Nothing terribly exciting, but i like to try to document my nights out with FR's.
First approach in the outside area of a nice little bar by the seaside.
There's 3 girls on the table next to us. I'm with my friends, and I don't want to start talking to them in front of my friends.
My friends disappear to the bar at the same time so now it's just me and the girls.
We are sitting fairly close to a scary looking rollercoaster type thing.
I look at one of them, smile and say
(me)''Hey! I've got a ticket for that ride up there. Fancy it!?'' (I was lieing here. I didn't have one)
(her) ''Nahhhh.''
(me) ''Why not? You're not scared are ya?!!''
(her) ''lol, no. We've got these bands (showed me her wrist) so we can go on any rides , anyway
(me) Ooooooh. You're just showing off now!
(her) haha
(me) So what are you up too tonight? Going anywhere fun?
(her) No. nothing planned.
(at this point, the really hot one who was closest to me turned her back to me, the other one was kind of looking away, and the one I was mainly talking too was giving me the vibe that she didn't want to talk)
It went quiet, and so I started telling them why I was out and stuff,
''Yeah, so me and my friends are out for a mates stag doo. We're going to Xbar later on''
but at this point it got a bit weird, because they all basically ignored me, lol.
i'm not sure if I done something wrong or if I was just unlucky in terms of the girls not being that friendly.
I just gave up trying to talk to them, and left a few minutes after. Awkward.
Next one.
I'm in a different bar. There's 2 hot girls sitting on a table next to where I am standing.
I can't exactly remember how i opened unfortunately.
I THINK it was something like
''hey guys! What's up?! Just you 2 out tonight?''
I asked their names and noticed they had an accent and then asked where they were from,
They said they were from Switzerland.
I then asked them what they were doing here and stuff.
I then found myself struggling as to what to say.
I could tell that they weren't overly interested in me, though. They didn't ask me any questions, either.
One of my friends came over to us and stood next to me, and I said to him
''Hey, meet my new friends. This is claire and this is kelly'' (these weren't their names. I was just amusing myself )
Girls: ''Haha! they're not our names!!''
I told them I was just messing around. My friend didn't contribute anything, and I felt like I couldn't think of anything to say, and then the girls were like ''Anyway, Nice meeting you'', and they went inside. I didn't see them again
This was maybe the most successful one in terms of I felt as thought there was some attraction.
Again, unfortuntely I can't remember how i opened :(
I possibly just commented on something she was wearing.
They were standing near me as they were queueing up to get to the bar.
My brother was being served and he kind of gave me an in, because he looked at me and asked me what I wanted, and then I think he asked the girls what they wanted!
They were kind of polite and I think they were reticent to accept his offer, and then I was like
''Get in there quick, girls, before he changes his mind!''
They asked him for vodka lemonades.
Then we got out drinks and I just basically lead them onto the dance floor. My brother dancing with one, and me dancing with the other one.
It was kind of loud so hard to talk, but I remember just being a bit flirty. Lots of kino. I told her she was cute. We got kind of close and I feel as though I could have possibly gone for the kiss, but I don't think enough attraction had been built, and my instincts told me that it wasn't a good idea.
I wish I could remember how it fizzled out so that maybe I could learn from it, but after a little while, they both disappeared. I don't think my brother was really flirting with the other one, so maybe that didn't help? Maybe she dragged my one away, but I can't honestly remember!
Still, not really painful rejections right after the opener which was nice. I've had quite a few 'go away' type reactions after saying 'hi' in recent weeks, so it was a mild confidence boost, even if I didn't 'get anywhere' as usual, lol
Oh, and I made a last minute direct approach on a hot promotions girl who was giving out flyers. Doesn't really count, though. She was working and it's basically her job to flirt with people! Super hot, though :(
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