Hey Guys,

I'm in my early 20s and have had social anxiety and general anxiety for ages, which i am currently working on with CBT and its improving. But this had kinda made banging chicks hard because i get very nervous around woman i've slept with 4 girls but none of them are great at all and ive never had a girlfriend . I've had opportunities in the past with like 8/10 but always get anxious and blow it.

Anyway, my issue is when a hot girl shows any interest in me i get obsessed and fuck it up.i don't mean in a club because i don't really do that i mean more someone or a girl telling me that she liked me . It has happened countless times and is unbelievably annoying and i'm fuckin sick of it.

i put pussy on a pedastool which i know i shouldn't do and i am working on that and i know no girl is really amazing as there a tons of girls id love to bang out there but i always just get over emotionally caught up before anything as even happened.I'm also quite insecure about my looks because when i was younger i was teased for being "ugly" but then i've also had people say i'm very good looking but deep down i don't really believe them and don't know what to think.

Your advice would be greatly appreciated because this just fuckin sucks

thanks