So I have been working extensively on my inner game lately. I used to be a total nervous, sweating, panicky wreck. However, I've gotten that under control pretty damn good through meditation and some of it's ideals like becoming "unattached from outcome". So, I went to this club, I felt pretty chill, never nervous or anything. I did feel I could approach girls without being too nervous, but I really felt a bit unsure of how to move the whole set forward to completion. I need some help/resources/vids in this department.

Honestly, I did not walk out feeling some lame loser or anything like the way I'd normally put myself down. I had nothing to lose and perhaps a bit to gain if I did get a few # closes. For me it's imperative that I don't become too attached or obsessed to outcomes or I get depressed, anxious, put myself down. I feel pretty unreactive to anything that could happen within potential sets since it really has no impact on me after the interaction ends if it were to end without a number or taking the girl home.

However, once again the problem is I'm not sure how to move through a set. I'm pretty new to this (not studying game), but taking action. I just want a few solid examples and I'm going out tomorrow so maybe I can improve upon today's experiences.

Overall, I feel great since going out is something I normally don't do. I took the first step and I got a couple to go, with plenty of tweaks and adjusting through the years of course. But my biggest problem has always been social anxiety and I'm overcoming it at a pretty good rate thanks to meditation and zen Buddhism.