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I feel as though women don't respect me, and I am unable to approach because this vibe they throw me

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June 27, 2016

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Title	I feel as though women don't respect me, and I am unable to approach because this vibe they throw me
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	June 27, 2016 10:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4q62od/i_feel_as_though_women_dont_respect_me_and_i_am/
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[–]Tesseract1324 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheXXL 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There is a saying: Respect is nothing you deserve, you have to earn it. While there are many different ways to earn respect, the most important way is to, like the other commenter said, to respect yourself. This incorporates that you don't let people treat you in certain ways, that you are true to yourself and others, and that you don't be nice to people just because you think they will like you for it Be nice to people if they are nice to you, but if they are not, leave them alone.

As to your problem not getting attention from women, why even care? It doesn't mean anything. I don't get much attention, at least i am not aware of it, and still, when i approach a girl, and start to work my magic, they focus on me. Sure, i get rejected, so what? Next. The trick is, to not give a fuck, and do the work.

Also i can only speak from my own experience with online dating: dude it sucks really hard. Women get bombarded with hundreds of matches/messages a day so they think they are the most sought after female on this planet. Therefore it's natural that you have to do all the work and get disinterest in return... it's the name of the game, better get outside and approach, there you have her undivided attention. At last, don't give a fuck about those stupid feminazi harassment horrorstories, those people are just brain dead.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link