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How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?

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August 9, 2016

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Title	How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	20
Date	August 9, 2016 6:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4wxp0y/how_can_you_get_a_girl_to_want_you_more_over_text/
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[–]kx2UPP 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I didn't understand this,

Poor edit job on my part. Fixed now.

Point is, you're all focused, needlessly, on someone who's not there.

And not only that, if she's on vacation, your hands are tied. The only real way to get a girl to reach out to you, is if you laid the groundwork beforehand with your previous interactions.

This idea of "making her want to" reach out through social media, when you haven't already made an impression strong enough in person, is just not how it really works.

And the thread has basically told you that you need to do something to prove yourself to her, which doesn't fly either. Like if you do the right thing, she'd come around and become interested in you, over social media.

No. You build it in person. Then she'll want to reach out and stay connected.

So focus on girls who you can actually physically be with.

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[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I was going to her house to see her, watch a movie and relax with her but she blew me off because her parents were going to leave and didn't know I was coming round

I don't understand. So she canceled because she didn't want to be alone with you in the house with her parents gone? Or because she felt bad she didn't tell them?

which I then stupidly asked if it was intentional (Which it wasn't) and it sparked from there.

Oh yeah. Well, going negative and insecure will sink you every time.

So now I am trying to recover from that and thinking of ways to text her/her to text me but don't know any.

Yeah. This whole situation was probably the most important part lf your post and you left it out and asked people advice for a situation that implied nothing was wrong.

There may not be a way to recover from going in the direction you went into.

You could apologize for blaming her when it wasn't intentional. Keep it simple.

But there's no guarantee she'll let you back in.

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