It's said on here a lot to assume attraction and that's been working out great. It helps with my confidence levels not to always question weather she likes me or not. The problem is that I'll end up going through all the work ( setting up a date and what not) to end with her getting pissy and not messaging me back. Mainly cause she doesn't know how to say no. You know the majority of communication is non verbal and her kino says that she is in to me. (Touches me, gets close when she talks, laughs alot, etc.) Maybe I'm just misinterpreting her signs. I don't mean to come of as a whiney bitch but when she gets mad, then I get mad. I know ultimatum is bad but should I just ask "yes or no" so I don't have to drag on something that's going to end up going no where? I know this sub gets 101 questions a day about very specific problems. But I want to know how can I avoid getting worked up over something that in reality is pretty trivial. There's obviously a core misunderstanding that I'm not getting. How can I change my mindset so that this stuff doesn't keep happening?