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Nervous tells I cant control

Electricdonut · 2016-05-21T16:29:24+00:00

I feel pretty confident approaching women and engaging (I work retail) however some of my anxiety peaks through during conversation. I would have to say my...

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May 21, 2016

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Title	Nervous tells I cant control
Author	Electricdonut
Upvotes	6
Comments	3
Date	May 21, 2016 4:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4ke9oo/nervous_tells_i_cant_control/
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[–]PazuzuPazuzuPazuzu5 points 10 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Put yourself in those situations as often as you can.

This is kind of related- I used to have really bad nightmares when I slept on my back. Never knew why and I obviously couldn't control whether or not I would roll onto my back while I was asleep. Even if I was already asleep and woke up from a nightmare, I'd be on my back.

So what did I do? I started to go to sleep while laying on my back as often as I could. I still had nightmares, initially, but they slowly started to go away. Now it's difficult for me to fall asleep if I'm NOT laying on my back and I rarely have nightmares.

I don't know if this analogy will make sense to you or not, but it sounds like you need to sleeping on your back more often.

Tldr; keep putting yourself in situations that make you nervous. You'll slowly be less nervous every time.

[–]ZephyrBluu 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Electricdonut 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link