So i have recently become single after 7 years with really my only serious girlfriend ever and the only person i have ever slept with. My game is adorable.

I got tinder a few days ago and talked to a few people. One girl i talked to for a few days, and then i suggested we hang out. It was kinda late, so i suggested something lowkey and she said i could come over and chill. So i said cool, ill bring over a few drinks and we can have a few, chat and maybe watch something. So we just hung out on the couch, watched some netflix, and chatted and whatnot and after a couple hours I kissed her and we made out for a while. Didnt really test the waters with the touchy feelies (i dunno i kind of was scared i would overstep a boundary), just kinda made out. But after a bit i basically said, do you want to shut Netflix off and take this somewhere more comfortable (yeah i know, im an idiot). And she just says, we can if you want, but im just telling you im not going to sleep with you tonight. So i said thats totally fine i get it, we made out a bit more, she said my terrible line was adorable, and after a kinda awkward goodbye i left.

So, thats the first experience i have had in 7 years with a sort of first "date" kinda thing, and im pretty embarrassed hahaha. Im not really sure how to get from making out on the couch to something more. And then even when i get to that point i have only had one partner my whole life, i have no idea what hook up/first time sexy time etiquette is, and the chances are i am utter shit at sexing ladies.

Im super nervous, kinda embarrassed about my pathetic sex attempt, andi kinda feel like im in grade 7 again. Any helpful tips would be lovely.

I guess as a side note, im not looking for anything in particular, like relationship or just ONS or FWB kinda thing.. I just want to enjoy myself and see where things go.