Hey guys,

I am a lurker and now I need some advice from you guys.

About myself first:

I am 20, been doing PU for a while, though I wouldn't consider myself as very good. PU helped me a lot with my confidence, attitude and life goals. For example I could find many things I have a passion about. I would consider myself as talkative and not shy but still I am not like extreme hyperactive. I am 5'9 and Asian but this is just a description of myself haha not a weakness :P

So for me getting Dates is not a big problem (though I met girls with boyfriends the last year's - I did nothing. Just little bit flirting cause I really respect relationships. I tried to befriended them and not to get into the friendzone). The problem for me on dates is, that I can have conversations. But to pusue Kino and kiss close part is sometimes very unnatural and I can feel that both are feeling uncomfortable. I can't just get to the next, physical sexual level. Btw. I am Not a nice guy, but I respect my dates a lot. I appreciate the Old school like taking of jackets, open the doors etc.

My text game is not the best, cause I sometimes just don't know what to write. So I just use texting for appointments.

Even after great dates, and during the date I felt being connected, I couldn't get her to the next level, where she is also liking me. What are your tips, tricks etc. I know about the Kino ladder... But I don't know how to be so smooth to do so. And without Kino means there is no kiss close.

Thanks for your help

Happy valentines