From fairytale to hell in the matter of minutes! Mind-boggling, feedback greatly appreciated (FR)

2016-09-14T20:42:47+00:00

This has happened to me before and trust me it sucks.

You pushed too much.

You were killing it in escalation but you jumped too far ahead. You went from some small kissing to going back to your place. She most likely thought you just wanted to fuck her.

I remember this girl I met on a soccer team. We talked and went on a date. Everything seemed right until I jumped too far ahead. At the movies making out and afterwards I wanted to go back to my house. No one was home and she agreed. Then I felt it. The disconnection. I didn't know what to do and just assumed it would pass. We snuggled and watched a movie but I didn't feel right. Next day she blew up about how I was a fuck boy and just wanted her body. I friend zoned her and now were just texting buddies.

Moving in on the first date was where you went wrong. Each girl has their own pace on how they want to progress with you.

Seems like you are a fairly experience PUA and within a week of daily day game you can get someone.

Don't get hung up over this girl. Do not beat yourself up. Shit happens and there are plenty of better women than her.

Just keep approaching.

ambiguous_juice · 2016-09-14T21:07:07+00:00

Hey dude sucks to hear how it went down but on the bright side at least you are good at escalating. I had a similar experience with a date a month or so ago were we just clicked. I just sat there like an idiot smiling and not making any moves while she would occasionally laugh and touch me. You live and you learn though, just keep going on dates plenty of fish in the sea.

woegni_z · 2016-09-14T21:45:08+00:00

Sorry dude but i cant fully agree with this opnion! I would say you did defenitly did the right thing to push it. She was obviously into you. Chances are that this had nothing to do with you are in my opnion rather high Maybe she had her "special day in the month" and felt so akward for not doing it. She thought like you wont like her anymore.

I think it it would be wrong to follow this advice. Alternate universe: you follow the advice, she is into you and wants sex. You dont want things happen too fast and don't push, she thinks you are a little baby and the attraction goes down, because you didnt push.

Game is so much randomness. Being in the right spot at the right time. Move on! I see no mistake in your actions

Title	From fairytale to hell in the matter of minutes! Mind-boggling, feedback greatly appreciated (FR)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	September 14, 2016 7:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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