My Guide to Street Game

Hey guys - moved my blog over and wanted to kick the new one off with some lessons learned doing street game. Hope you enjoy.

Full blog post: https://playboyphilosophy.wordpress.com/2015/09/28/a-playboys-guide-to-street-game/

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Professionally single. It’s how you should see yourself if you want to commit to growing.

Street game is where you test and develop the culmination of everything you’ve learned. Fitness, hygiene, posture, body language, communication, escalation, passion, style, etc. It all comes together here in a rapid-fire take on extracting the highest possible amount of pleasure from life. If you haven’t even started trying to fine-tune these other areas of your life – you’re lucky. Just start here and reap the benefits of skipping over the time-sinks.

It’s not “day game” or “night game” – street game takes place at any time of the day on the street. You’ll be introducing yourself to beautiful women that are on their way to lunch from the office, on their way home from the gym, one their way from the bar to a club, or unknowingly on their way to a date with you.

Everyone has different reasons for getting into this. Maybe you want to become more confident. Maybe you want to find a girlfriend. Maybe you just want to fuck. For me – I’m hunting for memories. For growth. For shared experiences and eventually, a woman that’s perfect for me.

A passive approach is unacceptable. You must tackle this goal like any other – with focus, strategy and deliberation. You must go out with the intent to meet women, just like you go to the gym with the intent to get in better shape.

Regardless of your angle, your life will change, and it will change quickly.

Step 1: Commit

Do you want to get laid more? Do you want to experience the insanely positive impact this skillset has on all areas of your life?

Yes or no.

If yes – commit yourself to making some adjustments so you can minimize the time it takes to go from where you are now to wherever you’ve always dreamt of being. You might have to move. You might have to go back to school. You’ll definitely need to take some time out of every day to continually drive and track your growth.

Step 2: Prepare

Get your body and mind straight. Follow along here to set that forward if you don’t already have a system in place.

Get your location straight. For me, it’s the streets of downtown. For you, it might be the subway or the beach. Any place with a ton of people constantly coming and going is what you want.

Get your tracking straight. Open up Google Docs and set up a spreadsheet to track your approaches. Right now. Download Google Sheets onto your phone and prepare to be live-updating it as you make these approaches. The one I use is here:

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Z_bKNDN5g45ZCXRQ1onT0U2mlTMV01fRPDyUr2Ucnlw/edit?pli=1#gid=560827056

Code your approaches so you can track the dead ends, numbers, dates, and successes. Get this set up immediately. It takes 2 minutes. You can copy and paste mine if you want. Come back when that’s done.

Step 3: Execute

Get the fuck out there and talk to some girls. More is better. I shoot for ten a day.

Some pointers to keep in mind:

• BE RESPECTFUL. If you get any indication of disinterest, bail with respect. You’ll know within three seconds whether or not you should continue talking to whoever you approach. Do not pester, do not follow, do not try to change her mind – there are three billion other women out there. Don’t waste your time forcing one of them to explicitly tell you to fuck off.
• Street game allows you to walk around in clothing that puts your hard work at the gym on display. Tighter shirts or even A-shirts if you’re at the beach on the weekend.
• Approach 8+s only. If you waste your time talking to someone you only feel moderately attracted to, you might miss a chance to talk to a couple dimes.
• Don’t drink (or – don’t be drunk). You want to plant the roots of these skills deep. You can’t do that drunk. Being sober gives you precision, deliberation, strategy. Alcohol just pushes you to hail-Mary.
• Play with your openers, the stories you tell to build rapport, and the close. These conversations should be rapid. Every approach – even the successes – are opportunities to fine-tune your methods.
• Don’t worry about being “found out”. If you succeed with a hot woman and then stop because you don’t want her to catch onto you, you’ll lose a ton of opportunity. Chances are, she won’t see you. And if she does, she might not put two and two together. And if she does, she might not have even moved forward with you anyways. So why forego an opportunity to meet five more chicks on that block just so one might not be offended? Be unapologetic and embrace your mission here.
• Approach after you work out. It’s like a real-life power up that gives you superpowers.

And let me give you some reassurance:

Day 1: Uncomfortable

Day 2: Comfortable

Day 3+: Fun

If you follow this, you will see the above results. Your mind and attitude change so rapidly. It’s insane. I look back at before I started doing street game and can barely remember what it’s like to not know how to approach a girl. Now, when I walk on the street, I’m a machine. I’m actively scanning my surroundings for the hottest of women, hustling across intersections, jumping out of Ubers (giving them entertainment and a tip), telling my colleagues to “hang on a sec” – this shit is addicting. But as quickly as the comfort develops, it expires. You need to constantly be using these skills, or they will atrophy. This is a good thing – it keeps you getting laid. But it’s not a hobby. It’s a lifestyle. A philosophy.

I know that 90% of the people who read this won’t fully commit. But for the 10% that do – You’re about to wake up every morning feeling excited. Wondering what kind of girls you’re going to meet. Knowing that you’ll meet them. You’re about to blast through all of your self-doubt with women and everything else in life. If a girl cancels on you for some bullshit, it won’t phase you because you have 20 other ones to do something with or – worst case – you get to go out and have fun hunting. You’ll go to bed every night either with a girl, or totally satisfied with the people you just met through a girl you talked to, or a party you got invited to, or a hobby you were introduced to, or with the three dates you have lined up for tomorrow.

Your life will change as your newfound zest for life leads the way.

And I guarantee you this. The growth you’re about to experience will change who you are. It might lead you to a new city, a new career, a girlfriend. Fuck, it might even lead you to your future wife and family. You might not see immediate results in the form of naked women, but you’ll – at a minimum – immediately identify those areas of your life that need improvement and go on to improve them. There is literally no way that jumping into this with 100% commitment will not yield life-changing results. 95% won’t cut it though. If you’re going to do this, fucking do it.

Step 4: Escalate

For each of the girls that you meet during the day, work on them casually in the following days and weeks. Know that as the man, as the initiator, it is your job to continue initiating. To lead the way. To drive the conversations. To reveal the finest experiences that life has to offer. Don’t expect her to initiate, ever. That’s your role. Evolution gave us this responsibility – accept and embrace it. Drive those approaches into dates and ultimately to lays and intimate, lasting connections that constantly reroute your innards and drive you to grow as a man.

Suddenly, you have a list of girls to choose from. Your phone is constantly buzzing. You’re laughing all the time as you flirt with these curious women. You’re watching their curiosity grow into interest as you develop a skillset that gets you laid, wealthy, and happy.

Enjoy.