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Been awhile

cameronb16 · 2016-02-19T23:54:29+00:00

Hey guys it's been awhile since I've been on this sub but I was looking for some advice. I am in a platonic relationship with a girl. Me and...

cameronb16

February 19, 2016

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Title	Been awhile
Author	cameronb16
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	February 19, 2016 11:54 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/46nkb9/been_awhile/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/been-awhile.1402777 https://theredarchive.com/post/1402777

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[–]ThirtyWize 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Makes sense...would be unreasonable to think you wouldn't eventually start to see her in a sexual light. She probably has thought about it too; I mean at least thought about it.

I had a few situations like this in the past. I remember just asking one of them, "have you ever thought about me as more than a friend?" You really just gotta man up and get a sense of what how she sees you. You could just kind of flirt with her too by making compliments about her and such, things like "I never really noticed how sexy you look."

Don't be a coward though. I've known plenty of guys who just can't admit they like a girl like it's some huge secret or something. There's nothing wrong with finding someone attractive that doesn't really feel the same about you. There's too many fish in the sea to worry about that.

Worst case scenario, have a laugh about it. If you ask her, and she gets weird just laugh and say, "My fault. I didn't know it was gonna make you all weird, I was just wondering!"

Just gotta add...make sure you have fun with it. Smile, laugh at the idea... Definitely don't get "serious" with her, that will definitely freak anyone out.

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