Hello everyone

I have been reading the material in here, and applying some of it in my life, I think that my game has improved a lot, in normal life I consider myself to be social, outgoing, I have no problem socializing with different kind of people, keeping interest (most of the time), I am really proud of the things that I have accomplished.

However, whenever I am in a close relationship even when I say to myself, "diegofer you are going to keep it cool", "don't show desperation", "understand that your insecurities are just in your mind" I change into this really insecure, jealous, possesive persona.

I think that my problem is validation, I think that I tend to rely to heavily on a partner, my main focus right now is increasing my self validation as well as giving a little more importance to friends/family over partner.

Anyway, has anyone any advice that could help me in this time?.

I'm going to take some personal time to travel for 3 months and I believe that using this time right will help me a lot in achieving this transition. However I'm not sure about what is the shift that I need to seek in my vision.