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How to Screen for Girls Who Are OKAY With You Dating...OTHER Girls

BecomingBetterMen

June 6, 2016

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http://thisistrouble.com/2016/06/04/how-to-screen-for-girls-who-are-okay-with-you-dating-other-girls/

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Title	How to Screen for Girls Who Are OKAY With You Dating...OTHER Girls
Author	BecomingBetterMen
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	June 6, 2016 4:15 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4mr6yp/how_to_screen_for_girls_who_are_okay_with_you/
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[–]CA_Tenant 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]BecomingBetterMen[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]CA_Tenant 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's usually happened in my experiences is that it encourages them to commit. I remember a few years back when I was oblivious about game, I barley started a relationship with a solid 9, maybe 8.5 to some but a 9 to me.

I remember sitting at a bench and she sees me text a girl I was seeing not even a month ago, "Holla, Linda." [Spanish for something like "Hello, lovely"]. She minorly lost her shit and I, being an oblivious douche, framed it as her problem - "I'm in a relationship with you. You have me. I'm not touching these girls. This isn't a big deal."

I meant it. I just liked flirting, but I guess that pushed her to grow feelings for me even faster because we only went out like 3 times over the span of two weeks before I made her my girlfriend.

She knew I was a flirt and thought that I was having sex with a lot of women because 85% of my friends are beautiful girls even though I wasn't.

Our one year anniversary come around, I accidentally stayed logged in to my Facebook on her laptop. I leave her place late at night, around 1 am, she texts me 15 minutes later saying we need to take a week break. She saw the messages I was sending girls. I was flirting with them, sometimes heavily.

She took me back 3 or 4 days later.

And about two years before that, two girls I was flirting with got into a passive-aggressive fight over me. It got pretty vicious by girl's standards (talking about weight, being dumb, all things but calling each other sluts). I quickly ditched them both because it got uncomfortable. I guess this showed abundance, but luckily the less hot one left and I got the hot one's number as well as the hot one's hot friend. I actually liked the less hot one better who was a 6 body 8 because she was smart and we vibed well compard to the 9 face with the 8 body...

This is all before I really got into game, before I knew about abundance. I knew about negs and self-amusement, but vaguely.

100% of the girls I've ever gotten were because I came across as looking like I was willing to walk away at any point when in reality I was just aloof.

[–]Kinkzor 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Idfsupporter 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link