girls want confidence. You have to do stuff that gives you confidence to approach people. For example, organizing parties and inviting people to those parties is proactive. If you get known for organizing parties, then people will invite you to their parties and functions because they know you will reciprocate. People hate tag-a-longs. Social interactions are very dynamic events. They can chan… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I give a genuine complement.That is fine if you are a natural and are getting good results, but if you want to improve I would recommend writing a few stories down with DHV's that can help the girls get to know you. Girls want to know about your life and your good points, but they can't ask you, you have to bring them up. Of course, you don't say something braggy, but just an interesting story that reveals your better sides. For example, I have traveled a lot, so I always bring up a story from traveling, it is a great topi… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I give a genuine complement.I just feel like I'm putting her on a pedestal > Trust your feelings. You have to use an opener that you like. For me, opinion openers are good, the very first one mystery and style used was "Who lies more, guys or girls?". This works because it gets people talking about an interesting subject and it is easy to transition into other stuff. "yeah that reminds me of the time I helped friend get his gf back. blah blah blah". Honestly, it has to be something you would like to talk to a girl about. B… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Don't know why this has been so hard. When it feels like I'm doing things right, yet no results.I have had similar problems in the past. If you really wanted to go out with those people that ignored you, you should have gone over there, charmed them and then they may have invited you out. It sounds like you just sat there and waited for them to make the move. If you wait for girls to come up to you to invite you out, you will be waiting for a long time. Girls, and men I guess, want to be lead. You have to initiate the interaction. For example, there is a smoking beautiful new girl where I … | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 02:59 AM |
| 2 | How do I give a genuine complement.There is a famous rule about complimenting a girl without coming across as a loser and needy. It says that you are only allowed to give a girl two compliments per interaction/date and that they have to be truly genuine. I think that giving compliments is like buying drinks for girls. Most guys do it because they don't know what else to do. And for most hot girls, it translates as "he thinks I am hot and I can probably get him to do what I want...loser". But, if you really really think something … | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 02:52 AM |
| 3 | [FR] After work dinner turns into 6am threesome + new F buddy. Also dealt with last minute IN BED cockblock.Well done!! The BF problem is interesting because a lot of girls cheat, then break-up with their BF. I have a somewhat different rule. I almost never ask if someone is in a relationship, if it naturally comes up, and she talks about him, then I take it as an indicator of DIS-interest. Now, this probably isn't 100% true, but it seems close to me. Also, some girls will say they have a BF in the beginning, but it really isn't and then change it to "just dating" later on in the interaction. That way… | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 04:42 PM |
| 3 | 17 y/o determined to improve social lifeA lot of good advice here. I would agree with a lot of it. Like, going to the gym, and trying to isolate girls when you think the interaction is going well. Also, I would add make sure you have a few date/hang-out ideas always ready. When you are talking to a girl you can't always isolate and escalate right there, in fact, most of the time you can't. So, after you have built up enough attraction and some comfort you need to make a date, like seeing a movie together or checking out a museum. Now,… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I successfully invite/get invited (by)people to do something fun?You got some good advice here. I would add that I have work friends that I get along great with, but dont spend any free time with them. And I have friends that I spend time with in my free time. It is wierd how we group people in our minds and categorize them. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 02:18 AM |
| 9 | I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed?First off, accepting your weaknesses/ strengths is a good thing. Second, have you ever seen an ugly dude with a hot chick? I see those assholes every day, so you could be one of those ugly dudes that I am jealous of. Third, if hot chicks date ugly guys, then what do those guys have? 1) probably confidence 2) some success in their job or career. Some people say you should just have confidence. Well, no shit. I am a decent looking guy who has had some success, but I hate my job, and it shows. I do… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | [HELP] Attention? No problem. But what do I do with it?It is crazy, but as i ger older i realize that even super successful, good looking, rich guys have problems with girls. If you are interested in the flirty girl, ask her a few questions about her job/life whatever. It is called fluff. In seduction terms you are already in comfort. The 3rd step, after approach and attraction. She just wants to know who you are and by asking these questions indicates you want to get to know her. After a few minutes of light funnny convo about each other, ask her t… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Getting over my AAText her ASAP with nickname and get convo going. Remember, you don't really need to go to her practice, she was just giving you an IOI. If she responds to texts well set up something casual (invite to party, study date, coffee). | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 01:08 AM |
| -2 | How do you deal with Last Minute Resistance?Freeze outs have worked for me. Although nothing is 100%. I started with just stopping and relaxing for a few minutes no cuddling or touching as my first freeze out. Not a very hard core freeze out like Style or Mystery talk about, but it worked. The other thing i have done that worked is actively say " we are not sleeping together tonight". I did this through out escalation and eventually she asked me to go get a condom, ftw. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 05:22 PM |
| 2 | I can talk with girls on parties, but in bars it's just awkward with the loud music and other people, need tips!You have to bring her to a bar you like and know. Don't just bring her to bring her. Have a purpose, like bring her to a bar where you know everyone. Or you like the a band that is playing. I would say going from a party to a bar is backwards. Parties are more intimate, bars are harder to get into comfort building and escalation. I would rather go from a party to a more intimate place, i.e. a park, a late night eating spot, a beach, or a lookout spot. I love taking girls to the beach at night, v… | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 05:06 PM |
| 15 | What is your original romantic/seduction move that has made you the most proud?They are personality types, just google INTJ or ENTJ and it will explain them. I think there are like 16 of them. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 01:29 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First Date, F-Close x2. Lost my virginity thanks to Seddit and it was AWESOME.Well done man!! You will remember it forever! | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 02:57 AM |
| 1 | *UPDATE* How do you AMOG your best friend?Yeah, I had a friend/mentor/ business partner that was really bad at putting me down, actually everyone when we were in a bar or social scene. He thought it was funny or good natured ribbing, but he was just a jerk. I had to basically end our friendship because he was a very egotistical person. Not very positive advice, but good luck. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 02:34 AM |
| 3 | PUAs of seddit, I have some question about dates, let's discuss them.Getting girls to go on dates is actually the hardest part. Once she is on a date, I figure she likes me and now I just try not to screw it up. That said, if you are a "nice guy", then try to always advance the interaction. Lots of nice guys get caught up with not leading the girl. Remember, she wants to be lead, wants to have sex with you, wants to have fun. I always try to experiment with saying/ doing stuff, it is crazy how just being curious about social interactions will help you to try new … | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 02:22 AM |
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