It took me a long struggle to fix the hot mess that my life had become. I have seen that as I am getting more socially active I have to answer a very common question from both males and females about the reasons for not having past relationships without any apparent visible flaw.

Going through past rubble with a sob story is kind of unattractive so I am at a loss on what to reply. It's difficult to diffuse the situation with humour because friends become adamant on hearing the real reasons. A party or a an event doesn't seem a proper place for serious replies and yet people want to know.

As my personality changes and my interactions increase I would love to know what could be a proper response to this question in a social setting to keep the environment fun.