I haven't done an approach in over a year, I might be pushing two years. I recently joined the military and went to basic back in February, then AIT( advance individual training). During basic I was only allowed to speak when spoken to and fraternization was a big no-no, both in Basic and AIT. I finally got to my first duty station and as a single solider I should be out their gaming, but nope, not the case. I was out in the town last night with a few of my buddies and one them saw a girl that they knew, and it just so happen that she had friends with her, my buddy was being a wing, but just the thought of talking to theses girls made me sick to my stomach I just wanted to vanish into thin air. Two or three years ago I wasn't like this, I'd talk to anyone, I had no care in the world I just wanted to have fun, wether I got rejected or not. How do I get back in the game after being out of it for so long?