100 Days of Seduction Day 9: No great story....

CentralValleyAsian · 2016-04-21T04:50:03+00:00

Honestly, mad props. In "Think and Grow Rich", most successful people are consistent with their progress. That said, just make sure you're learning from your mistakes and that you're going up the stairs instead of down. I'm doing a 1,000 cold approach challenge (Currently on 72 recorded approaches) and I started in September. I'm not consistent, therefore I'm not successful. You've got momentum, keep going!

2016-04-21T22:51:26+00:00

I'll preface by saying that the girls I've approached in the past have either been on campus (uni students) or at parties / clubs (friends of friends), so I don't have much experience cold approaching.

Honestly, I don't really think about it. Regardless of whether alcohol is in my system or not (most of the time not), I just walk up to a girl and talk to her. I think the best thing to do is not overthink it, which is obviously easy to say but hard to do. So here are my tips on how to do this:

She's a person just like you. You know nothing about her so don't put her on a pedestal and treat her like she's something special (obviously this does not mean don't treat her with respect).
You are talking to her to get to know her. Choosing to approach her is a result of you being physically attracted to her, but now you want to gauge their personality and determine if you are emotionally attracted to her.
You don't have to get a number / date. That's perfectly fine. Don't feel like you've failed if that doesn't happen. The most likely reason for this is because she says no (for whatever reason), but it's also absolutely fine for you to not pursue it if you don't find the conversation stimulating (goes back to not treating her as anything special).
Enjoy it. This is a friendly encounter and it gives you experience. Again, there is no failing.
Finally, I heard this once and whilst I haven't really used it, it stuck with me. Imagine this girl taking a dump or farting. While this seems strange, it is basically a way for you to not idolise her (you don't even know her yet!). Remember: only you can put pressure on yourself in this situation.

Good luck! I look forward to reading Day 10.

Title	100 Days of Seduction Day 9: No great story....
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Date	April 21, 2016 1:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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