As a (very) Short Man, should I wear Shoe Lifts when Clubbing to keep up with Heels?

TheXXL · 2016-08-12T06:13:28+00:00

But I never have had success at night, where I feel like a child, and everyone is taller than me,

That's your problem. The way you feel shows on the outside.

I wonder if this is due to inexperience and being uncomfortable,

I'm sure it's that.

in an environment where you are judged superficially

The nice thing about human psychology is that no matter how hard you try to not be influenced by your subconsciousness, it will never work. The superficiality is a culture induced phenomenon, and will lead to strange things like "he is so not my type, but I feel so drawn to him!"

Should I wear shoe-lifts which will give me 3-4" innocuously at night,

Sure, if you want to show off your insecurities to all the people there... Don't think women won't notice, they definitely will, and then judge you for being an insecure short guy.

or grow comfortable being short because shoe-lifts would be a sign of insecurity, and women view personality as primary and looks secondary as compared to men who generally do the opposite?

This. I feel you are pretty confident to begin with, so there should be no need to fake something you aren't. Being real, and not giving a fuck about others superficialites is Sexy, use that to your advantage.

EliteNewbz · 2016-08-12T16:29:52+00:00

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SexySmexxy · 2016-08-12T22:59:13+00:00

Let me be blunt.

3-4" shoes are not going to get you miraculously laid lol.

Title	As a (very) Short Man, should I wear Shoe Lifts when Clubbing to keep up with Heels?
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Date	August 12, 2016 5:53 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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