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| – | Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More GirlsYup. Just get volume of effort in place first, then refine that effort once you have enough data to see what's working and what's not. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 11:10 PM |
| – | Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More GirlsIt's easy to tell you my confidence has grown, but I went from like F to B. I'm not some A+ James Bond kinda dude - average looks at best with an above-average tolerance for rejection. 100+ successes but thousands of failures. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 10:19 PM |
| – | Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More GirlsWhy's that? | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 08:08 AM |
| – | Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More GirlsUnless you're shooting for an LTR in which case being seen as a player will potentially cause your partner stress - unless they're the type that can genuinely accept a player past. Since I actively try to avoid being an asshole or causing my partner grief or anxiety, I'm upfront about my past but try to suppress or avoid any other potential sources of that impression. At a certain point, you'll have enough crazy girls in your past who harbor some resentment. When they get drunk and feel creative… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More GirlsAgreed. It depends on the type of chick you want. I like the ones who run away from players. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:28 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Totally cool. I do laps downtown (pike place, westlake, SLU area). | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 06:30 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.I appreciate this. And this is exactly the phenomenon I described in my last bullet. I think I'm starting to acknowledge that reality enough to make some changes. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 06:26 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.I'd be happy to coach. PM me if you'd be happy to spend (you only pay if you get laid). I'm willing to bet that I can get you laid in a week or less assuming you're in decent shape and you apply yourself. Seattle is turning out to be better than LA for me, which I NEVER thought I'd say. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 05:57 AM |
| 4 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Hoorah. Glad to hear it - don't forget to check out HK too. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.My apps are niche so I can't disclose much, but they do happen to target demographics that most people find fascinating. Feel free to DM me and I can try to give some targeted advice, but it really comes down to enthusiasm IMO. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 12:33 AM |
| 1 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Scorpio | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 10:58 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.I don't need to "get rid" of them - I've become close friends with many of the girls I've hooked up with. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Please help me solve my sexual dysfunction.Don't put too much weight on this. It's part of becoming a man - nobody goes from "virgin" straight to "sexual prowess" - you have to work through what you're calling "ED" and "PE" (I'm no doc but I did have the same concerns when I started out - I don't think there's anything wrong with you). Practice; you're fine. And drop the pickup lingo. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:24 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Good question. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:06 PM |
| 5 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Dude! You can totally self-educate your way up. Look at coding bootcamps and have your laptop open at work (if you can) - with some focus I bet you could land a job coding within a year. Don't even think about this stuff until you get there - let it motivate you. "Once I get that job, I can start to play." You're young enough where it's no cause for concern - don't wait around on it though. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:06 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Hey, I'm a child of the system, gimme a break! | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:01 PM |
| -2 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.No... I'm in touch with humanity. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:53 PM |
| 4 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.No STDs, rape claims (daytime approaches = limited booze), or kids (that I'm aware of). | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:50 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Income no. Business sure - it's my passion. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:38 PM |
| 4 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Please do | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:38 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.To me, "Not giving a fuck" would have me stuck in bumfuck nowhere trying to be a "cool dude". I like intensity, progress, change. This is all a result of my particular personality, which is likely vastly different from yours. It's probably a consequence of nurture; I had to dig myself out of a deep hole and now I want to keep going. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:37 PM |
| 16 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.You have the right to be different. Take from this what works for you and ignore the rest. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.You got it. Cheers | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.No prob! | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Thanks. And yeah it's far from perfect - my knees and shoulders are weak so I have to stay light on some lifts. No more OHP :( | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Thank you! It depends - some girls I want to fuck, some girls I want to know. I don't know until I say "hey". | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:29 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.It depends on your needs. I find that I'm plenty happy without them. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:28 PM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.What's important to you? | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 08:00 AM |
| 22 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Thank you! | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 07:43 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.What about the tons of unforgettable shared experiences and memories? And the possibility of finding someone absolutely perfect for you? Are those important to you? | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 07:42 AM |
| 7 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.No, sorry. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 07:34 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Google sheets? So you can track your lifts. Engineering - I took out loans for my Bachelor's and got a series of internships before getting offers. I'd recommend looking for an internship somewhere. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 07:32 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.I knew there would be one. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 07:18 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.RE digital nomad - I'm not quite there so I can't offer advice other than to keep doing what you're doing. Whether or not I'm remote is based entirely on my client's needs. I outsourced my schoolwork so I could build a web development business (and outsource that too) so I'd say school knowledge is near useless. Self-taught is way more impressive to me when I'm hiring. Something I wish I knew... I'll have to put some thought into that. There's a lot :p And my pleasure - glad you liked it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 07:17 AM |
| – | Dancing; why isn't it mentioned here?I'd highly recommend saving yourself the headache. Like any skill, getting good at dancing takes months of dedication. If your goal is to "get good at dancing" so you can get chicks, skip right to the chicks and approach during the day. Otherwise, if you just want to get good at dancing as a form of art or exercise then yeah, see the other comments. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 06:11 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.I'd say getting "boring" people to feel comfortable enough around you to become interesting is a skill worth developing. Especially in the world of consulting. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:55 AM |
| 13 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Yeah depending on where you land - work/life balance can be shit if you don't play your cards right though. Feel free to PM if you have any questions or need a resume review etc, happy to help. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:51 AM |
| 3 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Of course, glad you liked it. And yeah - I had posts up for all of those on my old blog; I'll get them up on the new blog soon. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:48 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Software engineering consultant and 28 :) | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:47 AM |
| 3 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Cheers :) | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:27 AM |
| 20 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.This will be my last response to you but for anyone else who shares these sentiments - this success is the result of lots of hard work and persistence. You can interpret this as supercilious but that's a bit self-defeating if you ask me. Take care man! | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:26 AM |
| – | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.24: If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. I came from foster care and clinical depression. Take it as you will. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:50 AM |
| 2 | What books should I read to help me become a better person and a more interesting man for women?Books on financial independence so you can make money to have time to become an interesting person through actual life experience. | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Going out specifically to meet women or not?A lot of this comes down to personal preference. But the fact that you haven't seen success doesn't mean that you should discount the strategy. Plenty have. Check out my comment history for some of mine. You can aggressively daygame without being a creep. You do need to practice and the faster and more aggressively you invest time into this particular skill, the faster and more aggressively your skill will grow. Practice makes perfect - it's that simple. Or you can take a passive approach and go… | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 12:37 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys refer when saying "flirting?"Flirting is anything that makes her smile. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 10:21 PM |
| 6 | When you are feeling too confident about yourself, how do you make sure others don't call you out for it?Anyone on their way up will hear bitching from below. Get used to it and minimize it with a dash of humility. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Going out specifically to meet women or not?Of course it is. Do you think anyone that ever became good at something did so passively? Fuck no. They focused on that thing and only that thing. If your goal is to fuck, to find companionship, to get better at talking to women, whatever - go out and ruthlessly approach one after the other until something clicks, adjusting on the fly as you learn. A passive approach is fine if you have other priorities - business, fitness, career, etc - but if you have a goal then focus on it or fail. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Feel like my games getting worseI almost never approach girls anymore Change that. See: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit#gid=560827056 | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Need advice, am I getting rejected?Idk if she's seeing other guys She is. And you should be seeing other girls. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | ONEITIS AGAIN, need help ..........Just move forward. Approach. At #4 I was worse off than you. Fast forward to where I'm at now and seeing this makes me chuckle. Stop asking for help and work. You'll be chuckling soon enough. | /r/seduction | 09/04/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis, but have a roster goingIt takes time. Keep hunting until you find something better. It's the curse of manhood - it only gets harder as you find better and better women. But it forces you to grow. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 06:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel like getting laid is 10x easier if you have your own place...Focus on your income and nothing else until you can get a place of your own. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Same-day lay from street game. Total serendipity. Even made a fucking graph10x more success now that I started tracking. It's motivating to see past successes, trending towards improvement, etc. All those little red boxes push me past moments of doubt and anxiety as well. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 08:59 AM |
| 4 | Having some success, but often feel I'm an asshole for doing so - how do you deal with success with women?It depends on what you want. Do you want to be loved and desired by these chicks? Then clear your conscience with a disclaimer and periodic reminders and enjoy. But as a man, it's your responsibility to acknowledge that you have power over these girls. Telling a child that touching a hot stove is a bad idea doesn't obviate your responsibility to reach out and stop the little shit from burning himself. Just like telling a girl that you don't want to be serious doesn't remove your responsibility t… | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 05:56 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Same-day lay from street game. Total serendipity. Even made a fucking graphBody language. Girl says "I don't want to" but has her tongue down your throat and grabs your cock when you put her hand on it: you can continue to gently escalate. Girl says "I don't want to" and puts her hand on your chest - back off. Hand on the cock while making out is a pretty good litmus test though. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 05:32 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 30 Day Challenge, Day 1Yeah they are | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] 30 Day Challenge, Day 1Fuck yeah! Try reversing the date order in the Attempts sheet ao you don't have to scroll when you're updating :p | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 6 | [FR] 30 Day Challenge, Day 1Solid post. Keep em coming, and stick with it. To help stay motivated, post every day, and TRACK. Feel free to copy my spreadsheet. I update this on the fly with the google sheets app from one approach to the next. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit#gid=560827056 | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 12:57 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Same-day lay from street game. Total serendipity. Even made a fucking graphThanks man! | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys in the USA that are 25 years or older but are doing amazing in terms of social life, making lots of new friends, and meeting lots of women, what's your story?Thanks man | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Can't find a way to open. Super scrub fighter.It's simple. "Hi, you're cute as hell. I'm DragonPunch - what's your name?" | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Guys in the USA that are 25 years or older but are doing amazing in terms of social life, making lots of new friends, and meeting lots of women, what's your story?27, consultant, traveling, in better shape than ever, wealthier than ever, happier than ever. I think it only gets easier as you age as long as you don't just sit on your ass. You acquire all sorts of good stuff - wealth, experience, wit, humor, confidence, sexual prowess, style, etc. Overall desirability. Even muscle mass! Every year that passes is an opportunity to evolve dude. Hell, every minute is. Self-plug that chronicles every lay I've had (from virginity to now) so you can see how post-g… | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys even go out?I only write LRs because I find others' inspiring - but mine started getting removed due to bragging so fuck it. I just blog for myself now and post the occasional guide. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Ideas for dates that involve adrenaline and/or slight illegality?I was helping a girl move and drove her couch up a mountain with some champagne, a table, portable speakers, and blankets to watch the sun rise in private. Yes. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 11 | Pickup is nothing more than a gameRealize that most stories of extreme success are bullshit I beg to differ. Usually they come from years of focus, and become "normal" for the people that remain committed. A home run isn't monumental for Big Papi, and getting laid weekly isn't monumental for the driven among us. I say celebrate the successes but always strive for more and don't just swipe off the unbelievable as bullshit - use it as motivation, as a glimpse of your future, because it might actually be legitimate. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Girls love being approachedSounds like it | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 02:44 AM |
| 16 | Girls love being approachedAs a huge fan of daygame myself, A+. Only thing I don't agree with are points 8 and 10. 8: I go out to pull. When I'm on lunch, I order food and then do laps around the block pulling numbers and setting up tentatives. It's none of the "icing on the cake" mentality - pussy is my cake these days. Relationships and lasting connections are the icing. 10: I don't delete threads. I use my threadlist as a constant TODO list - constantly texting everyone once or twice a week until I've gone three times … | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 01:02 AM |
| 34 | Girls love being approachedTurning around and saying "I had to just pull a U turn because of how cute you are. Not only did you stop me in my tracks... you reversed me." or some shit is a GREAT way to open. Gives you something to laugh about right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 12:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went to a club lone-wolf styleIdk about all this "build social value" bullshit. I go out solo 90% of the time and I just do laps until I find someone cute, try to pull, and if it doesn't work, continue doing laps or just chilling and enjoying the music/scene. Trying to be "in" at the place is just stressful and you miss opportunities. By just being a regular, you become "in" with the staff, which is way more valuable than some chump at a bar. Unless you would rather genuinely make connections with anyone to build your social… | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I need your help. This hard 1-itis is fucking me up and nothing I do now seems to make sense. Please, guide me.Approach. Use a spreadsheet if you need to motivate yourself. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit#gid=560827056 | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I'M GOING TO DO 100 APPROACHES IN A WEEK [CAPS LOCK GUY]Can I recommend reformatting / color coding to keep it mobile-friendly and readable for yourself? https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit#gid=560827056 | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Enjoying Yourself vs SeductionTo each their own but I say fuck a passive approach. I go out to pull chicks - I try one after the other until something sticks. Ruthlessly moving from one opportunity to the next. In good spirit and fun of course. Some people bitch about "outcome dependence" - fuck it. If you want to dance, dance. If you want to fuck, hunt. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 06:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I FORCE myself to pursue women? (Please help anyone's suggestions are welcome)Tracking. Self-promo: https://playboyphilosophy.wordpress.com/2015/09/28/a-playboys-guide-to-street-game/ Spreadsheet: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit#gid=560827056 Have fun. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Girls I'm not interested in romantically want me, but the girls I'm interested in don't. Help a brother outWould you label a guy who's constantly talking to chicks "desperate"? Desperate is when you talk to so few that the smallest indication of interest is enough to send you buying rings and flowers. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 04:01 PM |
| 73 | Girls I'm not interested in romantically want me, but the girls I'm interested in don't. Help a brother outPersistence. Most of the time, the girls you're with won't be on the same level. Either they'll like you more or less than you like them. You keep trying, not giving up, and I guarantee you'll come across one that meets you at the highest wavelength. You'll ride that until it fizzles out, and resume your hunt for the next one. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 11:43 PM |
| 2 | My Guide to Street GameNever been called suspicious but I've been asked, "Is this your thing? Walk around and pick up girls?" a few times. Anyone intelligent would know that since you did it to them, you're likely doing it to other chicks too, so I say just roll with it. "You suspect me of hitting on only the cutest of cute chicks? Guilty as charged" laugh | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 11:16 PM |
| 3 | My Guide to Street Gameyet | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 08:03 PM |
| 2 | My Guide to Street GameI don't know why this is getting downvoted, it's spot-on | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:01 PM |
| -1 | My Guide to Street GameGoogle Sheets - it's free by google in the app store | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 03:38 PM |
| 2 | My Guide to Street GameYou're gonna kill it man. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 03:38 PM |
| 0 | My Guide to Street GameNo excuses here, just preferences <3 | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 06:44 AM |
| 1 | My Guide to Street Gamebut an initial flippant response does not mean disinterest I'm not interested in girls that give an initial flippant response, so in my case, it does. I like bubbly friendly chicks, not brats. To each their own I suppose, just don't be ignorant of obvious social queues is all I'm saying. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:51 AM |
| 3 | My Guide to Street GameThat happens to everyone. If you get to 50 with nothing in the next month, I'll give you $50. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:34 AM |
| -1 | My Guide to Street GameSee spreadsheet / other responses | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:32 AM |
| 1 | My Guide to Street GameThat's a pretty broad topic to cover in a comment response. I'll put some thought into this and maybe make a post about it. Stay tuned. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:31 AM |
| 0 | My Guide to Street GameDoesn't even have to be full FRs - I'm barely filling out the cells of the spreadsheet as I go along :p. Have fun! | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 12:02 AM |
| 2 | My Guide to Street GameI think it's an awesome way to do it. I used to play a game called "Next" with my buddies to make it even more fun - applies to daygame, night game, street game, whatever: https://playboyphilosophy.wordpress.com/2014/12/14/next-the-manliest-game-ever/ This way, you come back from an approach and laugh your asses off about whatever happened. But I'd say stick to approaching solo so you can develop those skills - stop depending on your friends to have conversations ASAP. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 12:01 AM |
| 10 | My Guide to Street GameTalk to any fitness enthusiast, investor, athlete, salesman, or "master" of any other discipline and I think you'll find that tracking is how you go from good to great. You'd have to have an insane amount of discipline to stay motivated and adjust effectively without tracking - and I don't have that :p. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 11:59 PM |
| 0 | My Guide to Street GameNo I do not. All reports I have ever written are on the blog, other than those no other FRs | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 11:48 PM |
| 1 | My Guide to Street GameOnly if something wild happens or if it results in some kind of epiphany | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 11:31 PM |
| 7 | My Guide to Street Gameyes | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | My Guide to Street GameNot really. It's a good way to take a breather and evaluate after each approach. And if you see someone else that you have to approach immediately after - the notes can wait. The point is to somehow track your progress. And no, not while clubbing or at bars (too chaotic), and if dates result in lays then I write full posts. See here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit?pli=1#gid=763375058 | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 11:10 PM |
| 5 | My Guide to Street GameKnock it out by the end of the week if you're serious. PM me if you need some ground support. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 10:26 PM |
| 20 | My Guide to Street GameI want to say that it just sounds like you haven't approached a lot of girls. I'd wager that within the first 20, you'll find at least one that blows all of those other chicks' preferences out of your memory because she's only into intelligent short guys. Keep at it man, it's a total numbers game. You think I remember the hundreds (maybe thousands) of chicks that have harshly rejected me over the years? Or that I take what they say personally? Not at all. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 10:04 PM |
| 15 | My Guide to Street GameShe won't because I haven't. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 09:48 PM |
| 3 | My Guide to Street GameI've never once gotten that. Do you preface with something to soften the delivery like "I hope you don't take this the wrong way" with a smirk? | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 09:48 PM |
| 4 | My Guide to Street GameThat's a core social skill that you can develop rapidly if you apply yourself. For me, the conversation usually revolves around the fact that I just moved to the city and asking her for her opinion on the various areas. This inevitably leads to other conversations about her job, hobbies, with a bunch of flirting to spice it all up. You won't grow if you don't fail a bunch of times. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 09:14 PM |
| 16 | My Guide to Street Game"Excuse me miss. I hope you don't take this the wrong way laugh but I think you're cute as hell. I'm flatout." | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 08:31 PM |
| 8 | My Guide to Street GameThanks very much. I say shelve this and focus 100% of your spare time on bettering your work/life balance until you have enough spare time to jump in. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 08:29 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Experiments gone bad (Direct game, violent confrontations)I learned the hard way that night game is some of the riskiest game because of volatile gorillas like this. You talk to one of "their" woman and something just clicks that sets them on a booze-fueled war path. I'm extremely cautious when approaching in that kind of environment now, and would advise everyone to take extreme care. No sense ending up in jail (or worse - hospitalized) over some pickup attempt. | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 03:30 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with guys who attempt to "steal" your intended pick-up?I just did this. Saw a cute girl talking to a guy at a rooftop bar. "Hey, so sorry for interrupting. Are you good at ping pong?" Got her to up and leave the dude she was talking to to go play with me. Easy peasy. I was more attractive, more confident, more interesting than the chump sitting next to her. There's nothing you can do. Just get up and approach the next girl. | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 09:58 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Picked up a girl off the street after a date fell flat. From street > cab > bedYes | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Picked up a girl off the street after a date fell flat. From street > cab > bedThanks man :). Yeah that's what it was. Just riding the high. | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | MonsterPost: [FR] Nothing-close, but a lovely night spent with a friendWe keep talking Why | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 06:44 PM |
| 4 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]Thanks man :) | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 02:52 AM |
| 1 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]Sure thing ") | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 02:52 AM |
| 3 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]Glad you enjoyed it :) | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 02:52 AM |
| 4 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]That stuff is totally necessary, otherwise you burn out. I watch 1-2 hours of netflix every week just to relax. It becomes a problem when those meaningless activities go from being "recharging" to "passing the time", IMO | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 02:51 AM |
| 2 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]My pleasure :) | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 09:28 PM |
| 3 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]only the benefits and the accomplishment will remain. Right on. That's exactly the sentiment I feel when jumping into one. Cheers :) | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsDude my pleasure. You're definitely on the right track, way ahead of where I was 3 years ago. And agreed - I too would rather be on an emotional rollercoaster than a couch :p. Cheers | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Relationship advice please.You don't "let" her do anything - she does what she wants and if you don't like it, you tell her and explain why. But anyone into fitness knows that half the reward is showing off your gains, and I wouldn't expect anyone to stop doing that. Work on either accepting the behavior or finding some chick in a burka that keeps you feeling secure | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsI think it would be as "safe" as approaching her in the first place. You expose your pride and ego and get hurt a bunch in exchange for the victories that make the rejections barely memorable. IMO a relationship is like an approach on steroids. You expose your heart and soul, become half of something more powerful than your last ten hookups combined. The happiest moments of my life have been shared with someone that needed me, and who I needed. It's a risk, and it's contrary to a lot of the PUA … | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 07:07 PM |
| 0 | [Question] What is the Ultimate Book?Amen | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 06:47 PM |
| 2 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsI've been there. It gets easier the more it happens, I can tell you that much. I guess we have to choose: avoid that pain by buffering our needs with a bunch of chicks but risk mucking up the purity of a real once-in-a-lifetime connection (most would go this way) or embrace the pain and watch it become more manageable as the rewards only get stronger and as you learn how to "safely" become emotionally dependent on someone special every once in a while. That's what i'm trying to learn how to do. … | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsHere you go: https://flatoutfree.wordpress.com/2015/06/23/55-black-box-mind-state/ | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:09 AM |
| 3 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsYou're right. I'm already catching myself checking my phone in hopes. But man, when it's her, it makes my fucking heart pound, you know? Part of me wants to just embrace the excitement along with the inevitable heartache. Color me masochist. At least it comes with the peace of mind that a weekend is all it takes to recover. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 06:45 AM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsThank you very much :) | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 06:36 AM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsHey man, glad you like it. I'm 26 - on and off since college (~5 years ago) | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 03:31 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about having sex with a milf?The same way you go about finding and hooking up with any other type of women. Daygame, night-game, online game, social circle game. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsAdams apple? That "feminine aura"? I have yet to be duped. As far as I know... | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsThank you so much. You know how to make someone want to keep writing :p | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsNot strange at all. Let me put some thought into that before responding. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsMy desire to tread new ground is eclipsed by my interest in maybe, potentially doing it "right" with Winnie. I'm prepped for the likely outcome of business as usual but... Just in case... I'd rather not muck up our story with something so little. I've made that mistake too many times. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsYeah dude I actually wrote a post here a while back on that - on my phone butnif you look at my history you should see it Edit: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/32j13r/some_okcupid_tips_ive_learned_over_the_years/ | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsThat would be a dream. Maybe some day... Thanks for reading :) | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsThanks so much ") | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsI spent a few years in DC but spend most of my time on the west coast now :) | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:41 PM |
| 7 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsI hope not | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:55 AM |
| 5 | Be honest - is it really possible for south asian bald man to get a woman?Dude I look like a gremlin and ive been getting laid every week. Get over it and leverage what you have control over - physique, income, intelligence, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:55 AM |
| 3 | I'm single for the first time in about two years, most of my friends left the area, not much happening in my city, not sure where to start.Option 4: daygame Option 5 (the correct option): all of the above | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Looking for skilled wingmen/communityI just launched https://www.wingmanner.com in case you want to take a look - it's quite small now as it just opened up but gotta start somewhere :) Feedback welcome! | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:02 AM |
| 1 | "Give her the gift of missing you."I like it. A lot. Especially the bit about not being explicit about saying "I miss you." I might not go the cocky route, but an indirect validation? Totally. Thanks. Giving gifts is a very rarely-wielded tool from my toolbelt, saved mostly for later stages in a potential or exiting relationship, but something about this girl just told me she would eat it up without looking into it too much. And you're right - one thing we differ on is who we hook up with. I know for a fact that I will never be e… | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | "Give her the gift of missing you."Awesome! Looking forward to it. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 05:42 AM |
| 4 | "Give her the gift of missing you."I did, that's my blog! This girl is the needy/attached/romantic type so I've catered to that, but I'm totally open to some CC :) | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 05:34 AM |
| 12 | "Give her the gift of missing you."Perfect timing. And spot on. From less than 20 minutes ago: http://i.imgur.com/q4MahMZ.png A (what I thought was) a one-night-stand (blog post: https://flatoutfree.wordpress.com/2015/06/06/51-vang-girl/ ) | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I got the number, now what?I mean, to each their own. But IMO, that's a great way to let the girl forget why she was into you in the first place. You met her and struck a spark, now you have to feed the fire. Just don't smother it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Right texting mindset, but bad outcomes...Anyone can give you some tips that have worked for them but the real way to answer this question is to calibrate through trial/error. Shit that works for me: send a random picture of something cool going on during your day. they usually reciprocate no Lols, hahas. Keep them limited. Use periods a lot. It conveys a sense of maturity that they love. Fuck timing games. if you text and they take an hour and you see it, text back right away. Anyways, if you post specific examples of shit that went "w… | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 03:56 AM |
| 1 | I got the number, now what?bar pool hall hike photo shoot teach her to drive a stick motorcycle ride make sangria together find a rooftop you can access and take her there to show her the view look for groupons in your area But also - keep the conversation going before you make plans. Don't just pounce with a suggestion - build rapport, keep the interest building up, and then naturally work in an "Oh yeah me too hey there's this X I bet you would love it." | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 03:52 AM |
| 15 | What to do when another guy(s) hits on the girl you're with in front of you?Then she is no longer the girlfriend | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 10:06 PM |
| 8 | What to do when another guy(s) hits on the girl you're with in front of you?We have a winner. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 04:26 PM |
| 2 | [LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned.Dude. That is exactly what she's like. Asian too. Thanks very much for reading :) | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 03:31 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned.I see wisdom in your words. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 03:29 AM |
| 2 | [LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned.I'm homeless bro | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 03:26 AM |
| 2 | [LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned.My post got removed so I worked with the mods, updated, and posted again. | /r/seduction | 14/06/15 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Am I making fool of myself ?No dude, you're not making a fool of yourself. Keep trying. And get over your fear of daygame - nightgame seems appealing because you can blend in and get drunk, but daygame can be so much more rewarding. Looking foreign is just a shitty rationalization to not take risks and grow from repeated failure. Get out there, keep trying, and you'll grow. If you don't, you'll be at your computer posting questions forever. | /r/seduction | 14/06/15 03:13 AM |
| 3 | [LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned.Negative :p | /r/seduction | 14/06/15 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Everything's going well in online dating world. Women are messaging me first. Getting a lot of message replies then....Don't stop online game but don't make it your focus. It's how you should be spending your time on the shitter, when you need an hour of distraction, post-workout recovery, etc. Some of my most exciting lays have been from online game. It truly is about sheer approach volume and rapidly building rapport and tension, and escalating over to text fast. You're not doing anything wrong - just 1) don't treat online game as a primary focus and 2) rapidly message and then focus when you get a bite until … | /r/seduction | 14/06/15 01:26 AM |
| 2 | How to be confident when kissing?Deliberately gentle Hand on neck, nails lightly caressing Fingers combing hair Hover Smile | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 10:21 PM |
| 2 | In a droughtIf the numbers you're landing aren't biting then you're not building enough rapport. Anyone can go and ask a girl for her number but how many guys make her look forward to receiving his text? Try to stay in set for as long as it takes to get her curious about you. Don't bail too early. Build up the temperature / tension and then leave on a hot note, or better yet, insta-date if you can. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 10:19 PM |
| 10 | Do you think my looks are an issue?Dude. You're hot. Coming from a straight dude. If I saw you at a bar I'd be like "ugh, making my life difficult." | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl Asking Your Intentions?+1 to young_g0d. I imagine her saying that with a smirk on her face, raising her eyebrows to entice you. Go grab drinks and flirt, have fun | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 06:40 PM |
| 5 | which country to move to?West coast USA. Income makes upnfor the taxes and you het every ethnic/cultural mix you could imagine | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys help me figure out what happened with this texting conversation?There you go, nice work. She wants to hang out with you man, just don't give her any reasons to change her mind. Don't overthink the whole PUA thing, you know? Have fun :) | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys help me figure out what happened with this texting conversation?I think you had it until your last text. A little too explicit. Being sexual is often more about using insinuation and innuendo to escalate gently. I would have said something more like "There's a start. We need to figure out where this crime is taking place." But don't get lost in the details. I think the biggest issue here is that you're becoming fixated on a single girl. Go out, get more numbers, and try being less explicit with your escalation and see how your results change. Keep trying now… | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Whatever I do , its seriously not working.I think your picture is fine. If you're a 4/10 then I'm fucked - you're a handsome dude. You look like the goddamn Persian prince from 300. If I hadn't read your post I'd think you were a suave, dangerous motherfucker. I bet that's how women feel too. I'm willing to bet that you come off as needy, lacking in confidence, or inexperienced when you approach women - be it online or in person. The only way you can fix that is by developing true confidence outside of the approach through other endeavo… | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis feels making a comebackYes. There are no "signs" - those are just your weaknesses surfacing around a coincidence to rationalize your comfortable desperation. Get the fuck out of that zone and go work out and talk to chicks. Get moving! | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis feels making a comebackA couple girls in 18 months. Dude. I don't care if you lost your virginity to this girl - if you want to get rid of oneitis, start meeting a couple girls every day. | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 10:35 PM |
| 3 | How to be free from relying on self-image?Crass: Stop being a bitch and just get out there and approach more. Gentle: Approach more. Fail more. Succeed more. Your successes will overshadow the failures. I promise you there will be stuck up women who already decided to be dismissive (or straight up disrespectful) before you entered their line of sight. But every once in a while you'll run across that "yes-girl" - the one who smiles and touches and plays and flirts and reciprocates - and all those failures will be forgotten. You'll get to… | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis feels making a comebackIt sounds like you aren't getting out there enough if a girl from 18 months ago is still dragging you down. Just go out to a crowded area and make some approaches man. You might meet your next girlfriend. Every minute you spent typing this up was a lost opportunity to change the trajectory of your love life. | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | [LR] Vietnamese 28yo Milf from Hermosa BeachThanks man. | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What to say if she already has a boyfriend?Why run a marathon when you could take a step | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 10:58 PM |
| 17 | What to say if she already has a boyfriend?just say "ok, have a nice day" with a smile and pick another girl! :) | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Some OkCupid tips I've learned over the yearsSelenium? | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Some OkCupid tips I've learned over the yearsyou got it | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:40 AM |
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