Approach anxiety is totally normal. You shouldn't be ashamed of having it, but you should simply learn how to manage it.

Remember, fear is like salt. A little of it makes life more flavorful. Too much and too little is no good.

Also, remember that Love and Sex, are the #1 and #2 positive human emotions, so they are naturally high-stakes feelings we are dealing with here when approaching women.

When you feel that fear in the pit of your stomach, try to take a deep breath and mentally grab that energy and pull it up to the point between your eyes. Then smile and make your approach.

Also, remember this in all things: LIVE FREE OF RESULTS. Results aren't up for you to decide. That's the realm of the Almighty. Don't get all neurotic and touchy-feely about how things must go. If you get blown off, it's totally fine. If you get her number, if you get her in bed--it's all totally fine. Of course you want to strive to do your best, but live above the results of your actions. It makes life easier to live.

Also, another idea is to simply make a friend. Don't be so focused on the sex part of it that you forget to take things slowly. Just make a friend.

Also, don't be needy. Don't act subservient to her regardless of her beauty. Women need us more than we need them. Don't believe me, read a Bible, or observe the nearest woman who lives alone. Her house is likely a wreck. If it's not, she's got enough money to hire a man to fix it for her...but I digress.

Be nice, but don't be needy. Actually, end the conversation before she does...don't blow yourself out. Remember, beauty is skin deep. If you're looking to find your soulmate or a good life companion, you don't need to rush things.

Smile, make eye contact, but stay in your masculine energy.

Hope this helps.