I have never considered myself a pushover, and I am not by any means unattractive, however I find it hard to freely pick up girls, I can't seem to get them attracted to me during our first meeting. Like, at a party, I can confidently speak, and flirt with multiple girls throughout the night, however it doesn't seem to be enough to make any moves. I recently broke up with my girlfriend, who I was trying to make happy more than myself. When I date girls, they always get so attracted to me, it's extremely hard for me to let them go. They rely on me so much for happiness, it's insane. However, I can't seem to get all girls to feel this way. What am I doing wrong? How can I approach differently? I'm a noob here, so any help would be great. Thanks! Feel free to ask me any questions in case I missed something.