I'm too impatient and I think its one of the things that has an effect on my interactions with women/people in general, any advice to work on this?

IronManSeduction · 2016-08-11T17:15:59+00:00

Hi get_hype_4_lyfe,

Seduction/pua is funny in that sometimes it requires patience in areas that count, and sometimes it requires boldness and action.

Definitely don't lose your desire to want results. This will give you the necessary drive to push your limits and go for what you want.

Areas in which patience are key are: text responses, degree of interest, and availability.

Don't text too much and too often. In the beginning, text messaging should always be used for logistics only.

It's important to show romantic interest in a woman, but don't show too much. In other words, your words and actions should sub-communicate that you find her attractive and want to have sex with her, but you're not easy to win over.

You should also purposefully limit your availability. It's best to do this naturally by developing your hobbies and expanding your social network. However if you don't have anything going on, you should manufacture some scarcity.

Those are the 3 immediate areas that I can see you improve. As long as you translate your impatience to confident courage, then you're in good shape.

Hope this helps.

Woujo · 2016-08-11T18:09:19+00:00

Basically, I'm just an impatient guy who usually wants results.

That's because you are fundamentally unhappy and need some external stimulus to make you feel good. If you had a baseline happiness that you always experienced, you wouldn't be so impatient and demanding.

When I go out, I couldn't give less of a fuck whether I get laid. Part of that is because I've had so much fun in the past, but part of it is that I'm genuinely happy. Even if terrible shit happens (the party gets busted, the cops come, the girls flake), I still have a good time because I am happy at my soul. I have an article on this on my website woujo.com

I basically have nothing going on in my life aside from work and I'm usually available for some woman I met online.

Maybe that's why. You need some activities to make you happy. Women can't be at the top of your list for recreation.

Title	I'm too impatient and I think its one of the things that has an effect on my interactions with women/people in general, any advice to work on this?
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Date	August 11, 2016 2:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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