Interesting halloween party I went to with my friends. The first thing I got called out on by a girl that night was my mumbling, in my terms my LACK OF VOCAL PROJECTION. I was still seen as a cool guy not an alpha by any means though. Had some good sets but let them get away due to my lack of dominance (for lack of a better word atm).

Worst Sets/interactions:

  • Crazy host - my first interaction with the host was pretty meek on my part. I would mumble which kinda gave off a beta vibe. Although my body language and eye contact came off strong. She also called me out but I stood my ground and took it and improved on the spot.

  • Sexy Abe Lincoln - hottest chick at the party but spoke to no guys while I was there. I was quiet and had to repeat my self. What I did right was I felt entitled to her but I should've gained more momentum with the party from the start to really be able to hook her easily.

Good sets:

  • Rhonda Rousey and Friend - came into the set with the ufc chick pretty slow but gained momentum quickly with physical escalation had a lot of fun with her. Very physical and had more of a man to woman interaction with her. She wanted to get another drink to loosen up but started gagging after she got the drink. What I should've done was be more assertive and just made out with her on the spot after saying she doesn't need another drink.

  • Chola - Came off very sexual right off the bat with the chola chick and I could tell she was digging me but for some retarded reason I left the set.

Verdict:

  • Came off pretty fun during the party but I wasn't THE LIFE OF THE PARTY
  • Start working on my momentum as soon as I get In. OPEN EVERYONE and BE FUN.
  • Be more man to woman off the bat. If the girl is attracted to you she will be receptive if not you just weeded out a girl who isn't attracted to you so it's a WIN-WIN.
  • Assume funny and silly shit be self amused.
  • Work on assertiveness and dominance in the set when Increasing sexuality - go for the make out.
  • Be more physical.
  • BE LOUD
  • The line : "are you attracted to me" can work wonders

Random things to work on:

  • Remembering names
  • Remembering things a girl likes
  • Talking about random shit