Let me start with a little story: years ago, me, Mecuna, was lost in a strong depression. Life was a pain, my relationship was over and I was becoming an a-hole misandric. I was a pain in the ass.

And I couldn't take it any longer...

I seeked help. I went to a counselor...

And I did it. After 2 years, the counselor finally said with smile: "I don't think we need another session. I do believe you are ready to face life heads-on."

In two years I went from zero, who had a boring life, to hero. I became a very extroverted person, with fun hobbies, a nice job and good circle of friends.

HOWEVER, I realised something! I was very good in being friends and talk with women BUT I am still very "primitive" in using it to escalate and I am VERY SHY WHEN IT COMES TO ESCALATE PHYSICALLY (actually a friend of mine once said "that girl is all over you! Why didn't you take action! :( )

So, Seddit, I come very humbly, asking information about:

a)Escalating verbally. (Edit: I found this link https://www.reddit.com/r/selfimprovement/comments/2l8psi/conversational_threading_the_basics_of_building/)

b)Escalting physically. (and wtf is kino?)

Thanks and hugs,

Mecuna