You got the girl, she's into you, it's now exclusive. What are the best ways to make it stick?

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-08-29T13:57:36+00:00

Give her a talk and see if she wants a relationship. After that, make some decisions.

thelastpua · 2016-08-29T17:40:50+00:00

I've been in a relationship with my gf for close to a year and a half now, and what I would advise you is to not change who you are, always keep seducing her (complacency will kill your relationship), and don't ever be needy if possible. Also strive to improve as a person in all aspects of your life, because a man with goals and ambition is damn attractive to women, and I think you'll be just fine imo.

XSplain · 2016-08-29T15:31:31+00:00

Never be in a position where you can't walk away if she makes your life worse instead of better.

This means emotionally, physically, friend network, financially. If you can't walk away, you'll never be truly choosing to stay.

darthjedibinks · 2016-08-29T14:16:16+00:00

Great and that's a fantastic thing. Happy you found the "One".

Now the best thing you could do is forget all the advice from PUA guides and forums and be true to your character and try to charm her.

As you want to be in a relationship, trying something fake like PUA techniques may hurt the ultimate goal.

Just be you and think what "the you" would do to make her happy and do that. Talk to her. You said you both are inseparable so talk to her and see if she wants to take things further.

Stay casual. Have Fun. Stay Happy. Make her all yours.

Cheers

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-29T15:10:58+00:00

One of the pieces of advice that helped me the most when I attained my first LTR was "Once you have sex with a woman, it becomes their role to manage the relationship." Many coaches have mentioned this, but girls are basically naturally providing the blue prints to you every day for how to get deeper and more committed into a relationship with them. It might be something small to start, like sending you their work schedule, mentioning distant plans etc.

You can just sit back for now, build the relationship and think about how you want to support each other, and keep an eye out for those signs. You don't want to start pushing these signs onto her, if she is already pushing her own. You can just respond to them in a way that communicates that you're committed.

Best of luck,

Evan Magor - Honest Dating Coach - Anyone who wants an awesome dating life can schedule a FREE 30-minute advice session through skype with me here: https://calendly.com/evanmagor/

Title	You got the girl, she's into you, it's now exclusive. What are the best ways to make it stick?
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Date	August 29, 2016 1:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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