Ok this is probably going to get down voted before anyone sees it but here I go. A little back story here, as a child/teen I always struggled with being confident and happy and therefore struggled with girls as well. The last few years I finally started having success with all of these things leading to me being in the longest, most fulfilling relationship of my life so far. Fast forward to break where she hurt me and destroyed my confidence and now I'm struggling again. Despite knowing what to do now I can't really fake confidence. I've tried everything u can think of but nothing seems to work. Since school is out and I work in construction the only place where I know to meet girls now is tinder. I'm bisexual and in th e meantime I've been hooking up with guys that are very attractive but I only want a relationship with a girl. I get matches with pretty girls a decent amount but no matter what I say they never respond. So I made a fake tinder profile, not to hurt women because I feel entitled to sex but just to experience what it's like to be a truly physically attractive man and talk to pretty girls. I soon discovered that with all the pressure of actually making a date off and with interest shown by these girls I was able to talk to them and be charming and witty and confident like I was as myself a year ago. Doing this has made me less confident about my looks but very confident about personality. These girls acted like they'd been waiting for a guy like me their whole lives, the only problem was they wanted that personality on a face like "Ryan's". I know what I'm doing is wrong but it's the only way I get practice talking to girls. What I want to know now is how do I open with the girls that do match with the real me so I can get a real conversation going where I can talk to them the way I would if I was "Ryan"