Had the girl, lost the girl, got the girl back, lost the girl again - need some help

allaboutthataction · 2016-03-25T18:59:51+00:00

This should be in /r/relationships, not seduction. Most people have been through this, including myself. You already know the right answer is to move on, which is correct. You don't want to because you love her but things have already gotten too messy. You don't want to force someone to be with you if they aren't totally committed to it, do you? That will only cause resentment, probably cheating, and delay inevitable heartbreak. You need to move on, go through the steps of a break up which will take time, but once you cross that threshold of being depressed, you will be a stronger INDIVIDUAL. A lot of people validate themselves through their significant other and without them feel depressed. You need to move on, you will eventually feel good and in the future just be yourself with a female and if she isn't as into it as you are, keep moving. Trust me on this one, I have let a few relationships drag on like this and its really fucking hard to let go but it will hurt less overtime.

2016-03-25T18:27:55+00:00

Move on, find someone more compatible.

michaelqueue · 2016-03-25T19:57:40+00:00

No woman is worth this trouble. Hell, no man is worth this trouble. You had a great time, you found out you weren't compatible, and now you're done. Move on. Have a great time with someone else.

letsgetrandy · 2016-03-25T20:04:45+00:00

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results.

Zalkota · 2016-03-25T20:41:56+00:00

Read no more mr nice guy. This is text book from that book. I know it's because your revolving your life around this chick and seeking approval. I got the audio book and listen on my way to work

2016-03-25T21:47:05+00:00

First and foremost: I know I should be moving on - and I can. But I don't want to.

You don't need help, all you want to hear is, "go get her tiger". Gtfo out, this is r/seddit not r/relationships

theAliasOfAlias · 2016-03-25T23:06:36+00:00

I appreciate the input from all the commenters. I am no slouch when it comes to seduction, but - and you're right - this isn't about seduction. It's about the step that comes after that, which we would all hope would be committing to someone who helps you be a better version of yourself. She does that for me. I do that for myself even better now than I did before I dated her - all as a function of her and I's relationship. Moving on may be the best option - hell, it looks like the only option right now. But have you ever had to let a seduction that turned out to be so much more than that go? How did you do that?

squiggleman4 · 2016-03-25T18:31:59+00:00

Find a different girl. I know it's blunt but you'll be a lot happier in the end

2016-03-25T18:30:22+00:00

1) Delete the gym 2) Hit Lawyer 3) Facebook up

Title	Had the girl, lost the girl, got the girl back, lost the girl again - need some help
Author	theAliasOfAlias
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	March 25, 2016 6:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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