This is basically a follow-up to my thread asking for advice after being a beta bitch on a first date. (http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/267qgk/i_betad_it_up/)

Anyway, the expected has happened, I developed a severe case of oneitis thinking I found my unicorn. After a shitty first date contact declined and she gave me the "let's be friends, you're so important to me" speech.

I broke contact and only responded when she started a conversation on facebook or whatever, however more distant/reserved and giving short answers.

I was with a mate the night I met this girl, and he automatically met her that night as well.

This is what this thread is all about, tonight she told me she was going to eat out with my mate.

I find this very hurtful, I've been trying to get her out of my head with little success and I seem to find a small part of me still hoping that something can still happen. I'm trying to surpress this to the best of my ability.

Also the fact that my mate knows I like this girl and he goes out with her, is to me very disrespectful. I'm even feeling anger towards her now, for playing with my feelings (clear signs of interest on multiple occasions) only to hurt me in the end. Yes, I'm aware of the fact that I fucked it up myself by my behaviour on that date.

I wish I'd never met her.

So, what do you guys suggest? Cut all contact? Go out with a bang by calling her out on her shit, then break contact?

I hope I can get her out of my head soon, but I'm not quite able to at the moment.

Anyway, sorry for the rant, looking forward to hear your opinions.