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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't just look at her every time you go to the gym! That perpetuates a circle of creepyness that over time will create a very negative association in her brain about you "The creepy guy that just stares at me".
Meet her as soon as possible, introduce yourself in whatever way you want. For example, if you just started to go to the gym in July 1st; say hi to her that first day (the earlier the better). Over time keep saying 1 stupid thing to her every day (tell her about your weekend, or ask her about hers), in no time she will become used to seeing you as an acquaintance. A month or two down the road you should ask her out.
[–]questionthis -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not really a field report. But here's what I'd do:
Next time you see her at the gym, just cold approach and be like "Hey, how's it going. So last week I noticed you in the parking lot, and I've been kicking myself for not asking for your number."
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