Went out for a night out with a group of work friends. Ended up getting with a lady that I've had my eye on for a while. Gamed her, kino-ed and all that. Ended up making out the entire night.

Now it was home time. I ask her if she wanted to come round for coffee, she hesitated, but in the end she agreed. We get into my place, make out for a while and then she asks to use the bathroom. Immediately after, she says to me "I think I should go home", "I don't like the idea of waking up in an unfamiliar place", "I don't know you well enough to do anything". Drunk me realised that she was freaking out, but I thought, I'm a gentleman and tbh, I wasn't really desperate to fuck anyway. I was feeling tired and I had drank way too much. So I stupidly ordered a taxi home for her, thinking that we could set up a date next week and fuck then when I'm more up for it.

Anyway, shot her a text the next day. No reply. Did I fuck up really bad? I don't think it's salvageable, and I should have known better to be honest. But in the future , is there anything you can do to maintain attraction if you're not dtf, but they are? I feel like there are a lot of times when I'm tired, or I've drank too much, or whatever and sex is just not going to happen that night. What can I do to maintain attraction and avoid going to the point of no return?