His wife is a blazing fire. Not my type in particular, but she is clearly an 8+. My friend meanwhile has decayed from a 6/7 all the way down to a "maybe" 4. He needs his teeth fixed, he's gained an epic amount of weight (like 100+), and he's a stay at home dad even though he has the skills to earn some crazy money.

He said he's starting to hit the gym, which is a good start, but I fear losing 100 pounds is going to take longer than losing his wife. He lives across the country so I didn't know until he posted some recent pics, otherwise would have stepped in sooner.

Is there anything I can do for my friend to give him a little bit of a sense of urgency?

Also, due to his wife's job, she is sometimes away for months at a time and she is crazy buff. So there's that too.