When are you just flat out Insulting women.

MasterMH · 2014-08-01T08:32:05+00:00

No, you're misunderstanding. Agree and amplify is meant to be "cocky funny". You should never be actually insulting, even if anything you're saying is insulting it should not be taken as an insult - you should get " you're such an asshole" with a light smack on the leg for example. Which means you're in.

Eg. "Does this dress make me look fat" .. "Yeah, totally - huge. I thought you were the moon for a second." You need to also deliver this right, its ridiculous and therefore funny IF delivered right. Delivered wrong makes you a cunt. There's the difference.

PS: check out "year one rational male". It will help you unplug and has a lot of basic advice like this.

RAL9000 · 2014-08-01T08:36:09+00:00

depends on your social calibration and the woman. experiment with how far you can go and use your judgement for the situation.

jamieoneal82 · 2014-08-01T11:25:45+00:00

All of the shit test advice, like A&A, pressure flip, etc, are really just ways to teach socially awkward men little tricks to make it look like they know how to flirt. Don't take this personally, it's just a "fake it till you make it" strategy.

Once you start applying, practicing and experimenting with these techniques you'll start to develop a subconscious heuristic and mental framework that's functionally equivalent to social intelligence while simultaneously helping you to overcome your irrational fear of women.

The ultimate goal is to train your mind to de-pedestalize women and realize that they want a man who, instead of walking on eggshells trying to please them, is actually able to face them head-on and challenge them.

tl;dr, it's called flirting. Most men just don't know how to do that so we invent shortcuts.

[deleted] · 2014-08-01T14:37:39+00:00

Never.

Don't insult them, that's an emotional response that shows that you are not the strong unflappable rock that they want.

[deleted] · 2014-08-01T15:05:57+00:00

It starts with her shit test; you just A&A. If she can't handle it, she should not dish it out!

skoobled · 2014-08-01T15:45:44+00:00

I understand the problem. Girl I was out with last night eventually called me out on implying that she was bad luck after I teased her about some travel foul ups she'd had. She also called me on being 15 mins late. The point, though, is that she was smiling when she said this so definitely NOT genuinely angry. Therefore I laughed it off. This is chick communication in a nutshell

Title	When are you just flat out Insulting women.
Author	BreesorFoster
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Date	August 1, 2014 7:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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