How to you guys not get attach to a girl...

2016-09-05T13:01:50+00:00

I've realized along the way that I truly love all women. Each woman has something unique about her that makes her attractive, at least to me. It's hard to let that go, but I know there are so many more women with interesting qualities. In a way, living is like Dora from Finding Nemo. I can't stop, they're all fantastic.

nriopel · 2016-09-05T13:22:01+00:00

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Q-gonzalez · 2016-09-05T10:36:40+00:00

Yeah dude, you gain a connection with someone and it hurts to be apart. You'll miss them from time to time but wait it out and you'll feel better. If you travel back to where they are for whatever reason meat up for drink and or more..

SinSlayer · 2016-09-05T15:28:50+00:00

Listen, it's IMPOSSIBLE to have a positive reoccurring experience with someone and not establish feelings for them. The trick is to learn how to guage and handle those feelings. Plus, moving away doesnt mean losing contact. I have a ton of girls I talk to on occasion and see every blue moon. Its good to be friends.

nriopel · 2016-09-05T15:29:13+00:00

You have to accept there will always be another, and that she won't be the last. Maybe one day you'll find one and say she's the last, but you've only listed 2 girls. Think of all the other girls you were "attached" to that you're not attached to anymore.

Bulk_king11 · 2016-09-05T14:31:35+00:00

Go find more then you won't get attached to any. I have so many girls in rotation at this point. I'm afraid I'll never be able to have true feelings for just one

trooper9128 · 2016-09-05T17:36:49+00:00

Yeah dude this happens to me as well, and I suspect it happens to the vast majority of ameatur PUAs out there. Any time I meet someone I feel like I really connect with and who I perceive as better than the usual baseline of women that come and go through my life I have to work very hard not to get too hung up/attached/needy. Even if you weren't moving away for school, its easy to develop "oneitis" and drive the girl away due to your own neediness. The best advice I can offer you is to go out and meet new women, know that this isn't the last time you will feel pain from attachment, and recognize that with a little time this too will pass. Meeting new women is the key though. After these same attachment issues occur in your life 5 times or so you will start to recognize when the emotional pain might be coming and logically recognize that there are other women you can meet who are just as good or better than this one.

Also as a sidenote, I'd tell the girl very directly that you enjoyed your time together with her, you wish it could last longer, but due to these logistical challenges outside of your control you have to go. And that if you are ever in Tofino (Where the fuck is Tofino?) or she is in Montreal that the door is open. AND THEN DONT MESSAGE HER UNTIL YOU ARE IN TOFINO. This way you can leave the opportunity to make something happen with her again. If you are knocking on her door via text everyday its going to drive her away.

Just my two cents. Dont let this drive you out of the game. I guarantee there are even brighter things than her in your future if you stay with it.

Title	How to you guys not get attach to a girl...
Author	nriopel
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	September 5, 2016 10:33 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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