Running out of topics when talking to a girl on text.

thegreatestape · 2016-05-08T12:07:30+00:00

How did you meet her? From the start, texting should be used only as a means to meet her in person. That's it. I've heard several people say this, most recently Tyler from RSD, but texting is like walking through a landmine field. Text as little as possible, and only in order to meet the girl in person. Your flirtatious texts will be misunderstood, and you're gonna come across as creepy, narcissistic, weird, etc.

Don't. Do. A. Dinner. Date.

Not for a first date, anyways. It's awkward. A lot of women are kind of embarrassed to eat in front of other people, a question is always asked as food is being shoveled into a mouth, it's expensive, and there's that weird period at the end when you want to leave but you have to wait and fumble through paying for the meal. Maybe it's just me, but when I started this, I went for dinner dates every time on the first date, and I almost never even got a second date. Obviously, there were more factors at play in my own skills, but there's more pressure with dinner dates.

Instead, grab a coffee or a smoothie. From there, leave and walk through a park. Then, go to a grocery store and maybe pick out ingredients that only start with the letters "C, B, I, A, or M." Then try to make a friendly competition of who can make the best recipe from those ingredients. At your house.

But it has to be in person. Hope this helps

SClanding · 2016-05-08T13:30:08+00:00

One more time for newbies...you are wasting valuable material and time texting.......nothing romantically can develop between two people over a damnable computer network.

Conversation topics are just fodder for the real purpose of dating and hanging out......the physical intimacy of a boy and girl meshing their emotions, personalities and vibe in close proximity to each other in face-to-face meeting to unleash the 10K year old human nature of attraction and chemistry.

And she said she wanted to take it slow which does not mean that she doesn't want to hangout and do things....only that she does not want some girly man acting like a romance novel doobie declaring their love for her in the first 5 minutes of meeting her....(women know that you can can't love her that fast because you know NOTHING about her true nature and it signifies you as a desperate needy vamp).

And you are blowing your chance right now....you too meekly asked about maybe going out at some future date maybe(Typical beta male syndrome) and she provided you the opening by saying "she likes food".

She was looking for a MAN who would understand and immediately take the lead in setting up a meeting...you should have then told her that you were taking her out for coffee\small snack meal\anything fun on such and such day. I hope in all this texting you know something about a favorite place she likes or a type of activity she enjoys....she does not really care what it actually is but it would score points for you to have been paying attention.

But you are blowing it as we speak because she is looking for a man and is giving you the opportunity to step up.....she really isn't adverse to taking it "fast" only she doesn't want another loser like the last little boy whom declared his "love" for her in 2 minutes....get off the computer and man up...hang out, have fun and hook up....

Oh an one last warning.....don't be declaring some "feelings" crapola at the first opportunity, she already told you she finds that silly and she isn't impressed by such little boy notions.

Title	Running out of topics when talking to a girl on text.
Author	kikokenten
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	May 8, 2016 8:32 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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